Encounter super lazy, painful, help

Do you have a nerve problem and still know how to take advantage of others? The man who sleeps when he drinks, and the one who goes crazy when he drinks is sensational!

If a man can hug himself in a small way, let him taste it if it is too much!

I'll tell you how I used to deal with Raippy.

When I was in college, I didn't talk much, and people said I was an introvert.

Most of the time, I just listen and don't speak, and I smile. Actually, it's too lazy to say.

There is a sports student in the room next to him, less than 1.8 meters, and he commits two when he drinks, and he scolds all over the building. Kick this dormitory door, kick that dormitory door, and usually put on a posture that is not afraid of heaven and earth, so no one provokes him!

The first time, when he came back from drinking, I was sleeping, and that kick startled me, and if I said a few words to him, people were going to beat me, and I was pulled away from then on!

The second time is the same, that arrogant, who doesn't dare to provoke anyone who sees it, a bunch of buddies who practice sports!

The third time, he kicked the door and scolded me a few times.

An hour later, I guess he was asleep, and I picked up the bench leg and went into the house and smashed the boy like a bloody goat! He fainted, so I dragged Y to the water room and poured a few pots of water, and then smashed it. Water it again, and leave the next sentence: "If you don't accept it, let's continue?" I'm sure I'll dare to kill you".

The school hospital spent more than 300 and was distressed.

In the end, the kid was honest, and at least he didn't kick the door of our dormitory anymore when he drank.

Because he knew that I was the master who would dare to kill him.

Sometimes there is no peace without a little blood!

We have different personalities, but being more ruthless with him will save a lot of trouble, and forbearance will encourage him.

Anyway, the money is not going to come back, don't deal with this kind of person in the future, if you still come to harass, tell your community property or neighborhood committee to manage it, when the air to deal with it, you can't move.

If it is too big, call the police to solve it. As long as no one dies.

If you are patient, consult a psychiatrist and find a way to change him.

If you don't have patience, don't let him dare to mess with you.

Find me to beat him, you can do it yourself.

More scoundrels than him, invincible to the lowliest.

Eh, I scanned it several times to understand the general idea, I read the situation you said, I don't understand where your fear or shadow comes from, your first fear is your high school roommate, did he (she) do any harm to you? For example, the emotional or objective thing or the person's face is vicious, as well as the college roommates, colleagues, and relatives in the back.

Actually, as you said at the beginning, this is your second natal year, so it's not too young. Personally, I think that as a promising young person, you shouldn't have such a big fear of life. Well, there are a lot of emotions in life, sadness, happiness, happiness, emotion and so on are just spices, with which we will live more deliciously.

Just like the older generation said: don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. I once asked my father if there are any ghosts in the world, and my father told me that there are no ghosts, depending on what you think, ghosts are in your heart, and if you do something against your will, you always think about it, and the more you think about it, the more you feel that everyone around you has ghosts in their hearts and has no good intentions.

And what you said, if you are a person who is quite active, then you should be a person who dares to act for the country, society and your family. How can those fears have a chance to be seen? I think, you don't have to be too nervous, taking medicine and seeing a psychiatrist will bring harm to the soul, even if you think that these are all for the sake of **, people's subconscious will still resist, after all, no one wants to be said to be mentally ill or abnormal.

The last words I suggest you listen to more**, soothing your emotions, hey, in fact, these are eternal suggestions. Still, it has its purpose. Time Radio is good, you can listen to it, especially Lan Qi's voice, words and sentences, which will make you understand a lot of life principles.

May you have a bright tomorrow.

I understand that your fear of victimization is actually a normal phenomenon in society. It's just that you're too young to understand.

There is a kind of war called politics. It is the invisible bloodshed of sacrifice. Of course, it can be specific to a person in various forms of struggle in various societies. You'll probably never understand this. If you haven't experienced the struggle at the bottom.

When you are most frightened, it is probably like someone has arranged a sky net for you, traps one by one, so that you are always in the deep terror of being hunted down and hit by fate.

