Is it normal for roommates to always go to see their boyfriend in the middle of the night?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, as you described. Your roommate always goes out in the middle of the night to meet your boyfriend. This kind of thing is very abnormal. Normal romantic relationships can take place during the day or in the evening.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Always going to see your boyfriend in the middle of the night, of course it's not normal, maybe they're already living together. But if it's a girl, you must pay attention to protect yourself, otherwise it is likely that it will be a girl who will be hurt!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Roommates always see their boyfriends, I think it's not normal, because after all, it's so late, if there is anything you want to meet, you have already met, and you shouldn't stay home at night, this kind of behavior is extremely bad.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The roommate always goes to see his boyfriend in the middle of the night, which is really not normal, and it is not safe in the middle of the night, and it is possible that she does not want too many people to know!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This can be regarded as a normal positive remark, the two people are particularly compatible, and there is nothing abnormal about the relationship between the two people, after all, they are in love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's also normal for roommates to always pick up their boyfriend in the middle of the night. After all, it's someone else's business. As long as they're happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal for roommates to see their boyfriends, and it's possible that they don't have time during the day.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This must be abnormal, so in this case, you must communicate with her in a timely manner, and let him sort out its normal card.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This kind of behavior must be very abnormal, so I think you should not pay too much attention to other people's affairs, or do your own thing, it is really good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it normal for roommates to always go to see their boyfriend in the middle of the night?I think it should be normal, they are in a relationship, and the two may be inseparable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's normal, after all, everyone and everyone will be different in their interactions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think he may have a hard time doing this, maybe he was afraid of affecting others or he was afraid that his boyfriend's working hours would be inconvenient, and only this time was convenient, so he went at this time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The roommate always goes to see his boyfriend in the middle of the night, which is indeed a bit abnormal, and he should be dissuaded.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The roommate went to see her boyfriend in the middle of the night, indicating that they were sneaky and couldn't see the light.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's nothing if it's her own boyfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The society of today is not as good as the old society of the past. Getting some sleep isn't a big deal.

    I just asked my roommate to go home and sleep to make room for me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, don't talk to your roommate directly, this is also a personal privacy, so that they don't talk about it again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Lie. Maintain the cleanliness of your dorm room. Otherwise, they will keep asking you this and that. It's not good for your reputation either.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on how you have a relationship with your roommate. What is the character of the roommate? If the roommate is of good character, doesn't talk nonsense, can keep secrets, and you have a good relationship with her, then it's okay to say it.

    But if the relationship with your roommate is average, and you like to tell the truth, there is no need to say it. After all, it's your business to go there, and there's no need to explain it to her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's better not to say, can you be sure that this is your future husband? What do you let the other roommates think of you, maybe I'm too feudal, it's purely a personal opinion.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just don't lie and say something's wrong.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, it is normal for a roommate to bring a boyfriend back, because it doesn't involve your field, and you have no reason to stop it. To get out of this dilemma, I suggest you choose the following methods:

    1. Communicate calmly with your roommates

    First of all, you can choose to communicate with your roommate first when they are available. Explain your reasons and desire for your roommate not to bring your boyfriend back. If your roommate is a very considerate person, she will choose to agree, and you can continue to live with peace of mind.

    If your roommate is a very strong person and thinks that bringing your boyfriend back has nothing to do with you and doesn't involve you, then you can only choose other methods.

    2. Choose to move out

    In fact, this is the most effective method, because you don't need to think about how to stop your roommate from bringing your boyfriend back. But there is a downside to this approach, and that is the economy. If you shared a room with a roommate because the rent was cheap, then you are likely to face two problems after moving out, one is that you will not be able to find another person to share with you for a while, and the other is that you may not be able to find a rent that is cheaper than here.

    3. Choose to avoid

    If you don't move out, you'll have to continue renting. In the face of the practice of your roommate bringing your boyfriend back at night, you can only choose to tolerate it, or buy earplugs and choose not to hear quietly, or you can go out for a walk at night and come back when your roommate's boyfriend is gone.

    Since there are a lot of problems that can arise when sharing a house, I recommend that when you share a house, it is better to find someone who knows the bottom line. If there is any problem in this way, you can discuss it together. If you are not happy with her approach, you can also say it directly, after all, a friend's words are better than strangers' words.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If there is such a provision in the pre-contract, you can support it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this case, you can choose to rent another house, otherwise it will be more embarrassing.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Often bring your boyfriend back, and the house you rent together will affect other people's and should be stopped.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it doesn't affect you, leave it alone! If it affects you, then you have to put forward your opinion and negotiate to solve the problem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I think it should be stopped.

    After all, she didn't rent the house alone.

    Bringing people back in the middle of the night After all, there is a difference between men and women.

    She doesn't even think about other people's feelings.

    You can talk to her about it, and it's okay to take it down once in a while.

    But it's a bit too much to bring often.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In this case, you have to choose by yourself and rent a house, otherwise it will be very embarrassing After all, people also pay for it, and you have no right to stop it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Get straight to the point and make it clear, if it doesn't work, you can find a new house.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you should stop him. Because when you rent a house, you and he are both tenants of the same status. You can ask him not to bring her boyfriend back when he's online, because you're in this rental house at this time, and I don't want other people to come here.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What's there to stop, bother you? Bear with it if you can.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After all, people also pay for rent, what right do you have to stop it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Money worship, wasting your youth and not studying well, this kind of woman is probably not wanted by anyone when she is old.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The odds are relatively large, and although some people can control some of their own thoughts, it is difficult to control other people's thoughts. What's more, always walking by the river, there is a reason not to get your shoes wet, and it is difficult to clean yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is no feast in the world that eats for free.

    100%.

    I hope that the landlord and roommates will not be influenced by her, she has a problem with her values and is deformed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    100 percent, I haven't been able to return many times at night, so it must be 100 percent.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Do you like her boyfriend, otherwise why do you care so much?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    10,000 percent Otherwise, where would the money come from?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Let's get to know it slowly, we haven't been together for a long time, and if you think he has something, you can check him out privately.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Not normal He may be afraid of a person who will not dare to get along with you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Be nice to your boyfriend, just a roommate, just don't put on an unhappy face.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Courteous and dignified.

    Polite, but distant, beautiful.

    Pretend you're particularly dependent on your boyfriend.

    Pretend you listen to him for everything.

    Pretend you adore him.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Etiquette and politeness, and to give face to your boyfriend!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Dress up a little, you must not be ashamed of your appearance, and give him enough face!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Pretend to be a lady for a while, the first impression is important.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Say directly: I want to talk to you, you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, can you consider me? After all, we are colleagues, and I have a lot of inconveniences... Please be considerate of me!

    Also, not only do you annoy your colleague to hit her boyfriend, you also annoy your colleague.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Or talk directly to the man, after all, men are relatively large, and they will generally be considerate, if you still don't care about your feelings, then you have nothing to talk about, such men and women believe that it won't be good for long, do things only for themselves, they will be finished sooner or later.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Things like this can actually be said directly.

    If you don't say it, she'll never realize that she's affecting someone else's rest.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's the same in my dormitory. Although I am a little jealous and jealous of what you said, I still tell you to put it in one place and soak his boyfriend over.

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