How would it feel if a loved one had cancer?

Endless fears, even bolts from the blue。This kind of topic is really sad and painful, and I hope everyone doesn't have to go through this kind of thing, it's so painful that people don't want to talk about it.

01. The first reaction is endless fear. First of all, my grandmother was diagnosed at the end of February 19, I was simply broken down and scared to death, the family was in a mess, after everyone could accept it, the family began to take out all the money to calculate how long it could be supported, and the uncles also made the worst plan to choose a cemetery for my grandmother. I also inquired about going to the hospital in the north, about selling a house and a car, looking for a nurse, going to the hospital to find a doctor, and I couldn't take care of the child, and even thought of going abroad for euthanasia.

Besides, half a year later, my grandmother stabilized down, and my life slowly returned to the past, and then **again**, I don't know if I got used to it or became numb. Everyone's heart is only a little ripple, no way, deceive yourself to enlightenment, life is slowly moving towards death, every day to do psychological construction for yourself, grandma every day to make us happy,Let's look at the opening point.

02. The way to seek medical advice. Every time I see my grandmother in the hospital taking injections and taking medicine, I really hope that science and technology can overcome the disease of cancer, so that the family can get better and no longer suffer, so that people can turn the crisis into a happy life. But day by day, I watched my relatives get worse and worse, couldn't eat, couldn't lie down, and suffered from illness, I reallyI hate myself very much, hating herself for being helpless, hating herself for not having the ability, hating herself for not being able to replace her, such a feeling will never be forgotten for the rest of your life.

At the same time, he will die again. If you are unfortunate enough to be "hooked" with this disease, you will have endless fears. Especially if you are afraid that someone around you will get sick, because your first reaction is "something is wrong" (fear that it will be a bad outcome).

If everything could be repeated, I'd rather notSuch an experience.

03. To sum up. This kind of experience is enough once, and I don't even want it once, I hope that everyone can be healthy and safe, and I hope for medicineSolve the problem as soon as possible

It will be very uncomfortable, because cancer is particularly terrible, and cancer is very difficult to be **, it will bring a lot of pain to people, so that feeling will be very painful.

This feeling is more painful, because there is still some slim hope, but it will cost a lot of money when it is **, so it is particularly painful and full of hope.

This feeling will be very sad, and I will spend all my energy and money to treat my loved ones, and then I am very hopeful that this condition will get better.

It will be very painful, and it will also cost a lot of money, and ordinary people simply cannot afford it, and this situation is also a kind of suffering.

It will definitely be very sad and very scared, and I hope that they will be healthy, so it is necessary to have regular medical check-ups.

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As Ma Yun said, it was rare for relatives, classmates and friends to get cancer in the past, but now it has become a normal thing. You see that celebrities and celebrities get a lot, and ordinary people get the same, but you don't know. The incidence of cancer in China is in a period of rapid rise, China has 2.6 million new cancer patients a year, an average of 5 people per 10,000 people get cancer, the more developed big cities, such as Shanghai, Guangzhou, Beijing, Dalian more, 8 people per 10,000 people get cancer, and 1 person in every 100 women in Shanghai has cancer, because the more developed the environment, the more serious the pollution, the more irregular people's lives, and the greater the pressure.

When cancer doesn't come to you or your family, you don't feel like it's about you, but what do you do when it does come to you or your loved ones?

1. How to face fate correctly.

Your first instinct should be to deny that you have cancer, or to hope that you have something else and try to prove that it is not cancer. When diagnosed with cancer, your reaction is pessimism and despair.

First of all, you have to realize that since you have it, this is your destiny. The fate referred to here is the fate of two major aspects, one is the fate of the environment, you live in China, live in this city and village, the air you breathe, the water you drink, the food you eat determines the probability of you getting it is particularly large, just as a person in Beijing said, 28 people who graduated from university stayed in Beijing, 8 people have got cancer, and none of the 16 people who went abroad in the United States have it, which shows that environmental problems are particularly important. According to a survey published by the United Nations, air pollution is the leading cause of lung cancer, which is the most common cause of lung cancer and has a high mortality rate.

