Why do men repeatedly say that they are useless in front of the people they like?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When you find that your boyfriend is saying that he is incompetent, and then falls into a state of self-doubt, you must know that this is a state of self-reflection that your boyfriend is doing, because in this state, so he feels that he is very incompetent, then the most important thing you need to do at this time is to encourage him, praise his advantages more, and make him feel that he is useful, not incapable, and the two of you love each other together is the most important thing. If she is worried about not being satisfied with your material life in the future, then you can actually tell him that there is no need to worry, because the life of the two of you can be created by the joint efforts of the two of you, not by him alone to get something, you can be together, happiness belongs to the two of you, and life belongs to the two of you. There is a saying that does not mean that there are difficulties and blessings are shared, in fact, this is the truth.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He should have no confidence in himself and have a little inferiority, but he likes you very much, and he is afraid that if he does not do a good job, you will leave him, in fact, people don't have to be so humble, just let it be.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It should be inferior in front of the person you like.,That's why I keep saying that I'm not good enough.,Or I want to be comforted by girls in this way.。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The reason why men repeatedly say that they are useless in front of the people they like is to gain sympathy or understanding! Otherwise, why do you say this?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because this man likes this woman too much, he always thinks that he is incompetent and gives too little, he wants me to become an all-powerful person and bring happiness to the person I like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He just doesn't have confidence in himself, and he is afraid that if he doesn't do a good job, he will leave him, in fact, people don't have to be so humble, just let it be.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Thinking too much for each other, not being able to leave the best for each other, feeling self-blamed.

    Hope, thank you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have low self-esteem and always want to do your best.

    But the reality is powerless and unassertive.

    I think it's important for emotional things to attract each other.

    If you think it's bad, it's really bad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can take as long as you want, as long as you don't remember your previous relationship and girlfriend, and you haven't come out yet, you can do it, and there is no time limit for Na chewing the fan Lu Yong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's to get the attention of the likes and care about him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, of course!! Whether you are useful or not is not up to others, but from your heart!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A man repeatedly says that you are useless except for money, and you should break up, which means that this man does not really love you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When encountering such a person, you must first reflect on whether you are in such a situation, and whether you have the relevant financial ability, and if the other party keeps saying this, it means that there is actually a lot of opinion in your heart, and it is recommended to make yourself financially independent first.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    According to your description, the situation has reached the point where it is unbearable, and it is recommended to break up in time to avoid more pain in your life in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It may mean that with him you may be poor, that you will not be able to give you anything, that you will not be able to guarantee you anything. Once a man says such a thing, the woman may have to think more about whether the other party is really worthy of your liking, or whether the other party is really willing to be with you, and you can also encourage the other party to be diligent and work hard to create wealth, so that your life can be better and better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This kind of man has some inferiority, although he likes this woman very much, but he is afraid that this woman will dislike him, so he will let himself draw water, and he also considers that he is not worthy of others, and repeating it again and again proves that the psychological burden is too heavy, and at the same time, he does not want to delay others to find a partner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He just doesn't want to spend money, he wants to eat white food, empty gloves and white wolves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A man always likes women's words, and he is really poor. Although I like a girl, I can't afford it, and I don't deserve it, so it's hard to be together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Either I don't want to live with you, or I marry for nothing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shows that she doesn't really love her girlfriend in her heart, just treat it as an experience, if she really likes you, she won't lie.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some men always lie to their girlfriends over and over again, indicating that this person has done something wrong, and there are some problems with his character.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Therefore, character is very important when looking for a partner, if it is not a white lie, then you must leave your own bottom line and principles to show your own attitude, and you can't be deceived again and again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A man is very possessive, he confesses to you and at the same time thinks about the challenge of the opponent, if he is worthy of your love, you can consider it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't know the other party well enough, because he is usually more frivolous, so he doesn't dare to take you seriously, so I have to confess to you in front of everyone, if you want to give the other party a chance, don't run away anymore, if you delay it again, I'm afraid that the man will regret it when he finds a new object, be positive, I suggest you confess in secret first, and then observe whether he likes you so much, so that he knows that it is not easy to come by, to know how to cherish, or let him complete something and then give you development, This side shows how true his heart is for you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's very likely that as your friend said, if you have feelings for him, you can try to give each other more opportunities to be alone and see what he means, and it's best not to make it too clear, so as not to be embarrassed when he doesn't have that meaning.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I have to ask weakly, landlord, are you the girl who was courted?

