Why are young people now more and more afraid of the New Year

Because the Chinese New Year is generally a time for relatives and friends to get together, for young people, some people will urge them to get married, and some people will ask them how much their salary is? Someone else will ask if he has made friends? In short, these concerns are a kind of trouble and a kind of depression in the eyes of young people, so they are more and more afraid of the New Year.

The first aspect: the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, and relatives are no longer so close.

I don't know if it's because of growing up, or what's the reason, most young people can't find the feeling of celebrating the New Year when they were young, and the taste of the New Year is becoming weaker and weaker, and even the family relationship between relatives doesn't seem to be so close. Therefore, many young people feel that the Spring Festival is becoming more and more interesting, and it is better not to go home for the Spring Festival.

The second aspect: I don't make any money all year round, and I don't have face when I go home for the New Year.

While the human touch is becoming weaker and weaker, it seems that many rural people are paying more and more attention to money. Therefore, in this case, there are many young people who have not made money and are unwilling to go home for the New Year, always feeling that they can't get over the face, coupled with the cordiality between some relatives and friends"Regards", which will make people feel uncomfortable. So, I simply didn't go home for the New Year.

The third aspect: the distance is long, the delay time on the road is long, and the time at home is short.

Most people work outside, thousands of kilometers away from their hometown, although the traffic is very convenient now, but it can't stop the congestion, and the phenomenon of congestion during the Chinese New Year every year is often the major ****. Therefore, this has led to the delay in the time for many people to go home, and it takes a few days on the way back and forth, and the holiday is very short, so they simply don't go home for the New Year, and then take the time to go home when they have time.

The fourth aspect: a lot of money for various expenses such as money and New Year's money, and the economic pressure is great.

It is not easy to work outside to make money, and the Chinese New Year is a peak season for consumption, and the money that students get married with, the New Year's money for the younger generations, buy gifts, buy New Year's goods, etc. are all expenses one after another, and these money will undoubtedly cause greater economic pressure on themselves. So, it's better not to go home for the New Year.

It's not that I'm afraid of the New Year, but I'm afraid that the seven aunts and eight aunts will come to ask questions, which will cause everyone's comparison psychology!

Today's young people are more and more afraid of the New Year, especially during the New Year, they talk about all kinds of qualifications, which is the most afraid of them and at the same time being urged to marry.

I'm not afraid, I just don't want to think about it, after all, I will face urging marriage to find a partner, even if I get married, I will be asked all kinds of questions by seven aunts and eight aunts.

In fact, the first reason is that everyone is too busy to take care of these things. After all, everyone also knows that everyone's courage is huge now, and many post-70s generations are now in their forties and fifties, they are old and young, the old may take care of them, and they have to take care of the young, how can there be so much effort to manage so many things every day, as long as there is a little spare time, I am afraid everyone will want to take a break. Besides, it costs money to do everything now, and the Chinese New Year costs even more, and of course they don't want to spend money to do something they don't want to do.

Besides, in fact, there is nothing special about the New Year, after all, you can eat a lot of things that you can't usually eat during the New Year, but now you can eat at any time as long as you want to.

The second is that everyone has been accustomed to seeing some of the world's sophistication, in the past, everyone paid more attention to feelings, and liked to exchange gifts during the New Year's holidays, but after a long time, everyone will find that these things are completely unnecessary to do, sometimes take gifts to sit at relatives' houses, buy less things to worry about others are not enthusiastic, buy more things and they are not comfortable, and now as long as a relative mentions money, everyone has no money, and the relatives open their mouths to raise money, Who is willing to go to relatives after talking too much, so after a long time, everyone will definitely find it boring.

But in fact, everyone doesn't want to celebrate the New Year now, and it's not all caused by these two points, after all, every family has its own doubts, although some people don't want to celebrate the New Year, but some people are still looking forward to it. In the past, I only had the opportunity to go to my relatives' houses during the Chinese New Year, but now I can go at any time. So if everyone can be a little less compared, more sincere, I think everyone is looking forward to the New Year, after all, this New Year's flavor is more sufficient, who wants to go to relatives during the New Year and be asked, and then compare with this and that?

