Does a man have a daughter in law and no common language with his mother?

It's not, it's just that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very difficult, if you contact your mother every day, you will be called Mom Bao, and she will think that you love your mother more, and she is not the same, and then say go over with your mother, and then there will be more contradictions.

Maybe maybe you care too much about your daughter-in-law and neglect your mother.

It's not that men have a common language with their mothers at all times. It's just that after having a daughter-in-law, the relationship with the mother has gone a little far, because the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law sandwiches the man in the middle is really difficult to deal with, if the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is good, of course the man can say anything, on the contrary, the man is angry at both ends and has nowhere to say it is very difficult.

No, it doesn't matter if you have a common language with your mother or not, your mother's love and your daughter-in-law's love are completely different feelings.

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When a man gets married, he has more responsibilities as a husband, not just as a son! Therefore, there will be more responsibility will be more sharing, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be handled correctly, not only to take care of the mother's feelings but also to take into account the feelings of the daughter-in-law, so the energy will be limited, and you can't take care of the mother's feelings wholeheartedly as a son before!

But it is not excluded that some men completely ignore their mother's feelings after getting married, and this also exists! Therefore, different people do it differently!

As the old saying goes, you forget your mother when you marry a daughter-in-law. In fact, the vast majority of men get married and have a closer relationship with their daughters-in-law than their mothers. After all, it takes a long time to live with my wife.

So it's normal to have such thoughts, and it's actually a particularly difficult and cruel thing for a man to choose between his wife and mother.

That's not necessarily, many men still care more about their mothers, but they still like to talk to their daughters-in-law about many things, so the two can't compare.

That's right, after getting married, I still kiss my mother, and I'm afraid I can't afford the weight of the family.

Some people are yes, some people are not! These two women are both men's favorites, so don't compare them together.

Listening to the wife and listening to the mother is right, the key is to see whether it is conducive to family harmony, if it does not bring benefits to the family happiness, it is very bad to listen to anyone. Then this man can only stand up to the sky and be the master of the house, otherwise this family will inevitably be jumping.

However, there don't seem to be too many men in real life who can really stand up to the sky, but there are more who listen to their wives. Why does a man prefer his wife in this situation, knowing that his wife is not all right, should have a lot to do with the man's desire and mentality. The main reason why men tend to their wives is roughly this:

1. The wife is married, there is no blood relationship, in order to make the wife more intimate with herself, and seek the stability of marriage and family, even if you know that your wife is too much, you can only wronged your mother and will be your wife, anyway, your mother and herself have inseparable family affection, no matter how your mother will never be separated from herself. The wife is different, because there is no blood bonding, which may not necessarily guarantee that there will be no separation.

2. After all, my mother is an old man, and the time for the second half of her life is very limited, as long as she is serious and filial, she should complete the task for a few years. But the wife is going to live with herself for a lifetime, and the time is long, if the relationship between husband and wife is not twisted together, it is a sign of danger. Besides, women like to be in charge of things, and if they favor their wives appropriately, their wives will have a lot of motivation and can be lazy, so why not?

I don't think most men who have a wife and don't listen to their mother because they are of the same generation as his wife, so it may be easier to communicate and they have similar ideas.

Isn't there a saying in the world: marry a daughter-in-law and forget your mother? In order to please their daughter-in-law, the men try to rely on her in everything, for fear that she will be angry and separate, and life will be difficult.

Some men also listen to their mothers, especially the kind of mother-in-law boys, in fact, there is nothing bad about listening to their wives, husbands and wives are going to be for a lifetime, it is normal to listen to their wives, and some mothers-in-law are always willing to pick on the bad, causing conflicts between husband and wife, and sometimes it is right not to listen to their mothers.

Because a man gets married and has his own family, if there is anything two people discuss with each other, the child is married, don't ask about the life of the child's family when you are a mother, don't be involved in the life of the mother, the life between the son and the daughter-in-law, you will live well as a mother, and you will retire in your old age.

