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When I was old, it was unacceptable for my children to be able to take care of me, and the law obligated him to support me. If my children have special circumstances and don't have time to take care of me, I can still accept it.
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If my children don't care about me when we're old, I'm sure no one can accept it, because after all, we conceived in October and just came out of the baby, and then spent our whole lives taking care of them, giving them the best life, and getting them the roll of their eyes, and I definitely can't accept it.
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Certainly unacceptable, but so what? There are too many such situations in the world, abandoning old people for various reasons! It is no longer something that can be restrained by morality and conscience, which shows that the various corresponding things in this regard in our country are not perfect enough.
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It depends on whether you have fulfilled your obligation to support you? If you abandon him when he is a child and ignore him, then he can also ignore you, and if you fulfill your obligation to support, then you can sue him for the crime of abandonment in the people's court, but I believe that what kind of cause you plant, what kind of fruit you will reap, but I think people should leave a way back for themselves, and when they are old, there is a guarantee of life.
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I can't accept it, after all, it's the child I worked so hard to raise, but I abandoned you when I got old.
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If your children don't care about you when you're old, no one can accept it, who has such a big heart.
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If your children don't care about themselves when they're old, then they can't accept it as anyone.
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I don't care if my children aren't with me when I'm old. Because the pressure on the child is also very high, it is understandable that he does not come back for various reasons.
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If my children leave me alone when I'm old, I certainly can't accept it.
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Accept the reality and follow the circumstances.
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If you are old and your children are not around, how will you take care of yourself?
About pension, it is an issue that everyone is concerned about. Everyone is young and old, no one knows what it is like to be old, and they are helpless in the face of retirement. According to my age, I have entered the ranks of middle age, and I have to think about the issue of retirement.
I only have one daughter, and my daughter is still in school, and her living situation after graduation is incalculable. Besides, it is better to ask for others than for yourself, and it is better to prepare yourself as soon as possible.
For retirement, I prepare the following.
1.Store health.
When people are old, there is nothing more important than health, when they are healthy, they can buy vegetables and cook, they can travel and make friends, they can go out for a walk, and their lives will be very leisurely.
If there is no health, then the quality of life will be greatly reduced, although you can let the child serve, but the child has his own career, has his own family, has his own happiness, I can't let the child serve me every day, I want to learn to enjoy loneliness, learn to take care of myself, to reduce the burden on the child.
If I can't take care of myself, I will find a nanny to serve me, and the child will come to see me when he is free, and he won't come if he is not free, I don't want to take possession of the child.
In order to be able to take care of themselves, health is necessary, some people live to be in their nineties, and they can still take care of themselves, and some people live in nursing homes in their sixties, I don't want to go to a nursing home, I want to live a free life, so from now on, pay attention to exercise.
Every morning, I run for half an hour, go out for a walk in the evening, pay attention to my weight, pay attention to my diet, eat more fruits and vegetables, eat less sugar and salt, and exercise my body well, I will never grow old, and I will not have to retire.
Then there is the management of emotions, if you are in a good mood and healthy, everything will go well, and it is also a taboo for health to make emotions.
2.Storage of money.
Money is not everything, and no money is everything. If you want to live with dignity, you have to have money, and in order to have money when you are old, I study every day.
I see that writing is a book of great profits, as long as you persist every day, one day you will be able to write at a high level, you can make money by selling words, and the older you get, the more valuable you are, and you will not lose your job because of old age. Use your brain, your brain will become more and more flexible, and you won't have Alzheimer's disease, which is the best investment and worth my efforts.
Using your brain to learn is to store knowledge, and you are storing money, and you are not afraid of having no money to spend when you are old. Others are afraid of children gnawing on old age, but I am not afraid, which means that I have that ability, children will like me, friends will like me, and I myself prefer myself who can still earn money when I am old.
Being the boss in a family with many children is still quite tiring. Because if you have many younger siblings, you will be treated as a big parent, and you will have a lot of things to manage, and of course you will be very tired.
The motivation I have now is that I really want to be a person who likes who I am. When I was 17 years old, I chose between going to USTC for an undergraduate degree and studying in the United States. I worked hard for four years as an undergraduate, and I got my wish with two bachelor's degrees, got an offer from the company I wanted, and had the opportunity to work in the United States. >>>More
I think my self-esteem will make me feel a little inferior, or do nothing, silently bless her, and then live my life peacefully as usual.
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