If a loved one is seriously ill, will you choose to tell the truth about the illness or hide it?

In general, the other party will be told. Because the person who accompanies you does not necessarily have to bear less than the person who is sick. Often, people who are sick have experienced everything and seen it all.

While watching the people who accompany them, they may face the pain of loss at any time, and the pain of watching but not being able to do anything, for them, every time they make an action, they may think twice, it is not easy.

Of course, I chose to tell the other party that cancer is not a cold or fever, so it doesn't matter. Cancer is not only a matter for the patient, but also for both husband and wife, and also for a family, and one or two people simply cannot bear it. Only by telling each other and their families as soon as possible, and finding a way to solve it with them is the best way to cope, after all, life always keeps moving forward, no matter what it is, it is better to escape from the sadness that has been and find a way to solve it as soon as possible.

If there is an opportunity**, or can afford the medical expenses, and can be early**, of course, I will tell it, because no one wants to close their eyes and never see their relatives again, so if there is a disease, early treatment, early treatment, it is necessary to buy disease insurance, not afraid of spending money, so it will be very timely to see a doctor.

This depends on the patient's own literacy and level. If it is very ordinary, and the culture and personal qualities are average, it is better to hide it, because it is necessary to consider his mental capacity. It's better to be a good lie. For example, those with higher cultural literacy and better mental tolerance can tell the truth.

Choose to tell the other party that life and death are fateful, wealth is in the sky, so that the other party has a mental preparation, death is nothing, everyone must learn to face something calmly, and then let the other party arrange the relevant matters behind him, and the rest of the time to encourage the other party to live happily, so that there is no regret in death.

I will consider telling him her, but I will choose a better way, and then I will give him more love and enlightenment, accompany him and encourage him to face it bravely, and actively cooperate**! After all, some things, some results, should come or will come, and it is not that we don't say or mention it as if they don't exist and won't happen.

If my family is abundant, I will choose to tell my family and choose to be positive**. If you are living in a tight situation and have children to raise, the pillars need to be kept secret, after all, the conditions are here. You can't just run out of money by yourself, because there are the lives of the elderly and the education of children.

As the pillar of the family, the man silently chooses to carry it and quietly does his best to arrange the life of his family.

Whoever listens to it is afraid, early detection can be **, there is still the possibility of maintaining no development, if it is late, it will not be cured, and there is a possibility of death at any time. Tell him about her as soon as possible, tell her that his condition is not serious, and let him cancel the pressure in her heart, otherwise he and she will know sooner or later, but the burden of thinking will be heavier.

Should. Every patient has the right to be informed about their condition. The doctor must tell the patient the truth, and the patient can choose whether or not to inform the family of the condition.

But doctors also have an obligation to protect their patients. For the protection of patients, cancer patients generally choose to tell their families, and the family members decide whether to tell the patients. It is reasonable and ethical to do so.

Whether or not to tell the patient is a case-by-case decision.

1. The patient's education level.

If the patient has a certain level of education, then the patient will be able to see and analyze it himself, and through his own communication with the ward or ward, he will understand his own condition. For such patients, concealment is ineffective.

This situation is often encountered in clinical practice, the family members do not show the patient the examination results and reports, thinking that the patient does not know the condition, but in fact, the patient has already known, and the patient is afraid of putting pressure on the family and choosing not to say it, and the patient is pretending to be confused.

2. The patient's psychological tolerance.

If the patient has good psychological tolerance and an optimistic attitude, he can choose to tell. After the patient knows the condition, he can actively cooperate with the doctor, which helps to improve the effect. At the same time, it can also leave enough time for patients to do what they want to do and deal with things behind them, so that patients can leave without regrets.

On the contrary, if the patient has poor tolerance, he can choose to hide it if he is pessimistic. This condition is often stressful after knowing the condition, refusing**, and may even make extreme moves, which hastened the patient's death.

However, any patient has the right to know his or her condition, and the vast majority of cancer patients want to know their condition clearly. Any attempt to conceal it is a disservice to the patient. Patients should be informed at the right time and in the right way.

