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To be honest, her mom interferes too much, and you have to have a good talk with your girlfriend about what you think. Don't be afraid, the days will be long, and don't just retreat when you encounter a problem. Going is going to go, since you love her, don't worry too much, even if there are troubles around you, you must live with her for the rest of your life.
It's better to go, see what she says at home, if you can't accept it, make it clear to your girlfriend, see what she thinks, if she really loves you, she won't be swayed by her mother. Good luck in advance! Don't be afraid, be brave!
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What do you want to ask? If you go to your girlfriend's house to pay New Year's greetings, you must explain it in advance, and don't go past thirty, which is contrary to folk customs. But if they insist on letting you go, and your family agrees, then go over. Talk less!
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Go to Sa, discuss with your parents before you go, and when you get to her house, be bold and say something, after all, marriage is a matter for you and two families, but for two families.
You don't know what her parents are going to say, so be improvised
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Talk about your troubles with your girlfriend, see what she means, if you are more angry than your future mother-in-law, forget it, otherwise, you will definitely have tracheitis in the future.
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Go on! Talk to her parents.
Everything is decided by people. Hopefully, you will succeed in convincing them. Good luck
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Anyway, it's better to get married in the city, and then you can invite both families to the wedding. We don't do it much, but we do it too.
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The easiest way is to die. It's not your fault that you're poor, it's your fault that it's not the right time.
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Go to her house to decorate and get married What does that mean, there's no such thing.
Get married outside.
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The two families are watching under the communication.
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Hehe, it's really annoying, let's go and see if I'm talking about pulling first.
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I think first you need to investigate the customs of your girlfriend's hometown, after all, the customs in different parts of China are different, and the things you need to prepare for the New Year are also different, so it is still necessary to investigate. Secondly, ask your girlfriend: whether his father drinks and smokes, if he drinks and smokes, he has to prepare cigarettes and wine, and he can choose to buy some famous good tea.
Finally, you can prepare some home-cooked food, such as fruit and milk, and if you have younger siblings at home, you can prepare some snacks to bring over.
It is necessary to prepare different gifts for each other's family members. For grandparents, you can buy some health products, you can also buy some food suitable for the elderly, try to buy easier to chew, the elderly have bad teeth, can only eat some softer, not too sweet, not good for the elderly, don't be afraid of trouble, don't prepare snacks, the elderly also like to eat snacks. For siblings, you can buy some snacks, milk, etc., ask your girlfriend what they like to eat, and then go to buy it, don't give small gifts, look too stingy, and don't give too big gifts, it's not appropriate to go for the first time.
Finally, there is the father and mother, for the father, if you drink and smoke, bring some better quality tobacco and alcohol, and then bring some fruits; For mothers, you can buy some jewelry, which is more generous and calm. All in all, don't be afraid to spend money, and you will become a family in the future.
Gifts should appear sincere, but not too much. Now there are many stores that buy some Spring Festival gift boxes, which can be selected appropriately according to the customs of the girlfriend's house and the hobbies of the woman's family. Health care products still have to bring a little, health gifts are more popular with the elders, and for your girlfriend's parents, your girlfriend will definitely recommend you to buy, such as protein powder, massage chairs, etc. are very suitable.
Finally, when you go to visit the New Year, remember to dress appropriately, be simple and clean, and make people feel comfortable, so that the other party's parents will have a better first impression of you, and remember to talk generously so that the other party's parents can see your sincerity.
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You can prepare some tea for the woman's father, the woman's mother can prepare skin care products and the like, the children and other elders can prepare some pastries, or ask your girlfriend their preferences and do what they like.
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Prepare some nutritional products for your girlfriend's parents, such as bird's nest, milk, oats, and if your girlfriend has other sisters or younger brothers, you can buy some toys and the like.
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In fact, you should prepare some New Year's gifts, and you should prepare red envelopes.
