The sense of presence in the family is too low, and the family always forgets me when they send red

You should try to communicate and communicate more with your family. Just kidding, brush up on your presence.

That's because you don't make much money and don't make much money, and now people measure it by wealth.

Pretty much. That's how I am.

: To be honest, if I encounter this kind of problem, it is really difficult. Rejoice and still feel guilty. Personally, I believe that any economic crisis is not accidental, but the inevitable occurrence of a long-term economic bubble.

It may be because his family situation is not particularly good, and he has his own difficulties, so he does not give out red envelopes.

Because it's a family member, I don't think you should worry too much, maybe the other party is such a person, as a family member, bear with it.

Maybe your eldest sister is strapped for money and has no money to send red envelopes!

You can say in a joking tone, big sister, we want to grab the New Year's money. If she doesn't respond, that's her problem, and everyone knows it.

Is he more financially difficult, so he doesn't like to give out red envelopes?

If he can be angry with you if you send a red envelope in the family group, then you should think carefully about whether to live with him for the rest of your life.

But personally, I think he may be doing something else, and then use the topic to play and find fault with you!

Definitely**, don't pay, and don't sign for it!

You make a lot of money, and you have to sell this for tens of thousands.

It's not worth it, because it looks like more than 20 yuan at a glance.

This one is a lie, this watch is not worth 49 yuan.

It's fake, we've been fooled, it's not worth so much,

Elimination without me said it doesn't count. It's 2015, and I'm back from a family dinner, citing a relative of my grandfather's father's generation, and the eldest daughter of the family is married. In my opinion, this relationship line should be less in contact with relatives separated from my grandfather's generation.

My family is the eldest son of the eldest son, and I have to have dinner for various reasons: female marriage, female baby, baby full moon, son marrying wife, moving to a new house, public period, mother-in-law period, Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Ghost Festival, ......The first 5 reasons alone are enough to get together every month, but even with this frequency, I still can't remember who that person's name is, what the relationship line is with me, I only know that he is my distant relative, that's all.

Since I was a child, my father lacked discipline for me, and I was inspired by my mother ideologically, and later I learned from classmates and friends, film and television dramas, books, and the Internet. I can understand this kind of big family dinner, but I don't want to participate too much, I personally prefer the Western "family view"."。

Since my grandfather's death, my father has been the main part of the family relationship, and I have just stayed on the side to eat, and I don't want to do things that I think are meaningless in the future.

This kind of local dinner party behavior has become crooked in the eyes of my mother, and I don't know which generation I started to eat other people's wine and give red envelopes; After that, his children will also hold a banquet to take back the red envelopes sent out ......How much to give and how much to receive, they are all gambling, and they are obviously very tired of planning, but they dare not do it, and it is even more impossible to get back the money they send out, and they will continue to send ......

This infinite loop of the dark wheel rolls up at some point, and it has no intention of stopping.

A family is, in my opinion, a relationship slightly closer than a stranger, nothing more:

If the family is in difficulty, they can immediately find relatives to borrow money, and they must pay it back in the future;

Decoration and so on need a technician master, who can immediately find the family person, not to mention the backdoor relationship, but the task is more important, the service is more thoughtful, but the service is still to be received;

There is a food harvest in this family, there is no need to give a part of it out for free (with the meaning of human affection), you don't owe others, and people don't owe you;

Family planning, which has been practiced in China for many years, has finally been relaxed this year, and the two-child policy can patch up the problems of individual families, but in general, family planning is still needed in China! There is no way that our culture is "thick", and Henan Province has no influence like an outsider.

The ideal is good, and the reality is the backbone. The population is smaller, the wallet is bulging, and the state service is more intimate and ......

If you don't like it, you ignore it, and you can't spray it online.

No, this kind of thinking of yours is our traditional Chinese thinking, and I have the same idea as you, but now in today's society, very few people accept this traditional feudal thinking, but as long as you explain it to them, I think they will still understand.

I think you are rare, there are few people who have such a family concept to you, the patriarch who has to bear the burden of the rise and fall of a family. It's imposing, but it's a little bit less methodical. As the eldest son of the family, you don't want them to accept your ideas, but to accept your leadership, not to ask them to fight with you, but to ask them to follow your struggle.

You are their leader, strict in the little things, and tolerant in the big things. Let you be their trusted and stern person, their idol. To have your majesty, there is no need to worry about your heart, you are a strong man.

Support you!!

Find a time to tell them grandpa's story.

If you can bear it, try not to play with that red envelope. If you can't bear it, talk about it first, talk about your thoughts, and if you can't talk about it, you have to reconsider it for the future. Because big quarrels erupt after a person has endured them for a long time. And when it happens, it's usually out of control.

That's not stingy or naïve, only a child will lose his temper because of such a trivial matter, which proves that he lacks discipline and has not grown up. It's still too little to suffer, just let him go out to exercise and mature the phone.

With such a small heart, it is destined not to become a big thing.

I'm rubbing, stingy... To a certain extent.

If you don't sleep in a bed with him at night, after a month, he will rush to send you red envelopes, and he will never rob you again.

That's because he has such a personality and takes money very seriously.

So stingy, just ignore him.

Of course you can.

It's okay to invite the whole family to a meal to celebrate your dad's birthday.

What's wrong with sending a red envelope?

If you think it's better if your dad comes to post.

Then you can send the money to your dad first, and then let your dad send it out.