If the woman is one year older than the man, will such a union be bad?

Updated on society 2024-06-20
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, I'm one year older than my husband, but I'm a child in his eyes, the age of two people falling in love is not a problem at all, isn't the age difference between Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu even greater!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Biological age is not important. What matters is mental age.

    Although you are older than him (but only a year), as long as everyone is close in ideas. It's not a problem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is no problem, there are several colleagues next to me whose wives are one to half a year older than their husbands, and some of them are married for a year, and they are all 4 years old, so they are doing well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's good. The key is how the relationship between the two is, not to mention the age difference of one year, which is not a problem.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think if you have a good relationship. If he or she is the one you want to marry or marry. You think he or she can bring you happiness. Then the age gap is definitely not a problem.

    What's more, it's only 1 year old.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, I'm a year older than my husband. Our son is like him, and our family of three is very happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as the conditions are right, age is the least of an issue

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What's there? It's only a year old, as long as you believe that you will be happy together, don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Seven males and seven females.

    It's a good thing, love each other well, as long as you get along.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Having such doubts indicates that you are naïve.

    Love is to love everything, don't add unnecessary troubles to yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's there? I'm three years older than my husband. If you really love her, then age is not an issue.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Age is not a problem, there is always one older and one younger among the two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's say you are twenty-four years old and he or she is 23 years old.

    Isn't 24 preceded by 23!!

    Twenty-three and twenty-four are in love tightly!!

    Who can separate you? They have all been combined for thousands of years.

    Why can't you be combined???

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm also having this problem now, but my family is adamantly against it, because it's physiognomy, and I'm a little blindsided. :(

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A young man in the village worked in the city and met a girlfriend. Originally, I was happy to bring it back to my hometown in the countryside. Just because his girlfriend was a year older than him, his grandfather actually told him: Why did you bring a mother back.

    The guy later said to us embarrassedly: "Fortunately, grandpa still gave face, and didn't say it in front of my girlfriend, otherwise it is estimated that this matter will be yellow on the spot!" ”

    In fact, there are countless marriages between women and men now, but the old people have strong thoughts, even if they are 1 year older than their grandson, they are uncomfortable. In addition, there are some young people who think this way. I have a friend who once said:

    I must be looking for a girlfriend who is younger than me, and I am a day older than me.

    So, what age difference is the most appropriate for a couple?

    Traditionally, it is customary to be a man and a woman. In general, couples who are about 3-5 years apart live happier lives.

    The reason is that men are getting older and more tasteful, women want to get pregnant and give birth to children, without getting old, as the saying goes, women become forty! In addition, the man is older and has experienced a lot of things, and the woman is easy to have a worship mentality, and her life will be good.

    However, as the saying goes: a female freshman, hugging a golden rooster.

    Female sophomore, holding gold nuggets; Female junior, hugging gold bricks.

    According to the report of the Institute of Chinese Studies, in 1990, according to the age of marriage, 70% of marriages were between "men and women", and "men and women" accounted for marriages, and the rest were not much different in age.

    With the development, after 20 years, this data has changed dramatically: the number of marriages with "big men and small women" has dropped from 70%, while the number of "small men and big women" has risen to, that is, the number of sibling marriages has skyrocketed.

    Women are big and men are small, where are the benefits:

    1. From a physiological point of view.

    As the old saying goes, a woman is like a wolf at thirty and a tiger at forty. If a man is older than himself, he will inevitably be unable to do it, and find a man who is younger than himself, and his physiological needs are just right. In addition, the key to the vicissitudes and aging of a wild woman lies in whether there is a husband who loves you.

    If my husband is good, his face is full of wax and happiness, and he will "shine" without excessive maintenance!

    2. From the perspective of mental maturity.

    Generally speaking, women mature earlier than men and women of the same age. When a man finds a wife who is older than himself, compared with a small woman, she can understand you better and support you, and sometimes she can provide advice to help you, even if she can't help, she won't always be unreasonable.

    3. From the perspective of emotional experience.

    Older women don't listen to the wind or rain, and they are jealous and noisy at every turn. Marrying a woman older than oneself will be relatively more comfortable in life, because she has lived a thorough life in the polishing of the years, and will know how to manage married life better, "do it and cherish it" is a better example.

    Finally, how old are you and your husband (wife)? How many years do you think it's better for couples to age apart?

    Note: **Unrelated).

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In reality, there are many examples of women who are a year or more older than their men. In the end, I am very happy, dear, I wish you marriage and love, be sweet and happy! As long as the two love each other, it doesn't matter how much age difference there is.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. If the girl is one year older than the boy, it is actually very good, in fact, the age difference between the two is not very big, so there should be no obstacles in the usual communication, and the other two people's ideas can also be consistent, so that the two parties can communicate and negotiate to solve problems in ordinary life.

    2. However, if a girl is one year older than a boy, she needs to worry about her own life after marriage, because younger boys are generally not very good at taking care of people, and girls need to take care of him, which is equivalent to having a child at home.

    3. According to the older generation, it is very good if the girl is three years older than the boy, because there is a saying that the female junior hugs the gold brick, which means that the family conditions can become more and more superior, and the woman who is three years older will know how to love the man more.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The marriage of a year older girl is not very good.

    It is often said that a female junior holds a gold brick, and if a woman is three years older than a man, this feeling is actually a good match. Because girls are older and have a strong tolerance, this can avoid a lot of differences. But if you're a year older, love can easily get really bad, and there will always be all sorts of disagreements between two people together.

    In fact, many marriages do not recommend that girls be a year older than boys, because such one-year-old marriages do not open up the divide between them. When two people get along, they still have disagreements due to various auspicious differences. They always feel that the other person should let themselves do it, and the relationship will naturally turn out to be particularly bad in the long run.

    It is easy to have contradictions

    If a girl is a year older, she will feel that she is psychologically disadvantaged, so it is easy to infinitely magnify the contradictions between two people because of a little disagreement, and naturally there will be constant quarrels. If the same boy is only one year younger, he will feel that he has no face to be pressed for a long time, so love will naturally fade. This statement is more pompous, but there will be a certain amount of pressure on whoever gives the heart of a boy or a girl, especially when two people feel bad.

    It's always easy to be very concerned about the age gap because of various issues, so each other's emotions will also be affected to a certain extent. Physiologically and psychologically, men themselves are later maturing than women, if you find a woman who is only one year older than you, then the psychological age may not be much more mature than men, and similar ages lead to women who are generally unable to tolerate each other in all aspects of life.

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So please tell me how to turn her into my girlfriend? Brother, we don't do magic. If I can, I will change myself. Ha ha.