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Just follow your heart.
There are happy families who get married and have children, but most of them spend their lives in quarrels and trivialities. Families who don't have children are comfortable and comfortable, but they also lack the experience of having children. People who don't get married and don't have children may be lonely all their lives, although they are chic all their lives.
A person is very free to grow old, and will not be bound by marriage, but when he comes home, he is still alone, and he doesn't even have a person to talk to when he is old, and he may regret it at that time, and he can only take care of himself when he is sick, and when he is not able to take care of himself, he may only enter a nursing home, and no one will visit him during the New Year's holidays, just himself. No one can say whether you will regret it when you are old, the key is whether you are healthy, rich, and whether you can live your own life.
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People who are reluctant to marry are often defined as unmarried, and there are many reasons why they are reluctant to get married. After all, a cause is just a cause, just like the process in the middle of the result of a thing. So what is the result of not getting married, is it lonely to grow old?
So in the end, after all, people who will never get married for the rest of their lives, will they regret it?
1. What should I do if I don't get married and get old?
1.Generally speaking, people have relatives and friends, so people like relatives and friends, have always had a good relationship with them, and they are the kind that help and take care of each other, if you don't get married, although you have no children when you are old, but relatives and friends are still there, and the children of relatives and friends are like your nephews and children, and they will not be too lonely and lonely. Or living with siblings, their children are their own children.
2.But if you don't have many relatives and friends, or if you don't have good friends with them, you don't get married, and you have no children when you get old, you may seem lonely and lonely. If your work and economic ability can no longer keep up with the pace of development of the times, then the economy is also a little nervous, and you don't know if you will be lonely and miserable.
In such a situation, many people will choose to get married, even if they live together, at least they will not be alone.
2. Will you regret not getting married for the rest of your life?
1.No regrets.
Whether to get married or not to get married, it is a very important decision in a person's life, and when making this decision, it must be after careful consideration and comprehensive consideration of all aspects of the situation to make the decision not to get married. There is a saying that there is no room for regret in your choice, and there is no regret after that, maybe the days of not getting married are much better for the days after deciding to get married, so there is nothing wrong with not getting married, so there is no regret.
2.There are regrets.
Perhaps, once met such a person, you may have felt that he was not good enough, you would not have a good future with him, rejected him, did not marry him, and later, that person became the prince you imagined, however, he is already someone else's husband or father, and everything about him has nothing to do with you, maybe you regret it. If you hadn't rejected him in the first place, maybe you would be living happily ever after with him now.
Conclusion: When it comes to the topic of not getting married, many people will also consider the future and what they will do when they are old. If you don't have children to rely on, life will inevitably be boring and monotonous, and if you have siblings who have a good relationship, it's good to live with them.
However, it is still necessary to carefully decide whether to get married in light of the actual situation.
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If you don't get married for the rest of your life, what will happen when you get old, I'm thinking about this question now.
I talked about an eight-year relationship, broke up, and now I feel that love and marriage are like that, so I can't raise the spirit of love and marriage at all. So I imagined countless times what would happen if I didn't get married.
1.The first possibility is that a person lives a quiet life, and when he is old, he will live directly in a nursing home, and he will not have to worry about anything else, and he may be very lonely.
2.Not getting married, but that doesn't mean you don't have a family or have children. Children can be adopted, families can have but a role is missing.
However, seriously, if you are not sure to take on the responsibility of raising a child, you should not adopt, and don't think about having one yourself, it is too difficult for yourself, and you are sorry for the child.
3.The third is to live with girlfriends who also don't want to get married for a lifetime until they grow old. When you reach the age of almost 30, you don't look forward to love much, because after more experience, you know that the love of people of almost this age is not pure, so if there is no 100% love, it is better not to fall in love.
Besides, during the menstrual period, my girlfriend will make ginger tea, my girlfriend will secretly ** if I don't have cosmetics, I will have a small surprise at every turn, I don't want to eat, my girlfriend bought the meal and sent it to the bedside ......Why do you want to get married like this, and spend it with your girlfriends, it's very fragrant.
There is no time to look back, and the wind and snow will be white. If you don't get married, it's nothing more than that when you're old, right? If there is no white-headed person, it would be good if heaven and earth share white-headed with me.