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Summary. Hello, of course you can, as long as you have time, this is the proper etiquette, since the boyfriend has gone to the woman's house, the girlfriend can also go to the man's house, and the other party's parents and family can be politely greeted by good gifts.
Hello, of course you can, as long as you have time, this is the proper etiquette, since the boyfriend has gone to the woman's house, the girlfriend can also go to the man's house, and the other party's parents and family can be politely greeted by good gifts.
But my own dad is thinking about it, I don't know how.
Your dad is worried that you'll suffer.
Just explain it to Dad.
The boyfriend goes to the girlfriend's house to pay New Year's greetings, and the girlfriend can go to the boyfriend's house to play on the same day.
You can go play, as long as you have time, but if your dad is thinking, you can explain it to him.
Uh-huh, got it.
<> I thought my boyfriend couldn't go to his boyfriend's house on the day he came to my house.
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I thought something was going to happen, something to prescribe.
No, don't worry. Happy New Year.
Well, Happy New Year, and I wish you more and more happiness in the new year<><
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Go early! But don't go on the first day of the new year, because the mother-in-law's house will also be very busy, the third and fourth days of the first month are the best, at that time the New Year's greetings are just right, the mother-in-law's family will not be very busy, and you won't think that you kid why don't you come to the New Year's greetings or something. After getting married, you can go to the New Year on the second day of the first month
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During the Spring Festival, it is a traditional custom to go to the elders' homes to pay New Year's greetings, and as a younger generation, you should go to the elders' homes to pay New Year's greetings. ......In this way, the elders can be happy.
At the same time, going to the elders' homes during the Spring Festival can also enhance the feelings between each other and make the relationship between yourself and the elders closer, which is very beneficial to yourself.
However, during the relationship, whether to go to your boyfriend's house to pay New Year's greetings needs to be analyzed according to the specific situation.
If they have reached the level of talking about marriage, then they should go to their boyfriend's house to worship in the hall.
In this state, although I haven't married my boyfriend yet, I am already a "family member", and of course I should go to my future in-laws to pay New Year's greetings during the New Year, so that the etiquette is comprehensive.
If the relationship has been determined between each other, but it has not yet reached the level of talking about marriage, whether to go to your boyfriend's house for New Year's greetings, you have to ask for his opinion.
Generally speaking, a boyfriend would be more than welcome to visit his home.
At this time, you can go to his house to pay New Year's greetings during the Spring Festival.
But if for some reason the boyfriend feels that it is inappropriate to go to his house to pay New Year's greetings, then Zi Liji should respect his opinion and talk about the New Year's greetings later.
If you have just fallen in love with each other, this is not the time to go to the New Year.
They have just met each other, they have not been in love for a long time, and the relationship has not been formally established at this time, so this state is not suitable for New Year's greetings.
If this is the last case, it is appropriate to wait until we care more about each other before going to the New Year.
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Generally, the daughter-in-law's family chooses to go to the second day of junior high school, and then the daughter-in-law stays at her mother's house for a few days before her grandson goes home, and then returns to her mother-in-law's house after the fifth day of the new year. Of course, if you can't go to the second year of junior high school, you can also choose the second and third junior high schools, at least before the fifth day of junior high school, you can go to your daughter-in-law's house for New Year's greetings, and no one is surprised.
If the daughter-in-law's family does not pay New Year's greetings before the fifth day of the first lunar month, the daughter-in-law's family will send someone to call the daughter-in-law home to stay for a few days before coming back. In the past, because there was not much food to eat, the daughter-in-law was asked to spend a few days at her mother's house to save food at her mother-in-law's house.
But now that the problem of food and clothing has been solved, there is rarely such a phenomenon of calling the daughter-in-law home, because now the transportation is also developed, and the life is also rich, and you can go to your mother's house to live with the orange book.
Image is very important, don't make the elders feel very sloppy, pay attention to speech, tone, it is best not to smoke, try to get closer to the father-in-law.
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Fruit-based. Candy for the shop.