    In fact, the way to deal with this matter is very simple, first of all, you sort out your own thoughts, do you have a good impression of him?

    If not, it couldn't be simpler, reject him directly in public, of course, don't say it too much, but also say it like a joke; "You have no money, no house, no savings, no height, no looks, so my mother can't look down on it. "Of course, I think it's too vulgar, but I can put it another way

    If you have a good feeling, you can promise him in public, but you have to say it like a joke: "Okay, let's start dating tomorrow, and I'll go to ** for dinner tomorrow I won't go without a 5-star grade." "You can test his reaction, of course, you don't have to really go to 5 stars, and send him a text message afterwards to tell him that in fact, roadside stalls are also okay, so that he knows that you actually have a good impression of him

    But what I'm most afraid of is that I have a good feeling, and I don't want to accept it, procrastinating, and I hope the landlord is happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This man is very courageous, and he should like this woman very much.

    How is he when he's alone, add.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on what this man usually does, whether he is a cynic or not. It doesn't matter how many people there are when confessing, what matters is the seriousness shown and the person's usual attitude towards others.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm not sure, it's probably a joke, but if he really likes you, he's going to do something, care about you, and try to date you out alone. If you don't have that, then you can only make a joke about his confession.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The point is that you like him? You like him to talk about his confession again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether it's fun or not depends on how the man usually treats the woman

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why did the woman always feel that the man was playing tricks on her?

    Is it just a feeling or is it something concrete?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, every woman likes to listen to sweet words, some people say that good love words are like honey, and they melt immediately in their mouths, but that sweet feeling will quickly occupy your heart, women love to listen to love words, especially from the mouth of the person they love. A wise woman knows that she should only look at a man's actions and not listen to his love words, but women hope that the person they love will not only praise themselves in front of outsiders, but also hear the praise of their lover in front of themselves, and if the person they love always talks about their shortcomings in front of them, even if they know that he is not intentional, they will still care, because everyone wants to be perfect in the eyes of their lover. Your he doesn't know how to talk about love in front of you, which means that he just doesn't know how to express love, you can praise him in front of him, people are mutual, if he says you're not good, you also say he doesn't say it, the two will inevitably have a fight, if he always praises him, he should be embarrassed to keep saying that you are bad, and occasionally praise you in front of you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He's embarrassed in front of you, but he actually likes you in his heart.

    That's why I said hello to his brother.

    Hehe, your boyfriend may be very face-loving, pretending not to call in front of you, but he actually likes it very much in his heart.

    His brother understands him very well, don't care about what he says, but understand it with your heart.

    Your boyfriend likes you very much, but he's too embarrassed to tell you directly.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What kind of animal is a man? It's not the same as a woman ... A woman who loves someone will tolerate her other half with sincerity. And men will love face more than women... So you should believe that He loves you.

    You are charismatic.

    So embrace Him with your love.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There are generally two possibilities for this situation:1He doesn't like you (hopefully you won't be like him); 2.Hitting is kissing, scolding is love, I don't know if you've heard of it?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This depends on the situation: 1. Since you have met, whether he usually talks to you like this, if so, it is a matter of his own speaking quality, and it has little to do with whether he loves you. 2. If you talk like this recently, you reflect on whether you have hurt his self-esteem when chatting with him recently, and then look at his recent life or work.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, no, it's definitely not angry with you, men are actually a kind of animals that don't grow up, because they care about you, they will often find fault with you, in fact, this is a manifestation of love for you, otherwise they will be very cold and ignore you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    He doesn't understand you, he's still joking, he should just don't understand girls, it's more straight men, he has to speak straight, the kind that doesn't slip in circles, I've seen a story before, he went to wash clothes on time, and the boy didn't understand, and then the girl said, you, go wash the clothes, the man said, I said earlier, I thought you were going to do something, maybe your boyfriend didn't understand you, and didn't do what you said, you think he's angry with you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The so-called, fate is determined, happiness depends on oneself, marriage, love, we must understand each other, tolerate each other, cherish each other, think about how beautiful it is in old age, for the person you love, you can give everything for each other, you belong to you, don't take love casually, just joke.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because you love her so much! It's better not to love to the point of losing yourself, otherwise she will look down on you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because I like her, I am willing to do a lot of things for her, and I have lost myself, a good expression of love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Because that woman is shameless!

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