How Mom and Dad should educate us

Before elementary school, he mainly beat up, after junior high school, he mainly preached, and after college, he basically managed by himself.

My parents were very strict and strict with my education.

Since I was a child, I was very afraid of my parents, they were very busy and tired at work every day, and when I returned home to face housework and several children who no one helped to do, I may have already exhausted my mental strength, so I didn't have much patience with my children, and I would lose my temper at every turn, I thought I wasn't very naughty, but I didn't suffer less from my parents' scolding.

I don't like that kind of family atmosphere, so after getting married or having children, I adopt the policy of "moving with affection and understanding with reason.""Let children grow up in a relaxed, happy and harmonious environment, which is conducive to getting along with others more harmoniously when they grow up.

On the issue of educating children, the concept of education for parents and parents.

Inconsistencies, disagreements are very normal. So how should we deal with the problem at this time? First of all, when the parents have different educational concepts, the parents must discuss with the husband and wife in the absence of the child and come to a result.

Educate your child. If there is a big difference in the concept of education that cannot be resolved even by discussion, then the mother can consult with the relevant teacher and ask them to give advice. You can also ask your child what kind of education he wants to have.

The family discussed together to find an education that is most beneficial to the child. Children are the core of the family, and we all want our children to get the best education. So choose to do the best education for your child without harming your child.

On the issue of educating children, couples should learn to unify their own parenting views, although each other's experiences and experiences are not consistent, but the heart of seeking the right parenting concept is the same, not that when there is a disagreement, each other has to fight for each other, to determine which is right, for children's education, there is no right or not, only suitable for the best, suitable for the child. Parents who are new parents are not able to find an educational concept suitable for their children at the beginning, but slowly explore and grow up. For example, parents adopt "free-range" education for their children, and children can develop freely in a safe space, but when children watch TV frequently, they begin to have inconsistent views with each other, and mothers feel that children are not good at watching TV, and they can't let them watch TV, so they need to control more; Dad thinks that the child is still young, and being so strict is a constraint on the child, and it doesn't matter if the child can watch TV.

The two sides have inconsistencies on this issue of the child's ** TV, and many times of communication have been fruitless, why? Because at this time it is not the time to argue about who is right and who is wrong, when it comes to right and wrong, no one is wrong, it is all for the good of the child, and this starting point is the same. And you can't experiment with it, first control your child to watch TV for a period of time, and then don't control it for a period of time, compare your child's reaction, which may not be possible in reality, so you can find a compromise method, such as tokens (let children exchange their own time to watch TV through housework), which can not only be controlled, but also have a certain amount of freedom for children.

So when mom and dad disagree, communicate more, change your thinking, and find some compromises.

The education methods of father and mother are destined to be different, because in family education, the roles of the two are also different, so there are differences at this time, and they should be unified in the general direction, and they can have their own characteristics in specific education methods.

When moms and dads have different ways of educating themselves, as children, they should take some ways and methods that they think are useful for their growth.

Personally, I think that this situation should be communicated with each other more, of course, the most decisive way is to persuade the other party, who can convince the other party to use whose education method, after all, there is no right or wrong education method.

When parents have different education methods, as parents, they must communicate well, as long as they are right, they must point out and correct mistakes, which is good for children.

Children can also ask their parents to let the two of them choose a way, not too much indoctrination in themselves, otherwise it will also cause confusion.

When your mother and father have different education methods, and two people have a disagreement, you must calm down, do not quarrel, and defend according to their respective education methods

The way your father and mom educate you is related to your level of knowledge, so when there is a disagreement, you should be the one who listens to it.

If parents can't accept the idea of not getting married, there are a few things you can try:

1.Communication: Communicate your thoughts, opinions, and values with your parents. Let them know why they are not getting married, or why they have not found a suitable partner yet.

2.Respect: Respect your parents' opinions, but also ask your parents to respect their own ideas and choices. Don't compromise easily, but don't be in conflict and antagonism with your parents either.

3.Family communication: In the process of communication, emphasize your love and gratitude to your parents, and express your willingness to contribute to the family, but in another way.

4.Rational balance: Maintain a rational balance when considering your own thoughts and your parents' thoughts. Don't be swayed by your own thoughts or those of your parents, but make decisions based on a combination of factors.

5.Seek help: If you are unable to communicate with your parents, you can also seek help from a third party, such as relatives, friends, counselors, etc. Through third-party advice and support, better problem solving can be achieved.

Ultimately, whether you choose to marry or not, you need to be responsible and firm in your own ideas, while also respecting your parents' opinions. I hope that through reasonable communication and balance, we can achieve mutual understanding and support.

Dad is the guiding light on the path of a child's growth. As far as boys are concerned, dad is a role model for them. If Dad is a person with a strong mentality and a particularly correct way of education.

Then the child can also get a good growth with the assistance of the father. When the mother does not care about the child, how should the father educate the child?

1. Give children satisfying respect and do not beat and scold children at will.

No matter what age a person is in, they have a very strong sense of self-esteem. As a father of a child, he should exercise his right to educate and pay attention to his child's heart in a way that should be studied and respected. Some children grow up in unhappy families because their fathers will beat and scold them because of their grades.

There is a problem with this type of education. A child's temperament is closely related to the words of his parents. The child hopes to be respected and assisted by his parents.

Therefore, when the child has problems in learning or life, the father should be a good umbrella for the child. Don't beat and scold your children at will, but care for your children's hearts, give them satisfying respect, and wish them to grow up to be a better person.

2. Educate children with the correct three views.

The correct three views have important implications for a person's growth. A person who excels in his studies will succeed because he or she should also have the right outlook and an outstanding disposition. As the best teacher for children, fathers must educate children with the correct three views, assist children to form outstanding behavioral awareness and rule understanding, so that they can better survive in society.

Children should first be taught to be kind. This is the most basic principle of being a human being. Then parents should educate their children to follow the rules on campus, study hard, and get along with their classmates.

Of course, they should also have a certain understanding of self-protection, and outstanding three views can make children better integrate into society, better assist the family, and make them grow up more and better.

Dad is generally very deterrent to children, when educating children, dad can do an exemplary role, to guide children to learn from themselves, can play more small games with children, in the process of getting along with these truths to instill in them.

When children make mistakes, they must be strictly managed and do not turn big things into small things. Be good friends with your child, listen to them, spend more time with them, and respect your child's wishes and choices.

When children make mistakes, they should be strictly managed, don't make big things into small things, become good friends with children, listen to children's hearts, spend more time with children, and respect children's wishes and choices.

Some of the children's behaviors should be regulated, some truths should be told to the children, and the independence of the children should be cultivated, so that the children can be better educated.

Dad should educate the child according to the child's development, so that the child understands a lot of truths, so that the child has a very good behavior.

Fathers should educate their children according to their development, so that they can understand a lot of truths and let them have a very good behavior.