What are your wedding customs? What are the traditional customs of marriage? Will you do it accordin

Before we get married, we have to get engaged, and the engagement is that the relatives of both men and women have a meal together and the man's family has a banquet. On the day of the engagement, the man gave the woman's dowry gift, and the gift money in Heze urban area was generally 10,000, 10,000, etc., of course, there were more and less, this is all personal consultation, if the woman asks, you have to buy a car and a house, but whether the woman wants to ask for it or not, the modern wedding garage has also become a must. In addition to these gifts, the man's relatives, seven aunts and eight aunts, also have to give the woman red envelopes, usually hundreds or thousands at will.

Before the bride leaves, she has to eat at her mother's house, and it is okay to eat a little, but she can't marry on an empty stomach. I also have to hold a lunch box, there are noodles in the lunch box, and the first meal when I arrive at my mother-in-law's house must be brought by my own family, I don't know when this is the rule haha.

When the groom arrives at the bride's house, he has to ink for a while, all for the sake of excitement, the woman's bridesmaids are closed and not allowed to enter, the man stuffs red envelopes, or lets the groom sing, which is amusing!

After the groom entered the door, the bride did not wear shoes, and the rules of Heze were to wear green shoes on the sedan chair, and the shoes were hidden by the woman, so the groom was asked to find and find them for the bride to wear.

On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who participate in the engagement must not fan the fan, otherwise there will be a sense of dismemberment.

Crying and marrying, crying and marrying is an important marriage custom in the wedding customs of Hengyang, Hunan Province. Crying marriage, the married girl crying, the mother and daughter crying together, the bridesmaids crying together, crying, crying parents, uncles and aunts, younger brothers and sisters, grandparents, etc., the scene is shocking and touching, and even the relatives at the scene will cry emotionally, it is said that the mother's family is prosperous after crying.

Because Yongzhou spans a large north and south, there may be a large difference between the counties and districts in the north and south. I am from Dong'an, and our custom is that the brother carries the bride out of the house, calls for sending relatives, playing red umbrellas, and crossing the brazier, indicating that the days after marriage are prosperous, and the bride's mother will cry for marriage. Other aspects are also similar, and there are complete sets of ceremonies such as matchmaking, blind date, changing Geng, Dinggeng, passing the door, worshipping the hall, making trouble, and returning to the door have been retained in Hengyang.

On the first day of marriage, both men and women will invite their friends to their homes to play and have a lively time. Many men will stay up all night, because Heze has to marry his daughter-in-law early, five or six o'clock in the morning, and four or five o'clock earlier.

The traditional customs of marriage are: 1. When making a bed, the bed should be placed in the right position, and the sharp corners of the table, wardrobe or any tools should not be opposite 2. The clothes and dresses worn by the bride on the day of marriage should not have a bag mouth, so as not to take away the wealth of the foreign family 3. On the day of the marriage, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who participate in the marriage are all fans to fan, otherwise there will be a sense of dismemberment. I will do it according to the custom.

It will definitely be done according to the custom, our local customs are that you must wear red clothes when you get married, you must eat turnaround cakes, you must eat shampoo rice, you must have apples when you get married, and there is a custom of blocking the door.

I know it's a very solemn tradition, with a lot of customs. Before getting married, the two parties are not allowed to meet, and they must prepare red things, bride price, red envelopes, and kisses, etc. I will also hold it according to the custom, which is a kind of inheritance.

There is a traditional custom that is to make a wedding room, where friends and relatives gather in your wedding room and make a mess of the room, and it is very noisy, and I will not do it according to this traditional custom.

About marriage is two people to fall in love, when it comes to a certain time, the parents of both sides need to meet, and then talk about the marriage of two people, first to get engaged, and then pick a good day to prepare for the wedding, before you need to prepare three gold and diamond rings.

The traditional custom in our place is that after two people reach the age of marriage, they must take each other to meet each other's parents, and then the man takes some friends directly to the woman's house to make a dowry, and then discuss the engagement and marriage, and the bride price must be given, and the woman must also accompany the marriage.

Of course, I know, first of all, before getting married, the groom should buy the bride's underwear, and also buy a new dress for the bride, which means that the man will raise it in the future, and he must also buy a marriage ring for the woman, and also set the wedding dress in advance, take a good wedding dress, and the woman must have a quilt and some daily necessities for the marriage, and also buy a dress for the man, indicating future harmony and so on.

I will get tea the day before, and I will also eat the turnaround cake. Then give the woman a dowry gift, and then on the second day, there will be a kiss, and then there will be some small games of kissing, and finally we will have dinner together.

Our wedding custom here is that the man and woman are not allowed to meet the day before the wedding, and at the same time, some red envelopes should be prepared for the groomsmen and bridesmaids. There should also be some game interaction.

Wedding customs are different in different parts of China, but I'm from Sichuan, and the wedding customs here are very interesting.

First of all, we have a very famous custom of "robbing marriage", that is to say, the groom's friends will block the road at the door of the bride's house, and ask the bride's family to find a way out for the groom, and the result of the negotiation will be "robbed" by the bride's traces. This custom may seem dangerous, but in fact, both parties will use poison to deter each other in the process, so as to increase the suspense and tension of the negotiation, but in the end it will be resolved peacefully in most cases, and this custom is mainly to create an atmosphere and increase the sense of celebration and memory of the wedding.

Secondly, we also have a very lively ritual called "crossing the gate", which is probably performed after the bride arrives at the groom's house. In this ceremony, the groom will play some roles in front of the bride, such as cooking, scrubbing, dwarf incense burner, etc., most of the time it is fun and makes everyone happy. In addition, there are some "pranks" about the groom when crossing the gate, such as putting a basin of ice water under the groom's knee or sprinkling some chili water, etc., but the main purpose is also to make the bride and the groom's family and friends communicate happily.