Because after a man gets married, he has a small family of his own, of course, everything has to be discussed with his wife, I think it is normal for most men to listen to their wives, after all, their wives are the ones who go through this life hand in hand with them. But generally if his mother's words are right, then this man will also listen. After the average man gets married, the relationship with his own mother is not as close as before.

If you have a wife, you live with your wife, the so-called obedience is just to get along with a better life, and you don't want your wife to be angry if you don't listen to your mother.

There is an old Chinese saying that says; I have a daughter-in-law and forget my mother. <>

It's okay to listen to your wife.

As long as the wife doesn't make vexatious demands, she lives a normal life and respects each other, and I think it's good. Don't think that whoever you listen to will show off your might and be unreasonable, so that life will be difficult.

This problem cannot be explained. Both from the life of the economy. It's all one heart. Having children is more about struggling together for life. It is natural to listen to my wife. Is it hard to explain?

No, if a filial man doesn't think so. No one can take the place of mother. Who can replace the grace of more than 20 years of nurturing?

This kind of love is different and irreplaceable, and mothers must also adjust their mentality.

Yes, that's how "I forgot my mother-in-law" came about!

Dusk! It's grown so big! I've always been bad! Now I always feel sorry for my parents! Me! You have to find a wife who understands the elderly and takes care of the elderly!

Everybody is each other's own.

Why do you need to say it so clearly?

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I don't know about anyone else, but I don't think I'm that bad!

Your conscience is broken!

My husband only cares about his mother, he doesn't feel sorry for me, he can do whatever his mother says, my husband still wants me to listen to him, he cares about me, he says he likes me and cares about me, in fact, it's fake at all.

You're just talking about those who are afraid of their daughters-in-law, real men will handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

A harmonious home is one in which the man loves his daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law cares about her mother-in-law. The man hurts his mother and hurts his heart.

I won't, I can divorce for the sake of my mother, after all, a daughter-in-law can be found, but there is only one mother, those who have a daughter-in-law and forget their mother, I can only say that my conscience was eaten by dogs.

There are very few mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, basically they are good to their mothers, and daughters-in-law can find them again.

Try to be more concerned about her in terms of small things, be considerate of her, help her do what you can, help her share some of the pressure, and then try to communicate

People of different eras, of course, will have some difficulties in language communication. It's also natural that there is no common ground. However, every parent likes their children to be courteous, usually fine, use their brains more, buy something she likes, and talk to her about some topics she likes.

There is always a generation gap between generations, and your parents may have different ideas and perspectives from you, but you can't say who is completely right or completely wrong, so you need a good understanding and communication. Try to be considerate of your parents' feelings, and you can usually care more about her hobbies and care more about her, so that a harmonious relationship between the two parties will also promote communication.

There will definitely be a generation gap, and there will be a common language. Care more about her, be more considerate of her, understand more of her thoughts, find some topics to chat with her from the trivial matters of life, there will always be a common language.

Try to talk as little as possible, and say happy things when you want to talk.

Then try to spend more time with your mother, even if you don't talk to her much, she is happy to have you by your side.

Just find something she likes.

I didn't share my dad's language, values, life problems, etc.

Quite simply, he just wants a wife who is centered on him.

His wife is nothing in his eyes, and if he doesn't divorce, he will settle just because he gets married, so he doesn't have to go to find it again, trouble.

The daughter-in-law he thought he married back should be filial to the old man! That's all he has in his head!

I didn't treat you as the leader of life.

One is the person who gave birth to him, there would be no him without my mother, and the other is the person who accompanies him for the rest of his life, all of which are indispensable parts!

Dear, mothers will always love their children! However, there are also some people who marry a daughter-in-law and forget their mother!

This kind of problem is self-tormenting. Sometimes I think about the comparison between rice and water. It's not who is more important, but how you can make yourself more suitable to live.

The mother is her own day, and the wife is a lifelong companion, both are important and there is no comparison. If you have to look at your own heart.

Of course, the daughter-in-law is the closest. When a man gets married and has his own small family, he has to love his daughter-in-law for a lifetime.

The wife is only half a life, not a lifetime.

Of course, it's the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is the one who will live with you for the rest of your life.