The second is that your genes and your lifestyle habits have made you have it, which is also your destiny. In addition, if you have low back pain, leg pain, headache, old cough, pain in other places, not good medicine, and poor physiotherapy, you should take more pictures. That way you might find out sooner.

5. How can I get it right? This is the core value of this article. Have been in contact with some patients or family members

First, please go to the provincial specialized cancer hospital**.

Second, do a good job of reassuring the patient's heart.

Third, don't believe in home remedies for serious illnesses.

Fourth, believe that everything is the best arrangement.

This is the situation at home, I have cancer, and it looks really pitiful.

There's no good way! If you hurry up early**!

Let him or her be in a good mood. Spend more time with you. Anything is good if you are in a good mood.

Stabilize your position first. Don't freak out. Many patients are scared to death by doctors.

The uncle was said by the doctor to have a malignant tumor and only six months to live. He was so frightened that he lost more than a dozen pounds all of a sudden! The wound after the operation was very scary, and my uncle was afraid of the pain and did not dare to open the surgery.

Ask around for the ** that doesn't need to be operated. Go to see a Chinese medicine practitioner, take Chinese medicine, go to acupuncture every month, take care of your mouth, try to avoid eating meat, and change to a vegetarian diet. Now he has lived peacefully for three years, taking his granddaughter to school, and no one else can tell that he is sick.

When a family member has cancer, we are often afraid that we will have cancer in a few years or dozens of years. Actually, it's not necessary at all!

Cancer has genetic factors, and the first-degree family members have a history of cancer within 3 generations, which is a high-risk group for cancer, and it is not a necessary group.

It is possible that the family member has some defects in a particular gene, resulting in low anti-cancer immunity in the body. But that's not the deciding factor. The occurrence and development of cancer is also related to many unhealthy lifestyle and dietary habits, as well as psychological and emotional factors.

So, don't worry too much

Although genetic problems are not self-determined, there are other ways in which we can reduce the incidence of cancer.

1. Life. Remember to stay up late; Quit smoking and limit alcohol (daily alcohol intake should not exceed 25g for men and 15g for women); Eat a regular diet, be comprehensive and balanced, avoid junk foods such as barbecue, and appropriately increase foods that help prevent cancer (cauliflower, onions, carrots, potatoes, etc.).

The heritability of cancer, in addition to genes, has a lot to do with the family's eating habits. Therefore, it is important to change the bad eating and rest habits!

2. Emotional factors. Make sure you have a good mood and mentality. People are often afraid of what comes.

No matter what happens in the future, live every day now. Spend every day as if it were the last day of your life, and today is the end of today. In the long run, your life and work will change a lot!

3. Exercise. Commit to 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise per week and more than 30 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise per day.

4. Have regular physical examinations. If you have abnormal pain or swelling in the body, it is recommended to go to the hospital for inspection. If you have time, you can choose to do some genetic tests to look for genetic defects and carry out key protection!

5. Genetic testing. Understand your own genetic defects and prevent them in advance!

Cancer is generally not inherited. However, illness has a certain relationship with the environment, living habits, and mentality, so some families have the saying that husband and wife have cancer. In particular, such a family should ensure a good attitude, reasonable living habits and dietary structure.

Then it will definitely grow up healthily!

If you have cancer in your family, you may not have it yourself, because cancer is not contagious, and cancer is not a genetic disease, so you don't need to worry. You should open your mind and live well, don't worry.

It depends on what kind of cancer your family member gets, if it is because of lifestyle habits, and you have the same lifestyle habits, you may get it, and there are genetic factors. But it's not the same, everyone has their own karma, try to live a normal routine, most of the cancers are caused by lifestyle problems.

75% of the disease is because of anger, your family has cancer, you don't have to worry too much, keep a good attitude, eat healthy, exercise more, do more good deeds, try to eat more vegetarian dishes, your body will definitely be very good, I wish you good health and all the best.