Finally, there is also a very popular custom in Sichuan is the "send-off", which is also particularly warm and touching, and is a ceremony for the bride to leave her home to go to the groom's house. In this ceremony, the bride will sit in a sedan chair, accompanied by relatives and friends, and everyone who passes by will bless the bride and give each other red envelopes, wishing the newlyweds a happy marriage, and doing their best to take care of the family and family members of the new home, which is also a custom of blood inheritance.

The above are some of the wedding customs in my hometown of Sichuan, each place has its own unique customs, of course, it will change with the change of time and fashion, but the spiritual and cultural connotation will not pass with time.

Weddings are an extremely important part of folk culture. Because most people only get married once in their lifetime, they want their wedding to be unique and creative. Although the format and process of weddings are now gradually westernized, that is, the man wears a suit and a bow tie, and the woman wears a white gauze skirt and holds a gift flower, and finally the two take the oath to kiss and exchange rings in the presence of the priest.

However, there are still some traditional marriage customs and etiquette in today's Chinese land, and today, the author will talk to you about the traditional marriage customs reported by ethnic minorities. Marriage, because of the different cultural customs in each place, there will naturally be regional differences in marriage customs, so the marriage customs in the countryside are compared with those in the city, and some interesting rural marriage customs are worth seeing.

1. After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, start to ask for red envelopes, and agree on the price of the noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to grab the happy face.

Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.

Second, after eating the wedding noodles with the opening fee, the groom comes to the bride's door, and the bride does not open the door, and if you want to open the door, you have to take a red envelope. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.

3. Door lock fee When the groom enters the house, the bride's parents have already locked the door, and if you want to marry the bride back, you have to pay the door lock fee, not give a red envelope, and do not open the door. Some clever grooms will arrange in advance for the Seeping Savages to hold the gate with their hands and not let them lock it.

Fourth, three cannons When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, the bride should get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.

Fifth, if you don't go back, you can't go back to the road when you get married, which means that the husband and wife don't go back.

Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room On the night of the cave room, the groom and the bride will grab the only red quilt, and whoever grabs it will have the final say in the future.

1. Blind date.

Unless they are in free love, both men and women must be matched with a matchmaker and agree on a time and place to meet. They can also meet informally at the Boys and Girls Home to get to know them personally and their families. When meeting and parting, a man should temporarily give a woman a "meeting gift" through a matchmaker.

If the lady accepts, it means that she has a good impression of the meeting and can continue the conversation; If a woman doesn't accept it, there are many reasons. Maybe she doesn't make a good impression, maybe she doesn't make a big impression, maybe the woman is embarrassed, maybe the woman can't decide for herself. In conclusion, neither party will express any opinion or make any commitments.

They go back and think about it first, and then discuss it repeatedly with family, relatives, and friends.

At this time, women usually have a certain amount of initiative. If the woman agrees, ask the matchmaker to send a message and agree on a formal meeting time, which is called "seeing the host". From the first meeting to "seeing the host", the matchmaker plays a very important role.

In particular, the matchmaker must have good eloquence. He should say good, even bad, things for both sides. It can be seen that people who can't speak rarely excel at **.

At this time, a lot of things are not done, mainly to say. Of course, we should do the same. This depends mainly on the "practical actions" of both men and women.

The parties are observing and testing each other. For example, we should look at whether people are smart, warm, generous, good-tempered, and polite to elders, relatives, and friends. Once they pass the observation and testing, the marriage is basically over.

Of course, there are also people who change their minds halfway, such as someone "breaking his mouth" (saying bad things), or "a third party intervening".

2. Become a new guest.

In the first month of the year of marriage or the following year, a man wants to pay New Year's greetings to the woman's relatives. This is the first time it has been called "becoming a new guest". Usually, New Year's greetings only require two bags of fruit, while "becoming a new guest" requires four bags of fruit.

When it comes to "becoming a new guest", the reception specifications of female relatives are also much higher than those of old relatives. Usually there are 12 dishes on a table, but at this time there are 16 dishes, or even more than 20 dishes. In fact, "becoming a new guest" is a ritual for a man to acknowledge his wife.

Through this ceremony, the relatives got to know each other and communicated more closely.

3. Combine the eight characters.

"Bazi" is a marriage custom in the old society. Before getting married, both men and women must ask their husbands to have a cost-effective eight words and choose a good day for the wedding according to these eight words. Now, it has evolved into a ceremony for men and women to go to the local civil affairs department to get a marriage certificate and sit down to talk about marital status.

In Purple Lake, this ritual is known as the "Little Wedding", which indicates that the seriousness of the ceremony is second only to the wedding. During this ceremony, both parties should set a wedding date. Some of the requirements for women include the bride price amount for the bride, the amount of wedding cigarettes, wedding cakes, fish and seafood, and the amount of wedding furniture that men need to buy; Men may sometimes have certain requirements for a woman's dowry.

In some places, a basin of water will be poured when the daughter gets married, which means that the married daughter splashes out of the water, and the newlyweds cannot meet the day before the wedding.

These wedding customs are to pour water on the day of marrying their daughters, to separate from their daughters, to have separate meals with their daughters, to reduce contact with their children, and to carry a lot of dowry gifts to their daughters.

Fixing, choosing auspiciousness, preparing for marriage, marrying, marrying, and returning to the door are all relatively common wedding customs.

Measuring the eight characters, on the wedding day, the in-laws will be disturbed, and the mother-in-law needs to carry the mother-in-law into the door when getting out of the car, and after entering the door, she must cross the brazier and cross the saddle.