What motivates you to start studying or working?

My dad took my sister to college on a bus. On the way back, in order to save money, I didn't eat at a roadside restaurant with the people on the bus, but only bought biscuits and squatted on the roadside with boiling water to eat. Later, the car drove and he didn't call him, so he ran after the bus for a long time.

When I think of my dad squatting on the side of the road and eating biscuits with boiling water, I am very motivated.

Once when I watched "Looking for Chinese Beauty" in 2017, I was shocked when I saw many women standing on the stage confidently and optimistically, the same women, why can they stand out from the crowd with a smile, and I am just the inconspicuous one in the crowd?

Since then, I have been firmly convinced to live for myself, even if I am sometimes tired, but I still have to persevere, just to realize my own value.

Because of the motivation of my parents and the expectations of my classmates, I believe that I will succeed and I am not worse than others.

When I'm tired at work, I think about it, I still have to buy a house for 3,000,000, and I have the motivation to buy a car for 1,000,000.

My grandfather, who was seriously ill, looked at me expectantly, and he wanted me to excel and study hard, so I was determined to succeed.

If I am given another chance, I will definitely not waste my time, I will definitely study hard, work hard to give myself a good future.

Because my parents are urging me to study hard for the college entrance examination, they give me earnestly, hoping that I can live up to their nurturing grace and must study hard.

The person I like is still very good, so I have to try to be as good as him.

In order to be able to allow yourself to choose life, rather than being forced to choose for the sake of life.

I may have developed a good habit for myself since I was a child, and I have lived for a long time, and I will never leave myself a burden after today's events in this life.

In order to make the people who love me feel that I am worthy of love.

Our house was bought by the old woman with a down payment, and the real estate certificate is in the name of the husband. Every time I quarrel with my husband, my husband will say to me, "If you don't like to stay, get out of here."

Because of this, I don't feel like I belong. I think it's someone else's family who dares to talk to me so boldly. Therefore, it is better for anyone to have it than to have it themselves, and only what they have worked hard for is truly their own.

In order to study in a purely academic environment in college, meet excellent classmates and first love boys, improve your horizons, and raise your level.

In order to rely on his true talent and learning when looking for a job, he conquered the examiner with his strength rather than his appearance, so that the opponent could lose convincingly.

In order not to be poked in the back by others after work, saying "an empty vase with good looks" or even "a three-no product with no looks, no figure, and no strength".

In order to attract better men with good tutoring and proper manners when talking about love.

In order to rely on his own quality and charm, he can get a precious pure love that has nothing to do with the world, money, and status.

No matter where they are, parents who are far away from home do not have to worry about their livelihood and future, but always believe with confidence that "my daughter can always live better than us".

In order to let the male ticket get his hands when he gets married, so that the future in-laws will be convinced.

In order to maintain economic independence and a strong voice after marriage, with the hardest iron rice bowl (Master Zheng Yuanjie once said that the biggest iron rice bowl is not to have food in one place for a lifetime, but to have food to eat when you go to the **), you don't have to be at the mercy of your husband and in-laws.

In order not to spend a huge amount of money to send children to early education after having children, their correct three views and accumulated knowledge can give children a good education by themselves, establish correct three views, and let him not lose at the starting line.

In order to meet a scumbag in marriage unfortunately, he can still be stubborn and leave, even if he leaves, he can live well, instead of compromising for his livelihood and for his children to have a better life.

In order for children to go to school, they don't have to stick to education fees, they can choose the best and most suitable school regardless of economic factors, they can learn if they like piano, they like to paint, they want to study abroad, as long as their grades are enough, their mother is not short of money!

In order to give their parents a better life in their later years, give them a big house, meet their mother's small wish of "planting flowers and vegetables in the courtyard of their own home" when they were young, and take their parents out of the country for the first time to see the tears in their eyes when their first passport was stamped with an exit stamp.

For the day when my parents are old, I have already laid a good financial foundation, once my parents are sick and hospitalized, I can boldly say to the doctor, "Please use the best medicine, as long as they are healthy, I don't care about money", instead of pitifully asking "Can this medicine be reimbursed by medical insurance"?

For the sake of our life, even if the starting point is low and the platform is weak at the beginning, we can slowly change our fate and rise to a better class through our own unremitting efforts, so as to improve the living standards of our families, make my husband respect and admiration, make my parents proud and assured, let my children win at the starting line, and let myself live with dignity and hope!