If you have cancer in your family, in addition to checking your previous lifestyle habits, most cancers are not contagious, so don't worry, it's okay to maintain good lifestyle habits and mentality!

If you have cancer in your family, you may not have it, and cancer is not genetic, but related to your temperament, personality and eating habits.

If you say your family has cancer, will you have it too? If you still have this disease, do you have to panic? You have to treat it right, do you think you will have it?

I think as long as you are in good health, you are a healthy person, your mood is good, your spirit is good, you go to the physical examination every year, you are responsible for your body, even your family has cancer, but you don't have pressure and burden, you must treat it correctly, to understand and take care of your family, don't put pressure on yourself, you have to live happily, your family has cancer, but you must adjust your mood and emotions, your physical health and your physical and mental health are good, if there are patients in a family, You must take care of it, understand it, pay attention to your body, and do your life and work well, eat something that is good for your health, and exercise regularly, so that you will have a healthy body and a happy life.

Not necessarily. There are many causes of cancer, but you won't have it for no reason, so don't worry.

My family member has cancer, and I am very impatient and anxious, and my mood is better.

No, it won't. Cancer is not genetic.

So you don't have to worry too much about it.

No. If both parents have cancer, their children will have a significantly increased risk of developing cancer, but not necessarily cancer. Cancer is related to genetic background, and people with a family history of cancer, that is, people with first-degree relatives with cancer will have a significantly increased chance of getting cancer, but cancer is not a hereditary disease and will not be passed on directly to the next generation.

I always feel sick and have cancer, this is really not an isolated phenomenon, and some people do always feel this way. Why do I always feel sick and have cancer? What kind of psychology is this?

I always feel sick and have cancer, this is really not an isolated phenomenon, and some people do always feel this way. Why do I always feel sick and have cancer? What kind of psychology is this?

Some people love to think crankily, and always feel that they are sick and have cancer, and when analyzed, there may be the following reasons:

1. The person concerned is not in good health, or in the so-called sub-health state, and after a long time, there may be an inexplicable exaggerated association with the clever matching.

2. Many people around you, including relatives, colleagues or friends and acquaintances, have been diagnosed with cancer, so they will unconsciously think about whether they will also have cancer, especially if their physical condition is not very good.

3. Completely ignorant of relevant health knowledge, or half-understood, or listening to rumors, fear and worry often stem from "ignorance". For example, if you think that cancer is contagious, and someone around you has cancer, you are worried that you will be infected with cancer. Some people know a little bit of skin filial piety, and they heard that so-and-so went for a check-up because of cough and found out that he had lung cancer, so as long as he had a cough and discomfort, he would worry about whether he would also have lung cancer.

For example, the belief that if you have cancer, you will definitely not be able to survive and that you will not be cured, stems from the fear of death and the misunderstanding of cancer.

4. Some psychological abnormalities, anxiety disorders, hypochondriasis, these people may have some worries that do not sell their reputation, and they are always in a state of anxiety, which affects appetite, sleep, life and work.

There is always this kind of psychology and cranky thoughts, what should I do?

1. Learn more reliable medical science knowledge and stay away from unreliable rumors. Only when you know will you know and will not worry indiscriminately.

2. I want to put it into action and improve my physical fitness, but I am always sick and feint, and people who are not in good physical condition will feel bad about themselves and are more likely to think crankily. Exercise moderately, work and rest regularly.

3. Make life and work fulfilling, don't be idle and have nothing to do, and cultivate hobbies.

4. If you are unwell, go to the hospital in time, and there is no problem with your body after examination, so that you can relieve your worries. Some people are unwilling or unwilling to go to the hospital for examination, preferring to think and guess at home, the more afraid they become, the more afraid they are, the more afraid they are to go for examination, forming a vicious circle.

5. Ask for help from a psychologist when necessary, such as anxiety and hypochondriasis, which should be psychologically interimated.