Why do many men end up not marrying their first love?

Because marriage depends on two people running in with each other and caring for each other to come to the end, maybe the man was relatively young when he first fell in love, and he didn't cherish this relationship well, and he didn't do a good job of running in and maintaining it, so it finally led to a breakup. After all, people are immature when they are young, and they may not be serious when they fall in love, they may like their first love, but after a long time, they may have conflicts, and they may also lead to breakups without freshness.

Because we were all very simple at that time, the things we yearn for are very beautiful, but as we grow older and experience more and more realities, our mentality and outlook on love will change, so there are very few couples who can enter the marriage hall from their first love.

Because everyone will change, they will change when they grow up, and the other party is also changing, many of them can't marry their first love because of their own reasons.

Because many first loves can't go to the end with him, it's too rare to be able to talk about marriage from first love, very rare.

Because there are many factors, the influence is not only because of the development of their own work or some reasons after graduation, but they may be separated in the end.

First love doesn't understand love, it's like time can't go back.

The reason why most of the Bila boys will not marry their first love in the end is mainly because it is not suitable. I think that although most people have a first love complex, they do still have the position of first love in their hearts, but this is not to say that that the relationship is still love, not that they like this person now, but because they once liked it, and when they were empty.

When it comes to the topic of first love, many people's hearts should be a little throbbing. It is said that first love is generally unforgettable, and first love is also the most simple feeling that many people feel, but most first loves do not come together, and many people's marriage partners are not their first love. Why do most men still end up not marrying their first love?

1. Unwilling to break the good.

First love generally leaves a man with a better emotional memory, because the first time you fall in love, you are relatively simple, and you won't be bothered by some daily trivial things when you are in love. At that time, love was almost like going to and from school together, holding hands to eat or watching movies, etc. When they first fell in love, everyone was almost very naïve, and there was no so-called intrigue.

But people have to return to reality after all, and after all, they have to run around for such trivial things as firewood, rice, oil and salt. Therefore, many men are reluctant to break this beauty and choose to live their first love in their own good memories!

2. I feel that my first love is not mature enough.

When they fell in love for the first time, they were basically not very old, and most people were still in a hazy period. Therefore, women who fall in love for the first time still pay more attention to illusory things, and most of them are more extravagant in romantic feelings. If the first love is taken as the object of marriage, many men will feel that the first love cannot help them, and it will be more tiring to choose the first love.

So most men will choose a mature woman as a wife, so that they can also be more relaxed.

3. Worry that it will not last long.

Women who are in love for the first time are mostly more emotional because they are in love for the first time. They may have few material demands on their subjects, but they may have more spiritual requirements. They are likely to test whether you love her from time to time, which men may like when they are young, but mature men will feel a little tired.

Because they need to work to earn money to support their families, they don't have as much energy to do that. Therefore, men are afraid that they may leave him at any time if they do not satisfy the pursuit of love in their first love, and they are also afraid that such a relationship will not last long.

4. Fear that the first love will leave.

When a woman in love for the first time falls in love, they still know too little about men, so many men are more worried that the reason why she falls in love with her is just because she met herself first. If one day she meets another man who makes her heart flutter, she will leave ruthlessly, desperate. Therefore, the reason why many men do not marry their first love is that they are a little worried about the unknown ahead, and they are afraid that their first love will not be able to know how to cherish it, and they will eventually leave ruthlessly.

So they would rather end their relationship when everything is better, in order to leave a good memory!

There are many reasons why men don't marry their first love, not because the first love is not good enough, but because they want to keep that good memory. There are also many people in life who marry their first love, and these people also live very happily. It is very happy to meet the right person at the beginning, and it is worth cherishing the feelings of finding the right person after several romances!

Finally, I wish all lovers happiness!

Why are men reluctant to marry their first love? Isn't it the best first love? When you fall in love for the first time, it is the best age in life.

Ignorant and young, generally not yet in society, do not understand the difficulties of life. Love will also be swayed by romance**, and there is less integration with reality. I have a metaphor that we both have a bit of fairy energy in our first love.

The fireworks were folded up. Only when you really step into the society do you know that love is not a mirage, at least it has to be down-to-earth. Pure love can also be tainted by the world.

There are more material considerations. When the ignorance fades, do we know what we really need? First love is often defeated by reality.

A breakup ensued. In fact, did we really understand love at that time? It's just the pursuit of romance.

However, that time was the simplest and happiest day in life, and I never forgot my first love, but also the desire for youth.

First love is often born of pure friendship feelings. When we really enter the society, each of them has its own things and many changes that separate the two people, forming a difference in the living environment, each with its own side. I only left good memories, time waits for no one, and we are never together.

