When I was a child, I was afraid of the New Year when I grew up, why are adults afraid of the New Ye

When I was a child, I always looked forward to the New Year, and I could eat all kinds of delicacies during the New Year; You can wear beautiful clothes; You can play happily with your friends; You can also get the New Year's money from the elders, how happy and happy you should be during the New Year. Growing up afraid of the New Year, why are adults afraid of the New Year? Let's talk about this topic together.

1. Adults celebrate the New Year and are under great financial pressure.

When I became an adult, I was not so happy during the New Year. The New Year needs to prepare a lot of New Year's goods, need to prepare gifts for the elders, need to prepare New Year's money for the children, people who are far away from home, also need to have transportation expenses, and sometimes a month's salary is not enough for the New Year's expenses, therefore, many people are unwilling to celebrate the New Year, so under such great economic pressure, some people will find various excuses not to go home for the New Year.

Second, the Chinese New Year will be urged by the elders to marry, give birth, and all kinds of nagging.

During the Chinese New Year, I will meet with relatives and friends, and if I don't have a partner yet, then I will be urged by my elders to find a partner; If you are not married, you will be forced by your elders to ask when you will get married; If you haven't given birth to a child, or haven't given birth to a second child, then you will face the problem of giving birth, in short, urging the car, urging the house, urging the work, Cui grades, under all kinds of pinching, many adults are more and more afraid of the New Year, and the psychological pressure during the New Year is very great.

3. The Chinese New Year means that I am one year older.

Many people don't want to grow old, they want to be young, beautiful and handsome forever, so most people are very concerned about their age. Chinese New Year means the beginning of a new year, saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, but it also means that you are one year older, as an adult, you will think that you have become one year older, and adults can't help but look at whether there are many fine lines on their faces? Do you have any gray hair on your head?

As a result, many people are reluctant to celebrate the New Year.

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Adults are particularly afraid of the New Year, the main reason is that the New Year has to face a lot of money things, but also face a lot of interpersonal relationships, and the New Year is really busy and tiring for adults.

During the Chinese New Year, you will face questions from relatives. Parents will force marriage, relatives will ask for salary and job, and every year after adulthood is not easy.

Because adults will bleed profusely as soon as they arrive at the Chinese New Year, whether it is to visit relatives or use red envelopes, it is a large expense.

Recalling the New Year when I was a child, although it was very simple and simple, but that time was my happiest time, and the happiest people in the New Year were children, so I looked forward to the New Year every day. Because I can eat delicious food during the New Year, and I can receive red envelopes, and I live a very happy life. As I grow up now, although I have everything in my life when I grow up, I can no longer find the taste of the previous year, and I don't feel so happy anymore.

One: When you grow up, the burden of life is on yourself.

Two: The relationship with the family is estranged. Three:

I am most afraid of the concern of my relatives. So now many people say that when they were young, their favorite thing was the New Year, and when they grew up, they were most afraid of the New Year, because we missed the carefree when we were children, and when we grew up, we found that there was no easy word in the adult world.

This is the feeling of growing up, when I was young, I only used pleasure for the New Year, and when I grew up, I felt that the burden on my shoulders was very heavy in the face of the expectant eyes of my family.

Personally, I think that when people reach middle age, they are afraid of the New Year, and the New Year is like a catastrophe, with human contacts, reunions of brothers and friends, and children's New Year's money, thinking that they are one year older. Still nothing, it's a headache to think about.

I'm still very nostalgic for my childhood, when I was a child, the New Year was really just to eat, or watch TV and wear new clothes, but after adulthood, the New Year is to deal with the inquiries of the seven aunts and eight aunts, and the taste of the New Year is also decreasing a little bit.

This is a very normal phenomenon. When I was a child, I looked forward to the New Year because there would be new clothes to wear, firecrackers, and fireworks, but when I grew up, I didn't have the pure mind when I was a child, but I was worried that my family would ask this and that, and of course I would be afraid of the New Year.

Because as an adult, there are many things that we need to face, for example, how much do you earn in a year, have you found a girlfriend this year, and how did you do in today's exam.

Because there will be a lot of things after the Chinese New Year.

As long as you go to relatives, there are still a lot of meals to deal with.

It takes a lot of money to do things.

It is very difficult to achieve your own freedom.

Afraid that the New Year is mostly an economic problem, now it is difficult to earn money, hard work to the New Year There is not much money left, spend round-trip fares, go home to honor parents, the woman's parents, three aunts and six mothers-in-law elders give gifts, juniors red envelopes start a few hundred, treat yourself to dinner, so that after the New Year, the money left over from a hard year is gone, and the gift is not affordable, the gift is light and will be gossiped by others, looked down on, the poor are difficult to celebrate the New Year, so some people are willing not to go home for the New Year, the New Year is the most solemn festival for the Chinese, Everyone wants to go home with a lot of money, but the reality has broken our thoughts, and not going home for the New Year is also the helplessness of real life.

People who are afraid of the New Year, because of the things that they are worried about because of the New Year, or that cause them to feel uneasy, will soon happen in front of them, and this event may make them particularly happy, or it may cause them to be very sad. Happiness and sadness can make it difficult for them to accept, and as a result, they are afraid of the New Year.

Among those who are afraid of the New Year, there are both old people and young people, both urban and rural people. I have such people around me, but there are not many of them. It can be said that it is a minority or it is someone else, for example, an elder in my neighbor's neighborhood, he said when he chatted before the Chinese New Year last year, and his son who went to Guangzhou to work said:

I don't go home for the New Year this year, because I don't mix well outside, I'm afraid to go home during the New Year, and I can't explain to my family; The neighbor elder continued, I am also afraid of the New Year, and if my son comes back, I am afraid that I will be so happy that I have high blood pressure.

Seeing his son's depressed appearance, and afraid that he had a heart attack, he was really afraid of the New Year, he looked forward to the New Year when he was a child, and he was afraid of the New Year when he was old, alas, it was really difficult. After listening to his words, I pondered for a long time. I hope that people who are afraid of the New Year, calm down and go home for the New Year, thank you.

Around me, there don't seem to be these people, maybe because we are all young men, and when we go home for the New Year, the family doesn't say much, don't ask about the deposit, whether we have a girlfriend, these things.

This is because many people's usual life is particularly stressful, and there will be many relatives who get together during the New Year and ask some more private topics.

Because many people have to go to their relatives' houses to pay New Year's greetings during the Chinese New Year, it is especially difficult for social phobia.

I think it may be because the cost of the New Year is relatively large, and there are a lot of entertainment, so some people will be afraid of the New Year.

Alexander, Marriage Reminder. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke said.