Is it normal for my boyfriend not to want to see me? My boyfriend said he missed me but didn t see m

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe you're both older, so you're much more rational than the average person about feelings, think about it, is he a person who can't express feelings, he can't express it, then you can express a little more, right? Also, don't let him think that your feelings are cheap! To do a scale problem!

    It's good to be with someone who cares about you! Two people don't have to stick together every day, right? If he ignores you, then you ignore him, you have to communicate well with each other, and you can't not talk for several days, otherwise how to cultivate feelings!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should sit down with him and have a serious talk, and if I'm right, maybe he just thinks of you as a sister. Of course, this is just my speculation, and I hope you can grasp the scale yourself, because men are more sensitive to this kind of topic.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's definitely not normal, you guys still call it falling in love? Is this still called a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship? Think about how to deal with it, I think it's not normal!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your love is very plain, maybe you are not good at romance, go find time, romantic and romantic.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He wasn't emotionally invested or anything else.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I support the statement upstairs.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Upstairs, you're a fortune teller, huh? As for the constellation, the other two can't say anything clearly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't know, what zodiac sign he has.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Dear Hello I'm glad to answer for you, my boyfriend said that he misses you and doesn't see you, which means that he just talks sweetly, red and happy, under normal circumstances, I miss a person, I can't wait to see each other, and I won't just say or do it, but he doesn't want to see you, which makes us have concerns.

    Dear hello I'm glad to untie and answer for you, my boyfriend said that he misses you, and I don't see you, and I don't see you, and I mean that he just talks sweetly, and you are happy, under normal circumstances, I miss a person, and I can't wait to see each other, and I won't just say or do it, but he doesn't want to see you, which makes us have concerns.

    Dear hello I'm glad to untie and answer for you, my boyfriend said I miss you, and I don't see you, and I don't see you, and that means that he just talks sweetly, coaxing you to be happy, under normal circumstances, I miss someone, I can't wait to see each other, and I won't just say or do it, but he doesn't want to see you, which makes us have concerns.

    Kiss, he doesn't see you, on the one hand, he doesn't want you at all, but Dazao deliberately said this in order to coax you, on the other hand, he met a new friend of the opposite sex, in order not to arouse your suspicion, I can only say this, because it is inconvenient for him to meet you, so the new friend of the opposite sex will not be allowed to be Liang Fangsan, so you can judge according to the actual situation, he doesn't see you, we can take the initiative to chat with him, to judge, whether he has any abnormal changes recently, Analyze his thoughts in this way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello! I always don't want to see my boyfriend, and I may have the following reasons for my late beating: First:

    You may not really like your boyfriend, you may be irritated when you see him, you will feel that Senki is annoying and you don't want to see him; Second: Is it possible for you to encounter some contradictions, some problems that you yourself do not want to face, or some problems that you do not know how to solve for the time being? Third: It may be that your boyfriend is not as good to you as before, and girls are more sensitive, which makes you overwhelmed and afraid that he will propose to separate!

    If it is the second type, you must solve the problem in time, don't hold back, you are uncomfortable, the other party is also uncomfortable, and over time, small problems will become big problems!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. He doesn't want to meet, maybe because of inconvenience, personal reasons, such as having a wife or girlfriend, but he is ambiguous with you, or simply doesn't want to meet. He is introverted, has low self-esteem, and is afraid that you will dislike him after meeting, which is also because he cares too much and loves you too much, so he is afraid of ruining the current relationship and losing you.

    My boyfriend always doesn't want to meet, what is the reason?

    He doesn't want to meet, maybe because of inconvenience, personal reasons, such as Yu Kuan has a wife or girlfriend, but he is ambiguous with you, or simply doesn't want to meet. He is introverted, has low self-esteem, and is afraid that you will dislike him after seeing the bright face, which is also because he cares too much and loves you too much, so he is afraid of destroying the current relationship and losing you.

    Hello, I had a quarrel with my boyfriend, and it was my unilateral fault.

    It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, don't worry too much about it, dear, since you're wrong, then find a way to make your boyfriend not angry.

    Then the boyfriend didn't want to meet.

    Can you tell me why you quarreled, only by finding the root of the problem and solving the problem can you win back your boyfriend's heart.

    Under normal circumstances, there are three main reasons why your boyfriend doesn't want to meet: 1. You are just the object of his pastime when he is alone. Stupid.

    Second, have a playful attitude. 3. Think you're not the right person to accompany.

    Well, it's going out with someone else and not going out with him.

    Seeing others do not see him.

    Who is he, my dear?

    Boyfriend. I understood that kissing was going out with someone else, not with her boyfriend.

    Honey, it's all quarrelsome, go and coax your boyfriend.

    Hello. Well, good evening!

