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I think at this time you should fall in love without hesitation, really like a person to be able to sleep with each other, very happy things, two people need to run in with each other together, a person can not be immutable, after being together, two people will slowly change, in this world, there are no two people who are completely compatible, only those who are willing to change for each other. It's a very lucky thing to be able to meet someone you like, sometimes don't think too much, you should be with the person you like without hesitation. <>

One. Loving someone doesn't have to think too much.

In this day and age, many people may consider many factors when falling in love, especially as they get older, most of the reasons they consider are life, and they will choose a suitable person to marry rather than someone they particularly like. Everyone has only one life, and it is a very lucky thing for us to be able to come to this world, so when we meet someone we like, we should have no hesitation, instead of worrying too much and finally losing love. <>

Two. The right person doesn't necessarily bring happiness to yourself.

If we will be oriented before choosing, we may choose a person who suits us, so that two people do not have many contradictions in life, but they do not feel happiness themselves. Two people are running in with each other, we will meet a lot of people in this world, but there is only one that can accompany us to the end of life, therefore, we must seize the happiness in front of us, and the future days will slowly change, rather than asking each other to make great changes in a short period of time. Everyone has their own personality traits, and sometimes there are some changes depending on the person they love.

Love is the greatest emotion in the world, which cannot be seen or touched, but it can make great changes in our lives and make us feel more interesting things in this world, so at this time we should choose to fall in love without hesitation, and if two people are not suitable, they will choose to separate.

I don't think it should be. Because since you already know that the other party is not suitable, you will not be happy even after getting married. It will also hurt each other.

Shouldn't. If you can't accept this trait, and there is no possibility of marrying him in the future, then hurry up and separate now, otherwise, you will be harming him.

Since you can't get married, then don't fall in love easily, because you know that you will still be separated in the end, you will definitely be reluctant, you will definitely be hurt, and it is better not to start.

Personally, I don't really approve of you falling in love without hesitation, of course, it may be because I can't make a mistake at my current age, since I know that he is a person who is not suitable for marriage, I will not choose to be with him, even if I like him very much, I will not fall in love with him. But if you are not old and still in school, you can try to date him at this time, after all, his traits that are not suitable for marriage may also change, if you make changes for you in the process of dating, this is the best result for you. <>

So in the end, whether you want to fall in love with this person without hesitation is up to you. Just like now, there are many people who don't want to get married, they just want to fall in love, if you yourself belong to this type of person, you can also try to be with him, after all, you have no intention of getting married, and the reason why you are entangled is precisely because he is not suitable for marriage, so you can try with him just if you are in love. But if you're rushing to get married, then I really wouldn't recommend you to stay with him.

Next, I will talk about what I personally think is the case that you can't fall in love with him without hesitation. <>

There is no way to change his character。If you're starting a new relationship now with the intention of getting married, you really need to think about it for someone like him. If there is a possibility that this trait of him can change, you can gamble and see if he will change himself after being with you; But if the qualities he has are engraved in his bones, and he is completely incompatible with you and completely unsuitable for marriage, then you should die as soon as possible, after all, you also know that there will be no result between you, and at this time, if you start a relationship, it is you who are hurt, so it is best not to fall in love.

Marriage can't just be based on liking。You yourself know that he is a person who is not suitable for marriage, and the reason why you are entangled now is because you like him, but you have to know that it is really not okay to only consider the marriage you like, marriage is to be realistic, since you have now noticed that you are not suitable, then don't start, so that his impression in your heart will be better, and you don't have to waste time on the wrong person. If you insist on going your own way and being with him without hesitation, in the end, you will waste time with him and have no results, and you will be injured in the process, which is the least worthwhile.

No matter how strong his background is or how rich he is, it is also not okay to fall in love, marriage is a matter of mutual affection, marriage is based on love, there are common hobbies and interests, and the same personality and charm of the right person attract each other. If it is for some special reason (such as the strong request of the family), I can accept falling in love with someone I don't like, because love at first sight is a minority after all, falling in love is the process of understanding each other.

For example: a female friend of mine, introduced by a relative, a young man, the young man is not tall, rice, the kind of thin body, my friend does not like him at all, but because of the face of the relatives first, the young man is diligent, every day to buy vegetables and cook, make a good dish, he does all the work of the friend's house, repair an electrical appliance, fence, harvest rice and wheat, the most important thing is that he is very optimistic and cheerful, never put pressure on his friend, after more than half a year, the friend gradually likes him. So liking this thing is not necessarily, two people can start from scratch and slowly cultivate.

It's acceptable to fall in love with someone you don't like, give each other a chance, and have a process of getting to know each other. In real life, don't most people's love marriages come over like this? After all, in the vast sea of people, there are too few people who can meet you who like and like you!

The greatest happiness in life is that the person you like happens to like you. Falling in love and marrying someone you like is true happiness. On the contrary, falling in love and marrying someone you don't like is also a kind of fate, first getting married and then falling in love, this kind of relationship will be stronger, and after marriage, people will become more mature and stable, responsible and responsible.

In the society of a few decades ago, marriages were arranged by parents, and the other party didn't know what they looked like until they got married.

Some people will have this choice, mainly because they think that the person I am married to should be two people, and the more suitable person needs to consider the actual conditions more.

This is because when you fall in love with the person you like, you can enjoy the sweetness of love, and for those who choose to get married, most people will choose the right person, so that it will be more dull after marriage.

The idea of this kind of person is that these people who like it are only suitable for falling in love, not for marriage, and they don't want to pay too much affection for such people.

Whether a person has a sense of responsibility, whether they can live together, raise the next generation, and whether your family concept is compatible is difficult to see in the process of simple love, and only when it comes to marriage can various problems slowly surface.

Because some people are only suitable for love, but not for marriage. It may be because they need to take on a family after marriage, but neither of them has this ability, and time waits for no one, so they can only separate from the person they like, and then marry someone who suits them but is not what they like.

Some people fall in love with the person they like, but marry the person they don't like, because there is no way to think about it, and the person they don't like is suitable for marriage, and they can't be together if they like it.

This sentence seems to be expressed with a language problem, whether it means that some people are willing to fall in love with the person they like and don't want to get married, or whether they are in love with the person they like and married to the person they don't like.

irresponsible thoughts, he just enjoys the happiness in the process of falling in love, but he doesn't want to bear this relationship, and people live a more selfish life.

From falling in love to getting married, it should be a habitual thing, but there will be some people in life who can only stay in the love stage. Because love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

I don't agree with this statement, it is natural for people who love to get married, although after marriage, there will be contradictions because of trivial things, but that is the marriage of Liang Kaicheng, love will be transformed into family affection in a slow life, which is inseparable.

Why is it not suitable for marriage? I think that people who love deeply can also get married, two people who love deeply. Marriage will be happier, I think.

Advocate the autonomy of marriage, choose your own marriage, and you will always meet the person you are destined for.

Don't be reluctant to feel emotional, you must know that feelings are not reluctant, and strong melons are not sweet, you must know that feelings are to be fought for personally.

Feelings need to be cultivated, this is true, but marrying someone you don't like, this is not good, you don't like it, you can't cultivate feelings, marriage can not be forced, this is a lifetime of events, related to the happiness of a lifetime, don't be reluctant, you must be cautious, you haven't met someone you like, this is also normal, it's not that you're abnormal, I believe that soon, you will definitely meet someone you like.

Feelings can really be cultivated.

If you're willing to cultivate.

It's not a question of normal vs. abnormal.

It's really not touching what you like.

Isn't that surprising?

Why do you say that, friend?