We love each other very much, but what if our parents are against it

Let's talk about their parents first Your love and marriage are a lifelong affair It is not easy for them to raise a daughter If there is really any misunderstanding It is very necessary for you to explain clearly This is responsible for yourself It is also to let their parents know that you are sincere to his daughter Children are the flesh of their parents There are few parents in the world who are cruel to their children You have to express yourself with a sincere heart Besides, you can hide from the first day of junior high school and can't escape fifteen Can you still not face her parents for the rest of your life Do you really not want to resolve this resentment? Relax, dare to love boldly, why don't you dare to face them, hurry up and explain this misunderstanding, you don't want your marriage to be a pain. If you don't handle it well, you can barely get married, even if you succeed in being together, it's a permanent pain, and you won't be happy, be bold and salute your father-in-law and mother-in-law, prove how much you love their daughter, and you can give her happiness and reassure parents.

Although marriage is a matter of two people, according to their own wishes, but without the blessing of both parents, the pressure in the future is also very hard, if you can be sure that these problems can be solved by each other, then there is no problem, the key is that this is a very big test for you, if love can withstand this test, your future will be happier, because each other has faced such a big problem has been solved, it will be more solid your marriage foundation, Therefore, if anything does not reach the last critical moment, please don't give up, there is no river that cannot be crossed, do a good job as a parent, the elderly are mainly worried about whether you will be able to live happily in the future, if you can fundamentally dispel their concerns, I think the problem will be solved, looking forward to your good news.

Trouble, thanks!

Let's talk to your parents.

True love can withstand this test, communicate more with your parents, and get their approval.

First of all, you have to figure out why your parents interfered in your love.

Generally speaking, parents will meddle in their children's affairs out of a good attitude for their children. It is normal for parents to think that they have rich life experiences and have read countless people, so they hope to express their opinions and attitudes on their children's love, marriage and other matters.

As children, you can first adjust your mentality, try to listen to your parents' opinions and suggestions calmly, and patiently understand what your parents think about your love and what they say about the person you fall in love.

There is an ancient poem: "I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain." People who are in love are often easily carried away by love, resulting in blindness and inability to see the whole truth.

For the person we fell in love with wholeheartedly at that moment, we always think that he or she is the best, shining, and even flawless. At this time, you need to be "a bystander", and you need the people around you, especially the parents who know you best, to carefully examine whether the person you fall in love with is reliable and worthy of your trust.

Secondly, if your parents interfere with your love not because they feel that the person you love has problems with their character and internals, but because some material and external conditions do not meet their requirements, you should not be too angry at this time, so that you turn against your parents or even run away from home.

If you believe that the person you love is worthy of trust, try talking to your parents to gain their trust and support. In any case, be patient with your parents, have a good attitude, and don't do everything against you.

As an adult, you don't have to obey your parents in everything, you have to have your own thoughts and opinions. You don't have to do everything with your parents, after all, your parents are the people who love you the most in the world. The more parents don't allow you to do things, the more you have to do them, and to show that you are very assertive and individual—you don't have to—this is not a mature and responsible behavior.