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A man who never gets married in his life will definitely live a lonely life when he is old. I have such a living example around me.
My father's eldest brother was a disabled person. He has suffered from polio since he was a child and walks in a very strange way. Later, because his parents died relatively early, he had to take care of his younger brothers below, and he never got married in his life.
In fact, when he was young, he worked in the supply and marketing cooperatives in the village. The income and treatment are not bad, and there is a house to live in. When he was young, he was strong, although his legs and feet were not very convenient, but he could take care of himself, he could cook, wash clothes, and clean up the housework at home.
Live like a normal person.
But as I get older, I gradually show the disadvantages of not getting married. When I was sick and had no one to take care of me, my younger brothers had their own families, and it felt very awkward to go to my brother's place for a few days. Later, when he got older, his legs and feet were inconvenient, and he could not participate in labor after retirement.
I had to take turns taking care of a few younger brothers. Whoever takes care of it will go, and whoever will live in the house for a while. Just like in the past, brothers and sisters in the countryside took turns to support the elderly, and everyone treated him well at first, because after all, several brothers were raised by him, and everyone was grateful to him.
But after a long time, the family had other ideas, and finally everyone discussed and sent him to the village nursing home. In fact, he himself likes to go to the nursing home, because he is very relaxed and free there. Do whatever you want, eat what you want.
Until finally he became seriously ill and could not take care of himself, and was paralyzed in bed when he needed a nurse to take care of him. Without relatives by his side to take care of him and tell the nurse to turn him over, he was conscious, and finally died of bedsore infection.
This kind of life in old age is definitely not the result that everyone wants, so men still take advantage of their youth to get married and have children, and if they have a daughter-in-law and children, they will not be so sad in their old age.
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If you insist on not getting married for the rest of your life, you can be free when you are young, but when you are old, you must understand that everything is on your own.
When you live alone, when you are old, you must have the ability to take care of your own life, you must have the courage to face possible difficulties and problems in life, you must have the spiritual height of enjoying loneliness and loneliness when you are alone, and you must have the ability to face possible life accidents.
Because, if you don't get married alone, the old man, everything is only to face life by yourself, maybe it is wonderful in the ordinary, maybe it is a disaster in the ordinary, everything, you have to face it calmly and accept it calmly.
Passed away. The eventual death of a person who does not marry is destined to be quiet.
Passing away quietly in an uncertain place, maybe someone will help you restrain it, maybe the corpse will be in the wild, maybe it will not be discovered by outsiders until it is decomposed, but life has passed, why bother with these aftermaths? When we can still act, maybe we can contact to arrange body donation or be a "general teacher" and other ways to deal with it, maybe there will be euthanasia in the future, if you want to walk more decently, then you need to make arrangements and preparations for yourself in advance.
Humans, like all living things, have their own life trajectories and stories, maybe this story is lively and prosperous, maybe this story is unremarkable, maybe this story is silent. But we have the right to choose as a life, but since we have chosen, we have learned to bear and enjoy, no matter what we have, that is our life experience, that is the scenery of our life.
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I think it could split into two scenarios.
The first type is the kind of person who is born with an uninhibited personality and is born for freedom. I've always been envious of this kind of person with a dashing personality and like the wind. They have the courage that we ordinary people lack, dare to break the rules, and are not afraid of the eyes of others to pursue their own free life.
There is also a second type, which is those who have no choice but not to marry a spouse in their lives. They are not like the first type of people, they are eager for love, marriage and family, but they may make people, and life will seem miserable.
It may be that in old age, because they do not have close family members, they have less small talk with their families, and even envy the quarrels in ordinary people's homes. Maybe you will go to the square to practice Tai Chi in the morning with other old people, maybe you will go out for a walk in the evening, and you will cook alone, but are you really happy? There is no happiness at all.
I am also a young man, with the living habits of my peers, the ancients often said, there are three unfilial pieties, no queen is the greatest, do not say that you prosper the family tree. You feel like you're 30 or 40 years old peers and your friends. Classmates, maybe they get married because of the house and the car, and their economic situation is difficult, but why are others gritting their teeth and leaving, everyone is difficult in this era, and you also avoid thinking about your old A lonely loneliness swept through your body!