Why are young people afraid of the Chinese New Year? Perhaps the main reason is that the environment for the New Year and the environment in which I work are too different. This huge difference in the environment makes young people a little uncomfortable.

During the Chinese New Year, you have to visit relatives and friends, and when the New Year is over, unlike usual, you can visit relatives and friends empty-handed. It's the New Year, you should buy some New Year's gifts to go, so that you can be more decent. Closer relatives spend a lot of money to visit them all the way, so it is also a big expense for young people, and the pressure is not small.

In addition, some young people like to be quiet, like to be quiet in their own rhythm of work and life. Once everyone gets together during the Chinese New Year, this atmosphere is different from the usual working atmosphere, so some people are not adaptable.

Especially for some older young people, they may not have a family yet, then their parents must be anxious, including relatives will definitely let them start a family as soon as possible, they feel a little annoyed and panicked.

Among them, there are also many young people who do not live and work very well, they return to their hometowns, some are not decent, the so-called clothes return to their hometowns, they are not living well, so they are a little afraid to see their parents and fellow villagers.

Some things can't be generalized, some young people still have a very strong family concept, they are eager for this rare opportunity to get together, so they still like the festive and lively atmosphere of the New Year, and like to go home for the New Year.

The approach of the Spring Festival means reunion, but some people are happy and some are worried. The joy is that the parents are finally reunited with their children, and the sad thing is that the older leftover men and women have not yet settled, and the students have not satisfied their families with their studies......

In particular, the various bombardment concerns and "tortures" of relatives and friends will arouse the anxiety that many people have buried in their hearts for a long time, and it is regarded as "a year that is more difficult to survive than the Spring Festival". As a result, many young people simply become "fearful of returning", staying alone in a foreign land, and only willing to seek a quiet and relaxed. For many people, if they don't mix well, they often have a sense of returning to Jiangdong during the New Year.

For elders, the way to care for the next generation is to greet life and work, and they often do so out of genuine concern and want to help as much as possible. But sometimes, the line between what is appropriate and what is not appropriate is difficult to explain. Even if the problems of relatives and elders are nagging and close out of good intentions, for the younger generation, they are the most difficult to talk about.

In particular, this kind of concern does not match the thinking of young people nowadays.

More and more young people feel that marriage, salary, etc. belong to personal privacy, and do not want to be questioned too much.

A reality that cannot be ignored is that our society today still shows the traditional way of life of "building a house, marrying a daughter-in-law and having a baby". Few people can be freed from the "short parents" and "firewood, rice, oil and salt".

If young people do not follow everyone's traditional rules to get married and have children, it will cause many questions and incomprehensions, so that most people no longer dare to imagine and try that kind of different life. Watching European and American dramas, we can see that their Christmas party seems to be very leisurely, very enjoyable, making some jokes, and talking about going to ** play.

On the other hand, our current living environment is that under the high pressure of society, people are tired of running for their lives, just imagine, how can people who can buy a house, get married, and have a baby as a sign of success be able to talk about some "elegance" and "interest" of more relaxed and in-depth topics? Everyone had to hurry.

Because when I grow up, I have a lot of worries about reading books, looking for a job, finding a partner, buying a house, buying a car, and a lot of things... …

It's the New Year, the original family reunion, a happy day, but now it's not an easy thing to go home, to sum up, there are mainly the following reasons:

1 Many people go to the city to work, and then buy a house in the city, and there is no one in the hometown, and the whole family lives in the city, and the meaning of reunion is lost when they go home, so this part of the people is not willing to go home;

2 Many people who work outside the home, a year, in addition to the cost of food, there is not a few money left, going home is a big expense, back to the hometown to give the elders, juniors red envelopes, now the red envelopes are getting bigger and bigger, to the people who go home bring a certain amount of economic pressure. If you don't find the money, it's better not to go home than to be embarrassed to go home. Therefore, some people would rather hide the thought of going home in their hearts than go home.