The reason why first love is the most beautiful is purity. Because they were very ignorant when they first fell in love, they didn't know anything about love at that time, they only knew that they liked each other silently in their hearts, and some didn't even dare to express it. The beauty of first love lies in its incompleteness and regret.

Some first loves happen on campus, and when graduation comes, some couples have to choose to separate in the face of reality, so most of the first loves cannot be successful.

Because we don't know what love is in our first love, after fantasizing about what love looks like in our hearts, we feel that it is love, especially under the influence of many TV series, our expectations for love are too high, and then we know when we really experience love, love is sweet, and at the same time bitter, love and living together are actually two different things. First love is indeed beautiful, but the person you marry is mostly not the first love. In today's society, the age of first love is relatively early, and some people may start in junior high school or high school, at this time it is still uncertain, and they often see superficial things when they look at each other, and their thoughts are very simple, and there is not much reality in front of them.

And as you grow older and more knowledgeable, your mentality will change, and you will slowly know what your needs are, and you will look at each other from a variety of angles, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and only the feet know if the shoes are suitable.

It's not that men don't want to marry their first love, it's just that some feelings don't continue to the point of talking about marriage, and there are many examples around me.

Then if you are willing to marry your first love, you must love her, if you are not willing to marry your first love, you must not love, there is no such feeling of love, so you will not get married.

Why are men reluctant to marry their first love? Isn't it better to be a first love? First of all, for the first love, they may have experienced the process of falling in love in life, many people think that most of the women in the first love are not pure, and may have had improper relationships with others, so when talking about the object, when talking about the experience of their first love, they feel that this kind of woman is not pure enough, or that they are not loyal enough to themselves, so most people are unwilling to take the first love, this is the truth.

Men are reluctant to marry their first love, and that is because the result of the two people has been determined, so there is no need to dwell on this issue. But the heart may miss him.

Men are reluctant to go out, the first love is because the first love is cyan, there is no interference from some external factors, it is possible that the man has another understanding of the feeling of first love after he matures.

Sometimes first love isn't the best. Because the first love is just the white moonlight in their hearts, but there are a lot to consider when getting married, and they are reluctant to marry their first love, probably just because the boy feels that he does not care about his family and is not suitable for marriage.

It's not that men don't want to marry their first love, but they don't cherish it when they fall in love. Maybe they were young at the time, so they didn't know how to maintain this relationship, and when they broke up, they knew that their first love was the best.

It's not that a man doesn't want to marry Chu, but because he can't marry his first love, because his first love has already married someone else, it's not that he doesn't want to marry.

At the time of first love, both parties were still very young, and they only got along with each other by feeling. And marriage is realistic, and as you get older, you may feel that your first love is not as good as it could be.

It's not that men don't want to marry their first love, but although they have a good relationship at the time of their first love, they are not mature enough at that time.

When they first fell in love, they were relatively young and ignorant, and they were a lot more impulsive at that time, without thinking about the consequences, and broke up with some minor problems. Slowly, it will become more materialistic, and it will not have the beautiful image it had at the beginning.

This question is actually too absolute.,Boys are actually willing to take their first love.,It's just that the relationship didn't go to the end.,At the beginning, I was looking for what I wanted.,After talking too much, I found that I didn't want what I wanted.。

Why are men reluctant to deal with it, isn't it the best first love? I think that although my first love was beautiful, I didn't understand anything at that time.

It's not that a man is unwilling to marry his first love, but that his first love has various problems with the passage of time, and he will not deal with them at that time, so it is difficult to go to the end.

In fact, the first love is really just the pure land of feelings in everyone's heart, the real married life, the first love may not be suitable, the first love is the most beautiful yearning for the relationship imagined in the heart, and if you really live with the first love, it may break this beauty.

First love is very beautiful, but too beautiful, not suitable for life, you know, the days are very realistic, not other people's things, once the pressure of the days is on the shoulders, people will be tired.

Some people say that men are attached to their first love, not because they like their first love, but because they like themselves at that time. In fact, this statement is completely wrong, you don't know men, the reason why men like first love is indeed related to the original youth, but it is precisely because of the existence of first love that that youth is particularly meaningful.

If he hadn't been in love during his adolescence and he had remained single, he would hardly have missed those years so much, and the reason why he missed them was because there was someone who walked with him through his youth during those years.

I don't think it's that I don't want to marry my first love, it should be blocked by some reason, or maybe I was hurt or hurt, so I didn't marry.

Why are men reluctant to marry their first love? It's not because the first love is not good, it may be that the two people didn't come together, so they definitely can't enter the palace of marriage! Especially those who can go from first love to marriage hall are really very few.

Because first love is not the type of girl he wants. Some first loves have achieved positive results, have they been together for a lifetime?