Why don t men like divorce? Why are men reluctant to get divorced?

In my opinion, there are three main reasons why men don't like divorce!

The first is because the cost of divorce is too high:

Everyone knows that the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher, and it is safe to say that a man gives almost everything in order to get married, so after a few years or more than ten years, there are some problems of one kind or another, as long as it is not too much, or what is a big problem of principle? Men generally do not file for divorce easily. Because if he divorces, it will be tantamount to making the huge cost of marriage he has invested in a wasted way.

Therefore, this kind of loss-making business is not a last resort, and men generally do not do it.

The second is because of the idea of machismo:

The so-called machismo ideology refers to the fact that men themselves think that men's faces are much more important than women's. This kind of face is also reflected in an absolute desire to conquer, so in reality, we also clearly feel that men are competitive. Whatever the reason, if you get divorced, it means that it is a failure of your own machismo.

At least you didn't manage your own woman, no matter who caused the divorce? Anyway, this is the result that men don't like to see. Therefore, it is also an important factor why men do not like divorce.

The third is because it is not easy to explain to the old and young:

It is safe to say that most men are very face-conscious compared to women. Their feelings for the elderly and children are generally not expressed on their faces, but they are buried deep in their hearts. Once divorced, it is bound to cause huge psychological and life pressure on parents and children, which is also one of the important factors that men must consider, because they are very considerate of their parents' feelings, and are afraid that because their divorce will cause an undue psychological burden to their parents, they are also afraid of leaving an irresponsible impression on their children.

Therefore, they can easily not mention divorce.

In short, according to big data statistics, 80% of divorce cases are filed by women. In my opinion, if men don't like divorce, the main reasons are the high cost of divorce, the strong sense of machismo, and the fear of adding undue pressure to parents and children. This is exactly what happened, so I hope that people who have the idea of divorce should think twice!

Because a man is here, he always thinks of the warmth of the family when he is tired and injured, and he doesn't want to divorce no matter what he does when he gets married, but when he is in high spirits, he feels that the family is a burden.

Because he didn't want to continue to find a new woman, to get to know a woman, and the woman was very good to him, and he didn't want to spend any more time trying to start a family again.

Because it is difficult to find the next wife after a divorce, most men do not want to divorce for their own development.

Because the man still loves the woman, he doesn't like divorce and doesn't want the child to be a child in a single-parent family if he has children.

In today's society, how difficult it is for an ordinary man to marry a daughter-in-law, and to prepare bride price money to buy a car and a house, it is good to be able to get married, but if you get divorced, you will probably never find it again.

A man mentions divorce in order to leave the house cleanly, and all the children's property belongs to the woman, so a man will not mention divorce unless he has to.

1. Save your identity or image.

Family harmony is a plus, at least morally, impeccable to a man's image in some professions. Even if there is no emotion at all in the marriage, but for career considerations, a man must maintain his image as a good leader or a successful person, so even if he pretends, he must pretend to be a harmonious family, and he does not want to affect his career or future because of marriage. For example, Gao Yuliang and his wife Mr. Wu in the popular TV series "In the Name of the People" were very helpless but very realistic.

2. He doesn't want trouble, he doesn't want to toss.

Even if there is no affection between husband and wife, but after living together for a long time, it has become a habit to live this kind of life, if you are really divorced, unless you will never marry a wife again in this life, otherwise, you have to re-understand and understand and get married, and men will feel very tossed. And as I grow older, I don't bother to toss anymore, anyway, if I don't have such shortcomings, there will be such shortcomings, and men will feel that marrying another woman is nothing more than that.

3. For parents, children.

For the sake of children, for the sake of parentsSometimes, a man will make mistakes and do things that are sorry for the family, but when he sits down and thinks about it, he will run the family well for the sake of the children and parents. Pretend to be a child in front of your parents, and a father in front of your children, so that it is a woman who is hurt.

4. Fear of property division.

Divorce then return to reality, the law stipulates that the joint property of the husband and wife, the divorced woman can take half of it, which is unacceptable to many men. Rather than suffer such huge property losses, it is better to make do with life and go out and surf everywhere anyway.

