What it s like to marry someone you like

It is often said that marriage is the grave of beautiful love, but many people still choose marriage without hesitation. Because the people who spend the rest of their lives together are two people who love each other. Being able to be with someone you love and marry someone you love deeply should be considered a very beautiful thing in the world!

For contemporary people, due to various changes and choices, people's requirements for love are getting higher and higher. But at the same time, there will be many stumbling blocks to a love life. On the one hand, people crave love, but on the other hand, they stop because of reality.

This is also the reason why many people are eager to marry the person they like, and at the same time, they will also live with the person they love and are habitually envious. There are many ways to be lucky, but those who can marry the person they like are really lucky and happy at the same time.

It is a very happy thing to bring the person you love into marriage, and you will be full of yearning for the future married life of two people, and only if you yearn for life will you live a better life, so two people who love each other get married, although the married life will be a little unsatisfactory, but it will definitely be very happy. When you encounter something sad and difficult, he will be happy when he comforts you, and suddenly realizes that even if the world collapses, you still have him. Marrying the person you love deeply, every day is like being in love, maybe the madness of the first love will fade, but under the polish of time, the love that was heartwarming at the beginning will become more charming.

Marry someone you like. That's what it's like to live with someone you like! It's the experience of two people who love each other growing up together, and it's a story of each other's willingness to go crazy together.

Getting married is a very happy feeling, and it is very happy to be with someone you love and like.

Will choose to marry a person you don't like, and marrying a person you don't like has the following characteristics.

First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.

It is precisely because there is no affection between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.

Women often think about whether their other half loves them or not, and she feels happy when she feels loved, and feels sad on the contrary.

In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today.

So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.

For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person. Empty respect.

Third, men are more likely to succeed.

A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.

There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.

You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.

Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.

So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe it is happier to choose a suitable marriage partner.

My wife and I met in detail from my parents, my wife was the daughter of my father's colleague, and because of her age, I also wanted my parents to hold their little grandson earlier, and I got married after half a year of understanding. Married for five years, although they can't say that they love each other, they also raise their eyebrows, and they have a son, who is cool and handsome and likable, and is about to go to kindergarten immediately. Originally, a person like me who has a successful career and a happy marriage should have nothing to lack, but there is always a place empty in my heart, and it wasn't until a trainee came to the company that I knew that what I lacked was feelings.

After knowing that I was obsessed with trainees, I suspected that it might be just an illusion, but I found that this kind of feeling was getting deeper and deeper, and I couldn't help but let my vision leave her, I used to think that working five days a week was to make ends meet, but now I gradually hope that this means that I can see her. I feel close to her, but every time I get close to her, there will be a voice in my head telling myself that I am a person with a wife and children, and I can't be sorry for them at the banquet. But I can't help but pay attention to her, I can't help but send her a message, find all kinds of excuses to get close to her, I know she has a good impression of me, but considering that I didn't say it, she is not easy to say, we just maintained an ambiguous relationship and coexisted again.

I thought that the two of us would continue like this forever, but I found that I am now starting to be in a relationship with her, I want to be with her as a matter of course, but I don't want to divorce, my wife and son are my responsibility, I don't want to destroy a family myself, and now I don't know what to do.

My husband and I have been married for eight years, and we feel that there is a seven-year itch in married life, in fact, my husband and I have been bland in the fifth year of marriage. Now my husband and I are really calling for each other, I understand that he has some people outside, but I don't say it plainly, I have also liked others, and I have played ambiguous relationships with others, but no matter what we do, we all abide by one principle, that is, we can't divorce.

When a woman has a child, she can give everything for her child, and anyone who is a mother will understand. So no matter how much I meet someone I love, I will never hurt my children because of it. I have also wavered that the person I like and even the service promise will marry me, treat my child as if it were his own, and take it to live together, but I know that my child is not his own after all, he likes me now, so he laughs at fifty steps and a hundred steps, but if one day he doesn't like me anymore, he won't be as good to my child as he used to be.

In front of my children, I can give up my feelings and maintain a superficial marriage, as long as my children are good.