Should. There are at least several advantages for patients after the patient knows his condition in time: first, he can cooperate with the doctor more actively, as long as there is a glimmer of hope for survival, he should not give up, and the doctor is afraid that the patient will not be able to withstand the blow and conceal the illness from the patient is actually magnifying the individual situation; Second, patients can better deal with their own urgent matters, such as timely handling of their own investment and property distribution, and arranging family life matters.

If the third is to facilitate the patient to face the challenge of death with a calmer and more positive attitude, or to die quietly or happily survive. If the doctor conceals the patient's condition, it will bring many disadvantages to the patient, and at the same time, it will also infringe on the patient's right to know.

Should. Article 11 of the Regulations on the Handling of Medical Accidents clearly stipulates that in medical activities, medical institutions and their medical personnel shall truthfully inform patients of their conditions, medical measures, medical risks, etc., and answer their inquiries in a timely manner; However, adverse consequences for the patient should be avoided.

Article 56 stipulates that if a patient is not truthfully informed of his or her illness, medical measures and medical risks, the administrative department of health shall order him to make corrections, and if the circumstances are serious, the person in charge who is responsible and other persons directly responsible shall be given administrative sanctions or disciplinary sanctions in accordance with law. The obligation to "tell the truth" has been clearly written into the regulations, and the "white lies" commonly used by doctors have been banned by law, and the "right to know" of patients has been fully respected.

No. Anyone who has seen a doctor knows that doctors will record the results of the diagnosis in detail in the medical record after seeing the patient, and the patient can know what disease he is suffering from, what he needs, and whether the condition is mild or severe. The doctor will also tell you the truth about your condition and tell you what to look out for.

However, some special conditions doctors will not necessarily tell patients truthfully, such as cancer patients and all kinds of terminally ill patients are unlikely to know their true conditions directly from the doctor's mouth, such patients usually rely on their own observation and in the future ** process to slowly know their true condition, a small number of patients' relatives will tell the patient.

It should be that patients have the right to know which disease they are suffering from and to what extent, so that they can consult their trusted doctors (Western medicine and Chinese medicine) in many ways, so as to choose the best method that they can accept.

All patients who are allowed to undergo surgery are mild diseases, and those who dare not operate on patients are not sure of diseases in Western medicine. Therefore, those who have undergone surgery will explain clearly, and those who dare not operate will not be able to explain clearly. They are not called curing diseases, they are called insurance shade cures, they are actually chronic murderous medicine, do they dare to say it?

Parents are the most concerned and supportive of their children, and revealing their condition can give them more care and help. Especially in the process, the companionship and support of parents can play a good role. This is a positive reason to inform parents.

2.However, depression is still a taboo topic in the minds of many people, and they fear that they will be discriminated against and misunderstood. Informing parents may also increase their worries and burdens, which can be a reason to hide the illness from parents.

3.Depression is a long-term process, and it takes time for continuous medication and psychological counseling. If it is revealed to parents, they will be better cooperative** and will also reduce misunderstandings due to unexplained disorderly behavior, which is also a consideration in the recommendation to inform.

4.However, patients with depression often have feelings of icompetentism and low self-esteem, worrying that their parents will question and be disappointed in them after knowing the truth, which will make people choose not to tell and hide it.

5.The individual's age and ability to live independently are also factors to consider. For young or unindependent patients, parental support is more significant, and the positive impact of notification is more significant.

For patients who are married or living independently, it is more understandable to choose not to tell and hide in order to alleviate the concerns of their parents.

Therefore, in general, whether to inform parents about the condition of depression needs to take into account factors such as the patient's own mental situation, family environment and cultural background. If parents can understand and support them, the positive effect of notification is even greater; But there is also a need to take into account the impact that can increase the burden on parents. The ultimatel still requires the patient to weigh the pros and cons according to their actual situation and make a choice after consulting with the doctor.

Whether to inform or conceal, the patient's psychological construction and the cultivation of independent living ability are equally important. Only when patients have the courage and ability to face their illness independently can they make more free and wise choices. This is also the embodiment of the patient's self-growth in the process of depression**.

