How to deal with such a husband How to deal with the husband who bullied you?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Who said that divorced women are so difficult to marry, and who dares to say such a decisive word, how many divorced people have gained good and sincere love and a beautiful new life. According to what you said, your husband really doesn't want to do anything for you, and I don't know that saving is a person who can't work hard and difficult, just know to enjoy, you are willing to share the joys and sorrows with him, but he knows to enjoy, I think his thinking and vision are backward, and now he doesn't want to pay back so many debts, you think very well, sell the house and buy another set without owing money, how good, you can buy a better one when you have money in the future.

    I'm 27 years old this year and I'm not married, so if it's not suitable, I'll get married, because getting married will only make me miserable, and why bother to divorce if it's painful? Think about it yourself, if you have a child in the future, will he take care of the child responsibly? I can't play the role of a husband now, can I do a good job as a father in the future?

    One thing you have to make sure is that he really loves you. If I don't really love you, then it's not so easy for you to regret having a child in the future. But you can tell your husband to let him be more considerate of you and more home, see what her attitude is, and you can usually use a lot of things to try to see if your husband has changed whether he is sincere to you.

    It's never too late to divorce until you despair, and if you don't, maybe you'll regret it. In short, marital issues are very complicated, but you don't have to be afraid of divorce, divorced people are doing well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Did he also think about your feelings before you got married? It seems to me that your husband doesn't seem to care much about your feelings! And I don't love you enough.

    If you think that your husband loves you very much, and you love your husband very much, just have a good talk with him, I think it is better to sell the house, so that you can pay off the loan, and you can have a child while you are young. You must know that the older a woman is, the more unhealthy the child will be, and the more likely she will be to have deformities. And advanced maternal age itself is also dangerous.

    Unless you and your husband don't want children anymore. Otherwise, it is dangerous to drag on like this. Why doesn't your husband think about it for you?

    Let's have a good talk! Or you run away from home once to see if he cares about you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your husband's problem can't be solved, that's your family's business, the days are passing slowly, I have a little suggestion for the house, that is, to support the house, I don't just go to your place for the rental house, if it's good, you can consider the old house also bank press, and then group out the new house, so that your pressure is not great, and you may make some money if you do well!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You buy him a headset, let him wear it, see if he can't listen, it will solve the problem, you buy an eye bag for yourself, and you can sleep with a shade when you wear it!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Have a good talk with him and say everything you want. Listen to his reasoning.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hughed him too selfishly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have a concept of you, afraid of your husband bullying is that you have no subjective thinking, no own career depends on your husband's high consumption, no plan to manage family support and children's education, people must have their own careers, to create wealth in order to establish their own position, now gender equality does not depend on the common struggle to create conditions for family happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your husband bullies you, you will bully you back. A woman looking for a husband is used to love herself and love herself. Take care of each other as lifelong companions. Live a life of mutual dependence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your husband is Li Jiabao for you, then you must first call the police to protect your rights and protect your own life safety.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, so caring for each other, understanding more, and communicating more is the best way, and it is also the basic principle of harmonious and loving coexistence between husband and wife.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Educate him well and let him eat all kinds of delicious things.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are they all married, with bullying? That's a little wrong, isn't it?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The news of a man scolding his wife after a caesarean section has attracted everyone's attention. It also caused a related discussion, if this kind of behavior as a wife should be dealt with? Specific practices include finding their relatives, asking for help to get their help, improving their strength, so that the husband does not dare to despise his own finger attack, and reminding the husband more every day so that he does not dare to make mistakes, these three aspects.

    First, when you are bullied by your husband, you must first ask your relatives for help. For wives, when faced with being bullied by their husbands, it is often difficult for Zen infiltration to cope with it with her own strength, so at this time, she needs to give feedback to her relatives in time and ask them for help. With the help of loved ones, the problem will be solved in your own interests and will be maintained, which is the most beneficial outcome for yourself.

    Second, she must improve her own strength, so that her husband does not dare to despise herself. In order to avoid being bullied by her husband, the wife should strive to improve her own strength in her daily life, so as to improve her status in the family, and her husband does not dare to despise herself, which is the most fundamental way to solve her own bullying by her husband.

    Third, remind her husband more in daily life, so that he does not dare to make mistakes. In order to avoid being hurt by themselves, only the wife should be reminded of his husband in daily life, so that he does not dare to make a mistake, so that he can fundamentally avoid the situation that the wife is bullied by her husband, safeguard their own interests, and ensure that they have a happy life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some women will begin to complain about their lives after getting married, thinking that they didn't keep their eyes open and didn't find a good partner before, because after getting married, they found that their husbands were not very good to them, and they were much worse than they were in love before, for example, a man scolded his wife after cesarean section, what would you do if you had such a husband? If you want to know about these problems, let's take a look with me.

    1. If the husband is not good to his wife, how to deal with him, you need to look at the situation, to see if it is really bad for you, or whether you feel bad to you, these have to be seen according to the situation, in fact, some women feel that their husband's reputation is not as good as before after marriage, that is because they have been together for a long time now, as long as the husband still cares about himself and the family.

    2. Of course, if your husband is really not very good to you after getting married, and he doesn't care about you, and he will accuse you, always saying that you are not good or bad, then as a wife, the mood must be very depressed, and she is not happy in this family, and she can choose to divorce in this situation.

    3. How to deal with your husband's bad treatment of you, in addition, it is recommended that you sit down and communicate well with the old man's negotiate, talk about the other party's opinion of you, and see if there is a turnaround, if your husband ignores you, then you can choose to divorce him.

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