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Let's put aside everything else, and think about it quietly, whether I love this man or not, whether it is true love, or because I have been in it for so many years, and both parents know it, and there is no way to separate. If you understand this problem first, you will be able to solve it in the next step. If it is true love, then you will not think about anything else, you will only feel that your husband is under a lot of pressure, and you want to love him more than his parents, and he also knows that you and your parents are good to him, then I believe that your life will be better.
If you are shaken, just forced to come to this point, there is no way to separate, but I am very unwilling, I feel why my life is so difficult, why is he so unidealess, the shortcomings are more and more, I look down on him more and more, and his family is also incompatible, if you have this kind of thought, then quickly cut through the mess, it means that your feelings for him are not very deep, you have no confidence in him, so that even if you get married, you will not be happy, you have a little trouble in life, You will blame him and his family, and you will complain about your choice. So don't get entangled, use the weekend, find a quiet place for yourself, put aside the world, ask your heart well, it will tell you the answer, may you be happy.
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To put it simply, their parents should prefer his youngest son and daughter-in-law
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Hehe, communicate more, this is a headache, ask your boyfriend.
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1.Really get to know each other and create a deep emotional connection. Sometimes, after spending a long time together, you will gradually understand the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, hobbies, values, etc., so as to establish a deep emotional connection, which may prompt people to make up their minds to be with their partner.
2.Experienced common difficulties and challenges. Sometimes, when two people go through something together, such as a serious illness, family problems, career change, etc., they trust and understand each other more and appreciate each other's presence more, which may also prompt people to make up their minds to be with their partner.
3.Discover the commonalities and similarities with each other. Sometimes, two people find that they have similar interests, values, habits, etc., and this commonality and similarity may enhance the interaction and communication between the two people, thus prompting the person to make up their minds to be with their partner.
4.Mutual support and understanding. Sometimes, two people will support and understand each other in their relationship, respect, trust and care for each other, and this kind of support and understanding can make people feel very comfortable and reassuring, and may also prompt people to make up their minds to be with their partner.
To sum up, in real life, there are many reasons why people make up their minds to be with their significant other, such as truly getting to know each other, experiencing common difficulties and challenges, discovering each other's commonalities and similarities, supporting and understanding each other, etc. Everyone's situation is different and decisions need to be made on a case-by-case basis.
Add some reasons that might prompt a person to make up their minds to be with their significant other:
5.Mutual attraction and admiration. Sometimes, there is a particularly strong sense of attraction and affection between two people, and the desire to be with the other person may prompt a person to make up their minds to be with their partner.
6.Establish common goals and plans. Sometimes, two people will establish common goals and plans, such as building a family together, career development, etc., and this common goal and plan can make people walk together more firmly and steadily.
7.Establish good communication and trusting relationships. Sometimes, two people who have developed a good communication and trust relationship with each other, and are able to communicate and solve problems positively, may also motivate people to make up their minds to be with their partner.
8.Enjoy each other's company and warmth. Sometimes, the companionship and warmth between two people is the most touching and comfortable, being together with each other is like finding a home, and this warmth and security may also prompt people to make up their minds to be with their partner.
In short, there are many reasons why people make up their minds to be with their significant other, and everyone's situation is different. Before making a decision, you should think carefully and make choices based on your specific situation, your own needs and values to ensure that you and the other person can grow together and move towards happiness together.
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Summary. This is a test given to you by God, and if your relationship is deep enough and you take it seriously, you will definitely be able to solve the problem.
I was ready to get married, but in the end I didn't get married because of some things.
This is a test given to you by God, and if your relationship is deep enough and you take it seriously, you will definitely be able to solve the problem.
She's asking too much now.
Dear, maybe she drank too much chicken soup for the soul and felt insecure.
So I'm spending a lot of money now and I want to get my money back.
The recent divorce of Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei has affected the choices of many women.
Dear, don't you want to get married too?
Uh-huh, yes, dear, how long have you been dating?
I'm thinking about giving me the money I transferred to her right now, and I'm going to do the rest.
It's been more than three years. Then think about it again, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, and if the parties do not reach an agreement, it is recommended to take another look.
Dear, is there any note? Note: Marriage is a prerequisite for marriage.
Well, she asks more and more later, dear, if her requirements are within your financial range, why not meet her? She just wants to see your attitude.
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