3.Now that life is better, the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, and the days of looking forward to eating and wearing good clothes for the New Year are gone. Now that you can wear new clothes often, and you can eat delicious food every day, what are you going to do when you go home?

4 Now the rural comparison is still heavier, is it to drive home? Or take the car home? Which car is more upscale?

Which daughter-in-law is handsome? Which family's son-in-law is a handsome guy? Which one goes home and what, anyway, a village, a group is so big, everyone knows it, so it invisibly puts a psychological pressure on people who are not very good, and this is the reason for being cowardly in the hometown.

5.The New Year's holiday is not very long, except for the part-time job to go home, not to mention the fatigue of the boat, but also often buy tickets to the town of Xufeng, although there are now long-distance buses, trains, that is, airplanes, high-speed rail is also very developed, but still can not stand a lot of people, often a ticket is hard to find, go home to Chengji Town is a kind of unattainable thing.

Young people nowadays are afraid of the New Year probably for one of the following reasons:

1.Social pressure: Young people often need to interact with family, relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year. Some people may feel nervous and anxious, especially when interacting with elders, and experience greater social pressure.

2.Family conflicts: In some families, young people may disagree with their parents, relatives and other family members, and conflicts and conflicts may arise. During the Chinese New Year, they may experience intense discomfort and stress.

3.Financial pressure: During the Chinese New Year, many young people need to prepare red envelopes, gifts, food, etc., which may make them feel financially stressed, especially for those who are not in a good financial situation or are still studying.

4.Identity: In modern society, young people may have different values and lifestyles than their elders. During the Chinese New Year, they need to interact with their families, but may feel uncomfortable because they don't understand or agree with their lifestyle and choices.

It is important to note that the above are only some of the possible causes, and everyone's situation is different.

The Spring Festival holiday is coming to an end, and another Spring Festival is about to pass. Although the Spring Festival is a traditional Chinese culture, there are still many people who don't like the Spring Festival every year, or even fear the New Year, why is this? Let's summarize a few unreasonable customs of the Spring Festival.

1. Parents ask their children to bring their male (female) friends home for the New Year. When the children are older, parents hope that their children will get married as soon as possible, this mood is understandable, the problem is that many parents will ask their children about their emotional problems as soon as they arrive at the New Year, and even give them a "task", when must they bring back a male (female) friend home for the New Year. This makes it very difficult for some young people who can't find true love, emotional problems are not just to be found, and now there are more and more young people who pursue "celibacy", and this problem will become more and more difficult in the future.

2. Young couples after marriage must go to the home of one of their parents for the New Year. Theoretically, after the husband and wife get married, they are one, and they should all go together, which is also the theoretical basis for the husband and wife to go to one of their parents' house for the New Year. Although there is nothing wrong with the truth, but from the heart, is the wife or husband really willing to go to the house of her in-laws or parents-in-law to celebrate the New Year?

The living habits have been different since childhood, and the two parties are not related by blood, can they really be happy when they live together for the holidays? This problem cannot be generalized, some people do have a very good relationship with their in-laws or parents-in-law, and they are happy to celebrate the New Year together. But there are also some families whose relationship between the two parties is not harmonious, and for the sake of a so-called custom, they go to each other's house for the New Year, which can only make both parties embarrassed.

In this regard, I personally think that this issue should respect each other's wishes, and there is no need to go to one parent's house for the New Year.

3. Relatives and friends greet each other for the New Year. This was originally a way to enhance the relationship between relatives and friends, but now it has slowly evolved into a kind of "formalism"! For relatives and friends who have a good relationship, New Year's greetings are due, but if the seven aunts and eight aunts always visit each other, it becomes a burden.

Nowadays, young people are very busy at work, and they finally have a holiday to rest and rest, and they have to deal with all kinds of entertainment, which is more tiring than going to work, which loses the meaning of New Year's greetings!