What are we pursuing in our lives? 255

The pursuit of a person's life is nothing more than fame and fortune, as well as the satisfaction of desires and the answers to doubts, and that's it.

There are those who pursue power, money, and profit, and there are those who pursue color.

Everyone's way of doing things is different.

Maybe we have already seen through life, but I dare to say that there is no end to learning, you can't exhaust it in your life, and there are always some novel things or theories that can attract you to fascination.

What are we pursuing in our lives?

This sentence may explain this problem, the world is panicked, but the picture is a few taels of silver. It's just that this broken silver is a few taels, which can solve all kinds of panic in the world.

What should a person pursue in his life?

We move forward all our lives. I don't know anything to anyone. Why is it so strong if it's not playing? No. Fun stuff. to the private.

0 6 years old: It's simple, just have fun.

6 12 years old: study hard and want to go to a good middle school.

12 15 years old: Study hard and strive to get into a good high school.

15 18 years old: Study hard and be sure to get into a good university.

18 22 years old: Beginning to be confused, what exactly do you do after graduating from college, going to graduate school? Employment?

22 30 years old: Fighting for a career and wanting to start a family.

30 40 years old: I hope that my children will be healthy.

40 50 years old: I hope that my children will succeed in their studies.

50 60 years old: I hope that my children will be able to start a family.

After 60: Again began to set his sights on the third generation.

So, what exactly are we going to pursue in this life?

The ultimate goal when studying is to get admitted to a good university, and I always feel that if I am admitted to the university of my choice, these 12 years of hard work have not been in vain, and I can get ahead and live happily in the future.

But if you don't have a good time with your classmates who are not admitted to university?

They enter society in the middle of junior high school, high school, or college. He started working and earning money many years before us, and he was also prosperous; There are also those who have married and had children, and have formed a small family of their own, and they are still happy.

What about after you get admitted to university? Eat and wait for death or keep trying?

Even if others eat and wait for death, as long as you don't fail too many subjects, you can still graduate successfully.

What about effort? Trying to get a good graduate school or getting a good job?

If you look for a job after graduation, what kind of job will you look for, and which job will you deserve?

After graduating from graduate school, although there will be a lot more choices to face, you still have to think about what to do to be worthy of your nineteen years of hard work.

After having a third generation, the energy turns to the grandchildren and repeats the previous things.

Reminds me of a story about a sheep herding baby:

Sheding Sheep: Make money.

Sheep herding baby: marrying a daughter-in-law.

Sheep herding baby: giving birth to a baby.

Sheep herding baby: herding sheep.

The process of everyone's life is similar, that is, studying, getting married, and having children, but one thing that can change is how we want to live?

Think clearly about what you want, so that you can have a purpose in life, not repeat these processes aimlessly.

It is often said that this life is just an experience, just like the plants, trees, the sun and the moon, to experience the reincarnation of desire. Keep getting to know yourself and know yourself.

In my opinion, the ode to life is an exploration of one's own character. When I was a teenager, I longed to grow up, yearn for freedom, and feel the splendor and beauty of the world. In youth, they accompanied each other, pursued equality, struggled for their careers, and practiced love.

In middle age, the old Zheng Dynasty has the courage to take responsibility, gain respect, and contribute to his own happiness. In old age, face it calmly and calmly. From the pursuit of experience to the pursuit of purity.

But some people think that life is to be calm, Wanruo's cup of iced tea, bright color, and lemon as a dress, drink it, a little cool, sweet and sour. Life should be about peace of mind. The peace of mind should be interpreted as the peace of mind to be "reasonable", and you can only be at ease when you have "reason".

Only by being comfortable can we live calmly.

A few days ago, I saw a hot question on the Internet: "What are we pursuing all our lives"? When I saw this question, I was deeply pondered.

Wang Xizhi said: The appearance of the lady is the same, looking up to the first life, or taking the embrace, and the words are in the room; Or because of the entrustment, outside the wandering wreckage.

People live for a lifetime, and they have hurried through this world, like a flash in the pan.

But there are always many desires in this life.

All people have the same wish when they are young, that is, to grow up quickly, to be free, to be able to control the world like adults.

When I grow up, I hope to go back to my childhood, I can be carefree, I hope that the title of the gold list will be titled, I hope that the money will continue, I hope that the house will be full, and I hope that I will sing songs every night.

When you are old, you want to live a long and healthy life, and you can enjoy your family with children and grandchildren.

I often say that people are always greedy and never satisfied with the status quo.

In fact, this life is just an experience, just like the grass and trees, the sun and the moon, experiencing the reincarnation of desire.

Life is made up of unsatisfying desires, suffering and being unsatisfied, and being uninteresting. We need to re-examine the desires that always make us miserable in the most painful worldview.

Many people think that meaning is not the most important thing in life, which is why the general public still survives in the face of the ravages of reality. But, is meaning what life is worth pursuing?

The so-called meaning is those so-called dreams, honors, success, eternal life, loneliness, consciousness, truth, intelligence, love, decency, unknown, food, pride, security, existence, contribution, desire, responsibility, freedom, faith, purity, money, bliss, satisfaction, busyness, consumption, answers, uniqueness, death, dreams, praise... Meaning"What if there is more, the more you think about it, the more you get?

We don't have to worry too much about the outcome of our pursuit, because the result will eventually pass away.

I like this sentence in Big Fish and Begonia: Our life is very short, and we will eventually lose it, so you might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain, chase a dream, you might as well be bold, there are many things without answers.

Therefore, the question "What are we pursuing all our lives?" "I can't give you an answer to this question. It should be said that in this life, the value of each person's life, should be completely defined by oneself, and it should take a lifetime to find the answer.

I think that what we pursue all our lives is our own meaning and value, and I think our meaning and value is to make the people we love and those who love us live very happily and happily.