If you say it, the people around you will definitely be very sympathetic, and the parents of the family will also be very worried. The pressure on his heart and mind will be very great, resulting in a more and more serious condition.

The main reason is that the cost of seeing a doctor in the hospital is too high now, and the people who are sick don't want to be treated, and they don't want their families to worry, so they will hide it.

The main reason is that there is too much money to treat diseases now, so people will try to hide it if they don't want to be treated.

Some people try to hide it when they have a serious illness, because they don't want to be known by others, otherwise they will often be looked at by others in a different light, which makes their lives very stressful and will also produce a series of psychological problems. There are also some people who don't want their family members to be sad, and will let their family members wash their faces with tears all day long, and in order not to worry more people, patients will suffer in silence. <>

First, because I don't want my family to worry.

Some young people never want their parents to know after they get seriously ill in Yedou, and some parents don't want their children to know after they get sick, because they know that their condition is very serious, even if they spend a lot of money, they can't do it, so they enjoy the rest of their lives, stay with their families every day, in order not to let them worry, they will always keep their mouths shut, and give their families unlimited care in a limited time. Then the family will definitely take the patient to the hospital, the life in the hospital is very boring, and every day in this environment will make everyone's psychological problems very serious, and the condition is becoming more and more uncontrollable. Most people want to leave this world in silence in their familiar surroundings, and they don't want to live in the hospital every day in pain. <>

Second, I don't want to let the people around me feel pity.

If there is a person who has a disease and everyone around him knows about it, then when the patient goes out to buy something or go for a walk, he is prone to being looked at by others, although these people will not take the initiative to talk to these people on the surface, but they are always talking behind the scenes. Even use some sympathetic tones to discuss a person's condition, everyone has self-esteem, and does not want to be the protagonist of other people's after-dinner chats. <>

3. Add pressure to yourself.

If everyone around you knows about your condition, it will also affect your work and your future life. Then it will also make the life pressure of Song Sema's family more and more heavy, and it will also make his life miserable. The people around are kept in the dark, and the patient will not be under great mental pressure, so life will slowly improve.

After we have a serious illness in our life and blindness, there is no need to conceal it in an empty way, if the body is sick, we should be positive, Lingyin maintains a healthy attitude, so that it is conducive to **.

I am afraid that my family will be worried, and I am also afraid that I will increase the burden on my family, affect my work, and make my life a mess.

This is because once the patient is told, it may cause a panic in the patient, which may lead to an exacerbation of the condition.

Maybe I'm afraid that others will know sympathy, and I don't want to see strange eyes.

Some people say that if you have a serious illness, you can hide it as much as possible, in fact, the reason why you don't want more people to know is because human nature is very complicated now, some people will slowly stay away from you once they know about it, and the people around you will stay away from you, which will only aggravate your condition, if your relatives know, they will also worry with you, in short, everyone around you, including you, the whole rhythm of life will also be disrupted, and many people will choose not to contact you anymore, so you can hide it as much as possible. This is also the reason why people think more now, because this society is really too realistic now, maybe when you are good, many people ask here when you are not good, when you need help, few people may lend a helping hand to you.

In fact, I still understand this matter, on the one hand, I don't want the people around me to worry, especially my family, for fear that I will affect the various emotions of my family and let my family be scared with me.

On the other hand, I am actually afraid that the people around me will slowly move away from themselves, maybe this matter has broken out, we may not get so much comfort, if the implementation of the network is not good in the direction of development, the friends around you are far away from you, then you will become more and more lonely, this loneliness and the eyes of others to treat themselves is something we can't bear, so I also think this is a reason to hide. On the other hand, in our profession, once our colleagues or bosses know that we are in good health, will they force us to resign, etc., and how our colleagues should treat us, these are all issues that we are worried about.

To sum up, so I think this is the reason why everyone can hide it, try to hide it as much as possible, in fact, barbarism is more painful, but it is also a last resort, of course we want to get more assistance, but we are afraid of losing these people around us, we are afraid of the eyes of others.