What is the company of wife and children, what is it when you are old. People, this life may be chic and natural at times. But you can't be chic all your life!
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It will be a happy old man.
Whether to marry or not is your own choice, and not getting married for a lifetime proves that you have not met someone who makes you feel excited in this life.
There are a lot of family trivialities to face after marriage, if it is not for two people who love each other, it is impossible to deal with these problems together, such a marriage will not last for old age, and it is the same as the old age life when you do not marry for a lifetime. And because you don't want to love, you've experienced a married life that you don't want more than if you don't get married.
Insist on being yourself, don't get married, now you are a happy youth, you will be a happy middle-aged person in the future, and you will be an open-minded old man when you are old. Life will be kind to all those who live seriously.
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What happens when you don't get married for the rest of your life and get old? It can be desolate when you get old.
Some people say: People who do not marry in their lives will eventually pay a heavy price in their old age for the pleasure of their youth.
Indeed, for men and women who choose not to marry, although they can live a chic life when they are young, they may not be happy in their later years.
If you have to ** the reason why they don't get married, it's nothing more than that they are afraid of the trouble of raising children, they don't want to take on their due responsibilities, they just want to have fun and live an unrestrained life.
However, if you don't experience marriage in life, don't you feel like a pity? Without experiencing parenthood, you never know how great it is to be a father and mother, and no matter how good your world is, it will pale in comparison.
Marriage is a process that every man and woman need to go through normally, and reproduction is an instinct of biology. It carries a responsibility and is of great significance to the family and society.
Sometimes, people really can't be so selfish, otherwise, you will end up paying a heavy price for your irresponsibility.
Men and women who do not get married, in their old age, generally have only two endings, which are usually very bleak, and I really hope that those who are not married can reflect on it.
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Can you not get married for the rest of your life, and what will you do when you get old?
Yes, but you need to think about it. If you don't get married for the rest of your life, you don't have to take on the responsibility of taking care of your lover and raising your children, and you don't have to worry about the current dowry money. Therefore, more and more people are beginning to consider choosing not to marry for life.
But if you don't get married for the rest of your life, especially when you're sick, you may feel lonely. However, whether a person can go unmarried for the rest of his life is actually his own choice. You don't have to deal with too much financial pressure to get married or raise children without getting married for the rest of your life, so you don't have to face too much financial pressure if you don't get married for the rest of your life.
In a person's life, as long as he can take care of himself and support his parents, then it is fine. You won't be bothered by the trivial matters at home and have family responsibilities after marriage, especially if you have children
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Seeing too much unhappy marriages around them has made more and more young people afraid of marriage, so many unmarried people were born, who advocate the freedom and beauty of being single. But occasionally some people ask, can you not get married for the rest of your life, and what to do when you get old.
Whether to marry or not is not subject to the law, which means that whether to marry or not to marry is just a personal choice. If you want, you can never get married for the rest of your life, and while enjoying the freedom of not getting married, correspondingly, you also have to bear many disadvantages of not getting married.
The benefits of marriage for old age are generally believed to be to have companionship and children to take care of, which is often said to be "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the child". When everyone enters old age, they need to face the loss of labor, that is, the loss of economic income, and then there is the health condition, who will take care of the afterlife, who will take care of the afterlife, and so on.
In fact, with the improvement of the country's personnel and medical services, and the rise of Yee Hong in the community, even singles have a way to deal with the disadvantages of not marrying. Unmarried people should first provide social security when they are young, and the most important of them is pension and medical insurance. On this basis, the pension and medical insurance that can be purchased with commercial insurance can basically meet the basic economic and medical needs of the elderly.
Although not all marriages are beautiful, there are still many happy marriages, and if you meet the right person, you can still actively strive for it. In the same way, all relationships need to be managed with heart, and may all people live happily ever after.
Of course, it's okay for you not to get married for the rest of your life, but you can't live without a woman for the rest of your life, right? This woman has to be the same as you, she also wants not to get married for the rest of her life, and the two of you will fall in love for a lifetime, and no one can care! Brother, it's very hard to live alone, you need someone to help you and accompany you, you have to help you go when you're old, you have to have someone to serve tea and pour water before you get sick, even if you die, someone has to bury you, right?
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