Why do you always like to make up things in your heart about others abusing you?

You probably have mild delusional victimization. A person who suffers from victim paranoia is always suspicious of other people's attempts to kill him, and he is suspicious all day long, and his mind is full of scenes that he has made up for others to murder him, and there is no factual basis at all. You always like to make up things in your heart about others abusing you, and you are also making up nonsense without any basis.

Of course, it is also a typical manifestation of victim paranoia. I hope you go to a psychiatrist for a consultation and try to ** or reduce this symptom. At the same time, it is recommended that you read more books on psychology, cranial nerves and psychological counseling, and alleviate the symptoms of victimization delusions through the combination of learning and application according to your own situation.

Always like to make up things in my heart that others abuse me, that may have a tendency to abuse psychologically, Yang is still not confident enough Sunshine always feels like others are bullying you.

It's actually not good to like to make up your own stories about others in your heart. Because you will feel that many times life is not so good, so it is like this.

Maybe you have some masochistic complexes, after all, everyone's preferences are different.

After reading your description, I think your heart is a little not too sunny and a little not clean, in fact, if you use your mind in work, in study, and in proper things, your heart will be brighter.

Why do you always like to make up the psychology of others abusing yourself, this is a matter of mentality, adjust your mentality, don't make up others, and don't abuse yourself.

It may be that you have such emotions, so if you feel that you have such thoughts, try to change yourself to such thoughts, which will be better.

This can only mean that you are a person with low self-esteem, and fresh words are more narrow-minded.

Why do you always like to write other people's things in your heart, or do you need to adjust your mentality.

Because these people are people who have bad hearts. They will only think about others from their own point of view. I didn't think about others. Just thinking about how he and her cat are doing well.

I also have this problem, and I also had a history of depression in high school. Sometimes I get so angry that I want to smash everything (just thinking about it, of course), as if there is a bad breath in my heart, and I will vomit it quickly. I think it's right to talk about reaching out to the outside world, but the key is to find out why you are rejecting the outside world and not wanting to open your heart, so that you can prescribe the right medicine.

Like me, I have low self-esteem because of my flawed appearance, hehe, it seems that there is only plastic surgery. Other suggestions:

1. Busy in the present day. When you're busy, you won't be cranky. Focus only on today, don't regret yesterday too much, worry about tomorrow.

2. Raise your horizons. Read more books to help you understand the essence of life and the essence of human beings. I've thought about why people live, and I've read books about it.

I haven't gotten an answer yet. But I set a goal for myself, that is, I want to strive to become strong in order to gain freedom (i.e., to be able to do what I want to do, to do what I think is right, without worrying about money and not being afraid of being unspoken rules).

3. Don't keep yourself in a sad environment for a long time, for example, don't always listen to sad songs. If you are upset, you will go to exercise to vent.

It seems that it is a bit messed up, you summarize it according to your own situation, in short, the most important thing is four words (which is also my current code of action) "eye master low" (vision to be high, and then action, action, and action) blessing!

Psychological depression is due to low self-esteem, which leads to not communicating with the outside world for a long time, being trapped in your own world, and closing yourself off to receive information from the outside world. To go around the outside more, it is recommended that you travel, see the mountains and rivers of this world, flowers and plants, artificial, to integrate into these,

Personally, I feel that it is the reason for the failure of your first confession, and I personally think that she is always thinking about your second confession, why do I think so? Because for a woman, you have already confessed and she refused, at least it can show that she already knows what you mean to her, and if she really doesn't want to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with you, she can't hide from you, how can she still treat you like this? Whether it's words or actions, she should be hiding, and there shouldn't be the kind of reflection you say.

This kind of woman has this kind of character, but you are self-inflicted, wash and sleep.

It's okay, if you fail, you can chase it again, and if you don't confess, you're doomed to failure.

There is at least a chance to confess, and there will never be a chance if you don't confess!

Women are proud of those who please themselves, and she must have a good impression of you.

It should be liked, otherwise she won't bully you.

Let's see if she's the same for others, or if she's just unique to you.

It is recommended to see a doctor, it always hurts the body like this

Watch your stomach, get sick easily.

Hello, it is recommended that you see a psychologist. Adopt it.

Listen when you're fine**.

Your situation is indeed a bit abnormal.

Maybe you're feeling too much psychological pressure.

It's already unbearable.

That's why I want to rely on physical pain.

to relieve psychological pain.

But if you continue like this, it will hurt your body too much.

One should try to learn to control oneself.

In life, everyone is stressed.

But not everyone is freed by self-harm like you do.

Find another way to release stress when you're stressed.

For example, listen to ** or exercise or talk to friends and so on.

What can't you talk to a friend about? You have to torture yourself like this! In fact, there are many things that are best only to share with friends!! Including sad things.

Don't treat your friends as decorations.

It should be that there is nowhere to be angry, I have been accumulating, I don't destroy the things around me, I haven't found a good outlet, I care too much, I don't care about myself, I maim myself, and I am crippled? It is advisable to find something to do, such as exercising or spending time with friends.

When you start having masochistic thoughts, you are doomed to be hurt

Oh, and go see a psychiatrist! They are very professional!