To sum up, there are many reasons, but marriage is a matter of two people, and it is necessary to work together, manage it carefully, and cherish it.

Most men don't want to divorce because they have a complete home, so that their children grow up in the warm care and education of their parents, and there is a certain moral concern in the children not being harmed, and their wives train their children in education so that they can live a better life. A man has no sense of responsibility, his wife is gone, and it is his own children who hurt you in the end. Men's genes are pure, family style is good, moral care, good education, and perseverance in the family's determination with their own care.

Let everything you do for this family. It's not your fault. This kind of faith does not fall after the divorce.

Because the cost of remarriage is high.

The vast majority of men get married because they start a family, they pay a lot for marriage, and if they get divorced, they will be cheated out of their property. Unlike nowadays, some women marry to cheat men out of their property, and divorce is also to cheat men out of their property. Anyone who asks for a bride price before marriage and asks the man for real estate and his name is not going to live a good life, and he wants to get rich by forcing him to get rich.

I advise men that this kind of woman must not be married, and she should not give it for nothing.

Because it's lazy, it's troublesome. The run-in time with a person will not be short, and if you get divorced, you have to start all over again, which is too troublesome.

Paid too much for that girl.

Men don't get divorced, first, they still love you deeply, and secondly, they don't want to lose you, if they don't love him, even if they go out of the house, they don't hesitate to do anything, so don't use divorce to hurt your man.

Generally speaking, if I really don't like it, then I can choose to divorce under this condition, but if I have children, then I should submit to myselfFor the sake of the family, but also for the happiness of the children in the future, so we should choose to take care of the integrity of a family, in general, we can also consider the problem from the following aspects. <>

1. If you really don't like it, then you can also choose to divorce at this time and pursue your true love. For us to know that if you are married not long ago and have no children to worry about, then if you really have someone you like at this time, then you can choose to file and divorce your husband, and then pursue your happiness again, and this is completely correct and in line with your own view of love. <>

2. If you have a family and have children, then you should convince yourself at this time to take care of the integrity of the family. In fact, for us, everyone's married life is not perfect, so because of this, we should accept the reality, for the sake of our children, for the family, we should convince ourselves to love our husbands, change our living conditions, let ourselves have a higher yearning for life, and be able to accept our husbands. <>

3. If you really have no feelings for your husband and there is no happiness at all, try to choose divorce at this time. If you blindly choose to maintain the hail marriage, then the relationship itself is not worth maintaining, so if you are sure that you don't like each other, then there is no need to accept this marriage meaninglessly at this time, so you should pursue your own happiness.

In general, it is necessary to analyze the specific problem, if there is a family with children, then you should carefully consider your choice at this time, and then make a judgment, if it is indeed not necessary to be together, then you can choose divorce at this time to pursue your own happiness, but the premise is that you must make a decision after you have completely thought about it.

money", because the more you leave, the poorer you are!

In this society, most of our men are ordinary people.

Once you get married, you are basically bankrupt, especially in the vast rural areas, where most families get married at one time.

is already in debt, and many families do not hesitate to use usury in order for their sons to get married and marry their wives.

Just imagine, who would dare to leave such a marriage?

Even if the happiness after marriage is not high, I dare not mention divorce.

Let's not forget that we are a country where there are more men than women, and according to statistics, there are more than 30 million more men than women.

Faced with such a situation where there are more men than women, most male compatriots do not dare to take the initiative to file for divorce even if the happiness of marriage is not very good after marriage.

Because after you file for divorce, not only is the person gone, but the money is also gone.

Even if there is a woman who is willing to marry you after the divorce, let alone the money, because divorce will bring a series of problems, and children are the biggest problem.

We are not like rich people, we can solve everything with money.

We ordinary can only use "forbearance" to solve the problem!

Women are different, no matter how many times you leave, women don't have to worry about not being able to get married.

As long as a woman is willing to marry, she can marry herself anytime and anywhere.

Is it okay for a man?

There is only one kind of man who can marry as much as he wants, and that is a rich man.

Ordinary men like you and me.

I have exhausted my energy to get married once, so how can I have the energy to get married a second time!

Therefore, it is not that men do not want to divorce, but they can't afford to leave and dare not leave!