    Have you reconciled with your boyfriend yet!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your boyfriend does such a thing, he just doesn't love you anymore, and it is also because of the poor feelings of the two of you, which is known as a problem, so it will cause him to have such thoughts, and he may want to force you to break up with him in this way.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's because your boyfriend doesn't love you at all, and it's because the relationship between the two of you has problems, and he also wants to be able to express the fact that he has no feelings for you now.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because Hui Feng is busy with his work, or maybe his boyfriend is more attentive, so he will miss out like this, so he blindly thinks that he will choose to break up if he does not accompany him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It may be that your boyfriend has already envied the love life of his new brother Chunshan, or it may be that your Senru boyfriend does not particularly love you, so he will do this, maybe just to hang you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't accompany you and don't want to see you because I don't like you enough; He's trying to end your relationship with each other, he's doing cold treatment.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Lack of self-confidence or opinions about friends. If your boyfriend is reluctant to see his friends, it means that he is very resistant to your friends, if he doesn't want to meet for the first time, it means that he is not very confident in his heart and has a certain fear of socializing, so he will refuse.

    There is also a situation where he does not want to meet because he has an opinion or dislikes about his friend, if it is not the first time he has met, after meeting many times, it means that he does not like or has an opinion on his friend, so there is resistance in his heart.

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    Say your name with a smile when greeting and keep smiling. Slow down your speech, speak clearly, make eye contact, and don't dance around your hands is the best way to appear at ease.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This situation is that there is no peace in the relationship, and this situation is an insecure feeling in the relationship, and it should be that the man makes you feel very insecure, so it is like this. Girls should have confidence in themselves, they can't blindly let the man lead, their feelings go, and they must seize the initiative. Don't rely too much on others either.

    If you want to go far with your lover, you must learn to manage your feelings:

    No matter how good the love is, it should be your own, and you should manage yourself well first, and then you will maintain a good relationship with each other.

    Accompany the loved one when they need companionship, and silently guard when the other person needs time to calm down, which is the best way to love someone.

    The above is what needs to be done well to manage a relationship, don't blindly love in love, the appropriate space is very important for both parties, only to be relaxed and grasp the distance between each other, love will last. Those who can do this will not be easily separated. When the other person is busy, don't interrupt easily.

    In fact, while managing feelings, you are managing yourself. A good relationship needs to be evenly matched with each other.

    Naturally, for a man, he will work hard to become excellent for love, so women must also learn to improve themselves, find self-worth, and compete with each other.

    Then when the other party is busy, don't bother easily, learn to do what you like to do, and find your own hobbies.

    No matter how much you love someone, set aside some time to love yourself and spend time on yourself.

    If you blindly pay for a person, then it is easy to lose yourself, and it is not lovely for a person to lose themselves.

    When the other party is emotional, don't blindly speak harshly.

    In a relationship, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, there will be times of disputes and contradictions, and this is also the time when they are most vulnerable to each other.

    Some people habitually follow their own minds and can't control their emotions, especially when the other party has a bad temper, saying some cruel things, which can only deepen each other's hatred and can't solve any problems.

    Since you love someone, you must learn to understand the temperament of the other person, understand the psychology of the other person, and know when to say what to say and when not to say anything.

    If you can grasp this degree, there will not be too much trouble and misunderstanding between two people.

    If at this time, the other party is not interested and does not give the other party time, to put it bluntly, it will only make a person more annoying.

    No matter what time it is, you have to give each other enough space, so that the two of you will get along better, and you have things to do, so you don't need to think about each other every day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should learn to empathize! For example, if you don't contact your boyfriend, will your boyfriend also have to be cranky? Worried you'll leave him? So, it's good for you to wait for your boyfriend to have time to contact you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Two people should not have too much restraint or excessive accommodation when they are together. This is easy to cause the other party to despise you, once this situation occurs, the other party will only see your shortcomings, not your advantages, in the long run, it is difficult to be happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When the other party ignores you, it may be because the other party is busy, or too tired to forget to contact you, at this time, you can take the initiative to let him see that you care about him, so that he will not be annoyed by you, but will love you more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your boyfriend hasn't contacted you for a day, probably because of something. Sometimes men and women still have to leave some personal space for each other. It doesn't have to be that I don't like you.

    If you really miss him. You can take the initiative to contact him, and your personality should belong to the more introverted type. And it's fragile.

    Suspicion is also heavier. A girl with such a personality likes to revolve everything she has around her boyfriend. You'd better find something to do on your own.

    Don't think about these things every day, or you'll get more and more annoyed. You can express this request to him tactfully, for example, in the daily chat with a coquettish tone and he said that I hope he can contact you more, often hint at him so that he should understand, of course, it is not excluded that he does not like you very much, after all, if I really like someone, I can't do it for a day without looking for him, don't think too much, spend more time to enrich yourself is the most important thing. In fact, you are idle and not full enough.

    Further, if you are not busy enough, you can also desert. I have more time to watch a drama, and I unconsciously bring it in (a sense of crisis). If it's not substantial, there are no new topics that can be briefly discussed by the two of them (the two sides don't know what to talk about).

    If you don't fill it, you keep your phone every day, and the tone and tone are easy to misunderstand. (Unable to keep chatting normally).

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