People who don t get married, isn t it miserable to wait until they get old?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Those who don't get married will really have a miserable life in old age. For the unmarried, they are very open-minded, thinking that they were very happy when they were young, so why bother to find someone to marry. But I didn't imagine that I was in my old age, and if I spent my old age alone, I would feel very lonely.

    You may even feel that you are out of place with others, but because you are already greedy for enjoyment when you are young, you have to accept the loneliness of old age. <>

    Senior livingFor young people nowadays when they are considering marriage, they also hope that they can have someone who can accompany them to support them until they are old. When I was young, I felt very important because of my work or the company of my friends, but in fact, when I entered the old age, I found that everyone around me had their own wives to accompany me. And I don't have anyone to stay with, obviously I will feel very lonely, so for the unmarried family, although it is said that I have a relaxed life when I am young, but my old life is very miserable.

    The meaning of marriage is not the first thing for young people, but considering that they can have someone to accompany them, it is also a very romantic thing to hold on to old age. Most unmarried people consider that two people will have disputes after marriage, and even two people will feel very painful to live, and there will often be conflicts. It's better to live by yourself, when you are young, you will have such thoughts, but when you are old, your thoughts are completely different from when you were young.

    The two of them grow old hand in handMarried people know the importance of having a significant other, and two people support each other in marriage. Although there are times of quarrels, the other party can still take themselves to heart, especially when they are sick, it is obviously very important to be able to get the care of the other half. If you are sick or facing old age after old age, you will be very lonely.

    They also hope that they can have children around their knees, because they enjoy happiness when they are young, but they have to accept their loneliness when they are old.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not true, there are some elderly people who are not married, but they are still living a very chic life. Very happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not necessarily. If you have enough pension funds, you can still live happily in old age.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily, because there are some people who are not married, and they can live a very relaxed life when they are old, provided that they have the ability to support themselves and have their own hobbies, which is also a happy way to live.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is not necessarily, accumulate more wealth when you are young, and you will not be miserable when you are old, some children will have both children, but it will be very miserable when you are old, and it depends on you whether you are miserable or not.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course not, for these people, there are better hobbies and more meaningful things, so it will be very exciting when they are old.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, in fact, they are relatively happy because they have adapted to this kind of life, and this kind of life is not a burden for them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, now many elderly people will go to nursing homes when they reach old age, and their lives are happier and more enjoyable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, in fact, even if you are not married, if you have enough assets, you can enjoy your old age well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, everyone's definition of happiness is different, and the definition of misery will naturally be different, you feel that he is lonely, and he thinks you are too tired.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A man who never gets married in his life will definitely live a lonely life when he is old. I have such a living example around me.

    My father's eldest brother was a disabled person. He has suffered from polio since he was a child and walks in a very strange way. Later, because his parents died relatively early, he had to take care of his younger brothers below, and he never got married in his life.

    In fact, when he was young, he worked in the supply and marketing cooperatives in the village. The income and treatment are not bad, and there is a house to live in. When he was young, he was strong, although his legs and feet were not very convenient, but he could take care of himself, he could cook, wash clothes, and clean up the housework at home.

    Live like a normal person.

    But as I get older, I gradually show the disadvantages of not getting married. When I was sick and had no one to take care of me, my younger brothers had their own families, and it felt very awkward to go to my brother's place for a few days. Later, when he got older, his legs and feet were inconvenient, and he could not participate in labor after retirement.

    I had to take turns taking care of a few younger brothers. Whoever takes care of it will go, and whoever will live in the house for a while. Just like in the past, brothers and sisters in the countryside took turns to support the elderly, and everyone treated him well at first, because after all, several brothers were raised by him, and everyone was grateful to him.

    But after a long time, the family had other ideas, and finally everyone discussed and sent him to the village nursing home. In fact, he himself likes to go to the nursing home, because he is very relaxed and free there. Do whatever you want, eat what you want.

    Until finally he became seriously ill and could not take care of himself, and was paralyzed in bed when he needed a nurse to take care of him. Without relatives by his side to take care of him and tell the nurse to turn him over, he was conscious, and finally died of bedsore infection.

    This kind of life in old age is definitely not the result that everyone wants, so men still take advantage of their youth to get married and have children, and if they have a daughter-in-law and children, they will not be so sad in their old age.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    "If you don't get married for the rest of your life, will it be particularly miserable when you get old? "2 60-year-old single women tell the truth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on the mentality, some people don't get married, and they don't have a other half until they are old, but if they have a good mentality, they still have a good old life, but some people have a bad mentality, self-pity and self-love, and eventually they will be depressed, and the old age life will naturally not be very satisfactory, and will only feel desolate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no one to take care of ......Maybe the guy who loves you will emphasize the wedding horn, and maybe he will encounter a different w

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't get married, you won't have a wife to accompany you, you don't even have someone to talk to, no matter how good your little sister is, she is still a family person, and it is impossible to accompany you all the time, you can only go to a nursing home for the elderly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Whether it is a woman or a man, when you are old without marriage, you will think of not having children with you, because you can't think of it when you are young, but you will know it when you are old and sick.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't get married, what will happen when you get old? In fact, if you don't get married, there will definitely be no one to send you to the end when you get old, and then you will not be able to enjoy the happiness of children and grandchildren when you see others in groups.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People who do not marry have no other way when they get old, but to go to a nursing home and live alone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are old, there must be a lot of single elderly people, and the pension system is more sound at that time, and it is good to go to a nursing home.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't get married and get old, you can live with your brothers and sisters, and then find a partner, and then two people live together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I didn't rely on it, and it was not a good testimony, so the relevant teachers consulted.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Sending them to a nursing home is fine.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's lonely.