Ah Q never escaped the fate of being enslaved, oppressed and exploited all his life, and was finally forced to go to Xingchang to behead the public. His inferior national nature, such as laziness, greed, selfishness, insensitivity, lack of learning, lack of skill, lust and refusal to change, bullying the weak and fearing the hard, lack of revolutionary spirit, and lack of consciousness, all made it impossible for him to establish a true revolutionary spirit, so that he was cowardly and upright, frank and calm, and stood up to the heavens and the earth.

If you want to get rid of it, you can only do things correctly, establish spiritual pursuit, and a journey of a thousand miles begins at your feet.

First of all, it is about addressing the causes of fear.

Possible causes of this phenomenon:

1。What was the shock you received when you were a child?

2。Is there a disease in the brain that causes it?

3。Is it because of the phenomenon of possession?

4。Was it due to emotional reasons in the past?

5。Or is it something else?

What I wrote below, you must take a look, this has nothing to do with faith, just a method, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

The person you fear is none other than yourself. It is the fear in your heart that is not eliminated and the fear is projected onto others. And what scared you in the first place?

This is what you fear**. The first thing that scares you is something you experienced when you were very young. And your first task is to find the first thing that scared you when you were very young, and start your healing from there.

If you don't understand, please continue to ask.

Just start answering your questions, I want to earn points. But don't pull it now, because your story is 50 percent similar to mine. '09 was a very painful year for me, and that year I left campus for similar reasons like yours.

Because there is also a sense of fear in the school dormitory and the relationship with classmates. I couldn't bear the pressure and had to drop out. It's just that you are much luckier than me with your first Chinese.

I've also been in a psychiatric hospital and sometimes feel good and not stressed in it. But money can't cover it. I feel like we're all cowardly people, and sometimes thinking about it, fear and fear make me lose a lot, a lot of things.

The doctor said that it was terrible to take this medicine for another generation. I think the most terrible thing in life is death, and there is nothing more terrifying than this. I've had a hard time in the past few years.

Because if you are often afraid, afraid of getting sick, you think it is worth taking medicine. Don't be afraid, everything will be fine. People's lives are only those decades, and when you come to this world, you have to think more about yourself and your family.

Don't be bored thinking about someone who scares you.

What is it that has scared you in the past that has made you feel fearful?

I think that at the same time that you have this emotion of fear, you must have something in your mind about the things that this person makes you fear, so you must first figure out what is making you fearful, find the root cause, and then solve the root cause, such as scene reproduction, but you must have a professional around you. This relative who scares you now may have done the same thing that scared you as the two classmates who scared you before, so you must face it.

Friend, maybe I'm in a similar situation to you, I think you should have symptoms of anxiety and social phobia and depression, and I still suffer from these conditions, but it's not that severe, and it's the result of my own efforts for 2 years. You may have more than just these questions, but there are other questions. Based on your own clinical experience, you can try the following points to overcome these conditions:

First of all, we must dare to face it, and we can't escape "Very Important". After that, it is from the construction of the cognition "This is very important", because you have been 6 years, some of your negative thoughts are almost ingrained, and you must change your minds. After that, you can go with the flow and do what you want.

You don't need to worry about your illness for 6 years, because mental illness is different from ordinary illnesses, and mental illness is still mental illness even if you have it for 10 years and 1 year. As for the medicine, I personally feel that the effect of the drug is minimal, and it is important to correct my mind by myself. Roughly speaking, I won't talk about many detailed methods.

Recently, I have been practicing meditation myself, and after meditating, a lot of negative thoughts have gradually disappeared, and I personally feel that meditation is helpful for any mental problems, but I must spend effort to understand it, and persist every day. Forget to adopt.

I think my high school classmates are not the first, if I am right continue to look down, it may be your parents, if so, now it is not small, should deal with the earliest things, step by step, you should not hurt each other, you can sit down and talk, the bell still needs to tie the bell, if the problem is not solved, you will have a similar situation, I hope you will be the soonest.

