What kind of mistakes a person makes is unforgivable

When a person makes a mistake, the wrongdoer has no choice, and cannot be annoyed and angry because he is not forgiven, and it is up to the other party to decide whether to be forgiven. For the other party, whether or not you need to choose forgiveness depends on the severity of the matter. If it was a matter of principle, I used to think that I would not forgive, but then I gradually realized that it was no more than three things, but recently I have come to realize how difficult it is to give up.

The more entanglements, the harder it is to give up, and the more you invest, the harder it is to sink.

I consider myself a very rational person, but in the process of my own breakup, I found that I was still wavering in my emotions when others touched me on issues of principle. The carriage of reason drives the sensual person, and the sensual reason impacts and pulls each other. Although I chose to separate after a few iterations of the breakup, I'm not sure if I would change my decision if I had jumped out of the plot.

In the past, because of the quarrel between my parents, I used to tell my mother that she should be what she should do, divorce if she is unhappy, and women should live for themselves. Every time she mentions, "I'm doing this all for you," I feel so disgusted and disgusted that it's just that she doesn't have the courage to care about face and act as a shield in the name of her children. Lately, I've been slowly understanding my mom.

The main reasons for choosing to forgive are as follows: 1. He is too stupid and kind, with the aura of the Virgin, and he does not expect him to face a bad ending, and he still has affection for him. 2. There are too many entanglements, and there are many external factors, such as children, houses, face, etc.; 3. Too much investment has been made in this before, and the sunk cost is too high; 4. There is always a trace of luck in human nature, thinking that he will reform himself; 5. Coping together is indeed the best way to solve problems at present.

But does a person really change? If he can change, then he deserves to be forgiven, and if he can't say goodbye, he will be fed to the dog with youth and kindness. The problem is that we always expect the other party to change again and again, until the day when we can't bear to die completely, and the initiative to change lies with the wrong party.

Therefore, the choice of whether to forgive seems to be in the hands of the innocent party, but its significance lies in the next action of the wrongdoer. In the future, everything is unknown, and it's like a gamble. The innocent party, depending on whether you are willing to gamble?

No one wants to be blamed, even if he knows that he is wrong, does he still need to criticize education at this time? This question is worth pondering.

2019-10-27 East Gate.

I will. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:

The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.

To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your ability to fight early because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for a more exciting tomorrow for Lu Mo.

Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.

Hey, first of all, you have to see what kind of mistakes can be forgiven, and what can be forgiven. No, you say.