What we pursue all our lives is happiness, whether it is our family or our loved ones.

What are we looking for all our lives? In a person's life, the pursuit is different, some pursue ideals, some pursue money, and some pursue love, so individuals have personal pursuits, which cannot be compared.

In fact, I am rich and poor, everyone's life is 100 million, in fact, I am rich and poor, everyone's life is the same, all for their own better life. It's not that if you are poor, you can live well without living and attaching, everyone's destiny is born with it, in fact, I am rich and poor, everyone's life is the same, all for their own better life. It's not that if you're poor, you can live well without living and attaching, everyone's destiny is born with it, it's not that I'm actually rich and poor, everyone's life is the same, it's all for their own better life.

It's not that if you are poor, you can live well without living and attaching, everyone's destiny is born with you, not that you.

In fact, we are extremely poor all our lives, and what we really pursue is to have a better and happier life. Having such a happy life requires us to struggle and work hard to get it. This kind of stuff is what we really want.

What is pursued is the rich race, and the poor are thinking about change.

This is a rather profound question. Because everyone's pursuit in this life is different. Of course, most of them are pursuing a double harvest in their careers and marriages. But there are also people who pursue something different, and not everyone is so one-sided.

Although we have spent our lives in poverty, what are we really after? I think everyone is looking for something different, just like the definition of happiness is different for everyone.

Everyone's life is actually very short, but the specific pursuit is different, some people may feel bored to live one day at a time, and some people will make a lot of efforts to pursue what they want!

This question corresponds:

The quest is for a better survival.

If you agree, please give it a thumbs up, thank you.

I've also thought about this question, just to realize my desires, and so is to study, and so is to work.

I have seen this topic on Zhihu: What are we looking for all our lives?

Some people say it's life, because then I can live a little longer and continue to pay off the loan; Some people say it's money, because it allows you to do whatever you want, and no longer live behind others; Some people say it's family, because I work hard and just want my relatives to live a better life.

I think everyone's answer is right for himself. But these are a little different from what I expected.

Later, I found the answer in the book "The Shackles of Human Nature". The protagonist of the story is desperate to pursue his ideals at first, but after he experiences the disillusionment of his dreams and the impermanence of life, he finally realizes that the most precious thing in this world is the ordinary.

Yes, I think what we are looking for all our lives is the most suitable way of life for ourselves, maybe when we stop thinking about those magnificent waves, we will find that although we can't save the world, at least we can be our own heroes in our own ordinary world.

I once heard the story of a passenger driver:

When he was still very young, he always felt that he had to make a career as a human being, so he felt that he had not lived in vain.

So he left home three months after he got married and went to work far away, and after countless repressions and failures, he finally opened a small company.

It is precisely because he is busy with his career every day that he neglects the companionship and care of his family, when he was a little successful, his wife chose to divorce him, and his own children never called him father.

During a medical check-up, he was diagnosed with liver disease. The doctor said that it was because of his long-term work and social interaction that he had an irregular life and rest that led to his illness.

When he learned of his illness, he suddenly realized that the wealth and status he had been striving for had ended up in poor health and his wife being separated.

Later, he closed the company and chose to return to his hometown to become an ordinary passenger driver. He once wrote such a passage in his diary: When I tasted the sufferings of the world, I found that the truest self had long been lost in the wind of the past.

So I chose to return to the ordinary, admitting that I was ordinary, just wanting to taste the sweetness of this world again.

There is a saying that there are three times of growth in life, one is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world, the second is when you find that no matter how hard you try, you can't do anything, and the third is when you accept your ordinariness and enjoy it.

That's true. saw an interview with Zhang Yunlong, he said with a smile: When I first debuted, I felt that if I was given a fulcrum, I would warp the whole earth, give me a chance, and I would shine on the whole screen. In the past few years, I have slowly adjusted, not seeking to be rich and rich, but only to be safe and secure.

Many times, we need to have a normal mentality, dare to face our ordinary, be simple, be indifferent, do not do nothing, do not follow the crowd, and do our best in everything.

Only after experiencing ups and downs will we gradually understand that ordinary is the essence of our life, and ordinary is the trajectory of our life. The bustle is followed by the bustle, and the hustle and bustle is followed by the tranquility.

Pleasing yourself. Studying, starting a family, starting a career, in fact, everything should serve ourselves. Acquiring wealth is also so that you can live happily.

Those with low moral character make themselves happy by slandering and insulting others, and those with high morals draw happiness from serving others and society.

I still think that all our lives are in pursuit of happiness for the people we love and those who love us, and more importantly, to make ourselves happy.

It's all for your good".

Go to school, work, get married. Children. career, children's entrance examinations. Marriage, childbirth, and childbearing. The big one is fame and fortune. In a small way, it is money and fame. Interrelated.

The attachment in your heart and the approval of others.

It is to gain the love and recognition of others.

Ideals, ambitions and lofty goals.

People who really have ideals will not think that they will only be poor for a lifetime, and people who really have their own lofty goals will continue to strive for their goals, only those who have short goals and shallow cognition will think that we will only be poor in a lifetime, this kind of people will think like this, and people who really have ideals will never think that they will only be poor for a lifetime, what is it to follow? Of course, it is the ideal ambition and lofty goal, only in this way can we better live in our own ideals, not waste our own time, and not cause some useless thoughts to others and ourselves.

Ideals and their own goals are always ambitious, and truly understand and think that we are right, will only be our own thoughts, thoughts will always control our behavior, only behavior will not go out, when there is a mistake, the brain will not be wrong, and we will always be the master of the body, the goal pursuit is of course our goal in life. Only by living better in our own lives will we not be exhausted all our lives, and what we seek will be pursued after all.