I also think that I can change my interest, participate in a bicycle club or something, meet a different self, and enhance my physique.

The main thing is to think too much. And your imagination is super rich, and you can constantly elicit your own physiological responses. Agree downstairs, exercise more, and live a fresh life.

I would like to ask this one, why are you afraid? If you can't answer it yourself, it proves that you have some experiences growing up that have made you psychologically afraid of something. Of course, this also has to be analyzed in combination with your upbringing, and even the memories you can't remember!

All I can say is that psychological problems are not a problem that can be solved in a short period of time. **Need to persevere.

I think it's your psychological reasons that are at fault, for the person who makes you afraid, you have to be brave enough to face it, talk to him, and when you meet someone who can make you open up, your symptoms should be alleviated. Many things cannot be solved by escaping. You have to learn to face it and communicate.

So have you been a thief and hurt others?

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This dude is right!

Go back and ask your friends who have good language skills. Schoolmate.

The key is to have the confidence to change yourself! If you admit that you are "impatient, persistent, weak-willed, and extremely lazy in your mind......"No one can save you!

If you want to change it, you can make some suggestions.

You can start with a small thing and stick with it for a while. For example, insist on washing your face and brushing your teeth every morning and evening, make a 10-day or 20-day exercise plan, insist on getting up at 6 o'clock every day for 3 days, or insist on buying a newspaper every day and reading it for a week.

Either way, the beginning should be low intensity and easy to achieve, and the building of faith is the most important and step by step. Then gradually increase the size and challenge yourself.

I believe that we will definitely overcome the problem of laziness.

Perseverance! There is no way but to rely on yourself!

Self-motivated, physically lazy, and miserable!

Change little by little, add up over time, and there will be results.

It's good to use the sine and cosine theorem to transform this kind of problem, don't practice it now, and wait to regret it later!!

Tell his parents directly. Don't disturb your life anymore. Everyone is well.

Find a strong male classmate, be his friend, and use his deterrence to get help.

Handle it carefully, give him lukewarm, hang him,

Actually, if you write more, you'll understand. Suppose you write a system, you will find that many functions are similar, such as adding, deleting, checking and modifying various modules, data detection, and so on. And you'll find that most of them can achieve the features you want with just a little change.

For newbies, they generally copy a large piece of the program, then paste it into a new place, modify it slightly, and run it. Then a good programmer will be "lazy.""to make them into a function or class method that achieves a similar purpose by passing different values. This is also where functions come from.

If you do too much, you will form a function or class set that is easy to call by yourself. Why? There are many times when writing programs are in a hurry, and they don't think too much about it, and all kinds of loopholes and efficiency problems are hidden.

When you look back and try to make up for it——— if you don't do a certain amount of "laziness", you will find that just changing the same procedures everywhere can be a huge undertaking. I think we can use a database term – redundancy. Therefore, the most basic requirement of the program is to avoid redundancy, centralization and reuse.

Then, better programmers, in order to be more lazy, will also re-optimize this set, so that these common sets can also call each other to further reduce the duplication of **. Over time, this will form a "library". Many companies will have their own accumulated public libraries, which can accomplish many complex functions with simple calls.

There are limitations to well-written libraries-—— libraries are usually only for a specific type of function, and too many libraries can cause a lot of conflicts, and there are duplications of various library functions. A mountain is higher than a mountain, the cattle programmer is out, he carefully integrates a variety of functional libraries, solves the conflict between libraries, and uses the library to combine a ——— framework that can cope with the most basic to high-end most of the needs, whenever you do a program, use this framework to help you lay out in advance, deal with a series of problems that will be encountered, and get twice the result with half the effort. Others are "diligently" staying up late and working overtime, but he has already completed the task because of "laziness" and went home to chase his girlfriend.

Master programmers are not satisfied with this specific framework, their thinking has already reached the realm of "Tao", put forward the concept of design patterns that are detached from the characteristics of a specific language, and summarize many ways to deal with different problems, and all programming problems can find similar patterns, which are both vivid and efficient. View the original post