    Even if you are strong inside, there are still many times when you are lonely.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Collective pension.

    If you are not married, you can find some single same-sex friends like you, and then help each other together to overcome the difficulties in life, and group pension is also a good choice.

    2. Accumulate savings when you are young.

    If you really don't plan to get married, then you have to earn more money while you are young, and then when you are old, you can use this money to enjoy a happy life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Marriage is very important in everyone's life, everyone may have a significant other half in their life, who will accompany us until we are old, but now there are many young people in society who do not want to get married. There is a saying that if you don't get married, you will be very miserable when you get old, and there is some truth in this statement. But despite this, there are still many young people who do not plan to get married, and they feel that life after marriage is not the life they want.

    1. Old age without marriage.

    There are very few people around me who are not married, and now I am still in my 20s, so there are a lot of people around me who are already married, and the people in my parents' generation basically have their own partners, and they are still living very happily. So if you don't get married, what will happen when you get old? I think that not getting married means not having children, and when you are old, you may live a lonely life, and there is no one to accompany you, and when you are sick, you may only have to find a doctor or a nurse, and if you don't get married, I think old age is still relatively lonely.

    2. Why are young people reluctant to get married?

    So why are young people nowadays reluctant to get married? Because young people in society are relatively independent individuals now, especially some women have begun to become financially independent, thinking that they do not need to rely on men and can have a good future, so many people are reluctant to get married, and there will be a lot of trivial things in life after marriage, many people feel that a person will be more independent and live a simpler life, so more and more people do not want to get married.

    III. Finally.

    Maybe not get married, life will really be more lonely when you get old, I think if there is someone around you, it is still relatively happy, although there will usually be noisy noise, but if you encounter difficulties, there will always be someone to accompany you, I think marriage is still very good, there are many people around me, every day they say not to get married, but everyone knows that at that age, they will still want to get married.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't get married, you won't have to be miserable, because you can also have a good retirement life through your own efforts. Nowadays, people are reluctant to get married, mostly because of the pressure of life, and there are many and cumbersome things to get married.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's going to be miserable, when you're young, you yearn for freedom, but when you're old, you'll be very lonely, because you're under a lot of pressure now, so you're not willing to get married.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course not. Because the pressure is particularly high now, young people are reluctant to settle for marriage, and young people don't believe in feelings, so people are reluctant to get married now.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not getting married is not very miserable when you are old, and it is very comfortable to live alone, most people are reluctant to get married, because there will be more trouble after marriage, and there will be divorce.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    To a certain extent, this kind of thing will be more miserable, because there is no one around. Because people nowadays are more and more independent, more perfect in thinking, and more things to consider, they are reluctant to get married, and they do not have a strong desire for this.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    That's right, if you don't get married, when you get old, it's very likely that there will be no one to take care of you, so you can only continue to make money to support yourself, and now people don't get married because of poor conditions, there is a threshold for marriage, and no one wants them if the conditions are poor.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It won't be miserable, many people now have a lot of pressure in their lives, so they don't want to get married and don't want to bear it, so even if they don't get married, they don't want to bear this kind of economic pressure.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Not necessarily, people nowadays feel that marriage is not the whole of their lives, so they are unwilling to settle, and they may not be happy after getting married, so it is better to remain single.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course not, because people nowadays are more advocating freedom, feel that they will be restricted after marriage, and are not willing to change their existing life status.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't think it will be miserable if I don't get married and get old. Today's young people feel that getting married is a more troublesome thing, and it is particularly stressful to tolerate other people's mistakes.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, it will be very miserable. It's because the social pressure is very high, and we can't feed ourselves, and we are all busy surviving.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It won't be miserable. Because people nowadays are very busy with work and don't have time to fall in love, let alone get married.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you don't have money, you must be miserable, don't believe you try.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No one introduced me to Liu Yifei dating.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    People who don't get married may be miserable when they get old, and there are people who choose not to get married in life, but often without exception they may regret it.

    First, many people think that it is necessary to get marriedSecond, companionship is very importantThird, not getting married in life is actually imperfect

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Each has its own way, married people are old and their children are not filial, and it will be miserable to gnaw at the old, and unmarried people are old, they are not responsible and light, they are free to do whatever they want, and they will live very comfortably.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Married or not, old age may not be very good. A very realistic situation now exists is that when many people get old, one of them often has to leave this world first, and in the end, they are left alone and old alone. And what about your children?

    Have their own work, life, and their own children to raise, and they still have time to be by your side every day? Therefore, there are many people who have been married and do not have a good old age. But one thing is for sure, even if your children can't take care of you and send you to a nursing home, your children are also a strong backing for your life in the nursing home, and with them coming to visit you from time to time, your life in the nursing home will at least not be bullied.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No, although some people are not married, they are very happy and happy when they are old.

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