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Because I don't have the guts and I don't have the ability. Always thinking more than you actually can.
A gentleman can't think of his position, a gentleman can't think of his position, and a gentleman who can't think of his position is a gentleman.
Do a good job in the moment, entrench in one side, and become bigger and stronger.
Why should people be wronged for a lifetime? No one forces you, and no one can force you, it depends on whether you are willing or not, or whether you are used to enjoying the feeling of grievance and unwilling to leave. After detachment, there is emptiness, boredom, and confusion.
Well, in the final analysis, it's because of the inability to be independent. If you don't have the ability and need to rely on others, you can't be independent. Always cowardly and incompetent, unable to face problems and solve problems, dependent on family, friends, colleagues, strangers.
It's right to go out and rely on friends, it's normal to go out and spend the night and eat at home, but friends can't help you earn money, buy a house, and help you live your own life. A friend is trust, help, not parenting. Friends at the same level.
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There will be a lot of unfairness in life! Treat it with a normal heart! But I don't think you should be wronged! Do what you want! On your own! Don't rely on anyone!
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Everyone will have their own grievances, big or small, more or less, this is an inevitable thing in a sense, because a person's living environment, growth experience is different, will meet this kind of person, no matter how good a person is, no matter how good, no matter how good, can not be recognized by everyone, there will always be someone who will not like him or her, this is inevitable, there is no why, what we can do is to swallow those grievances, and then digest them by ourselves, these grievances can only be borne by themselves, no one can help you.
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Why should people be wronged for a lifetime, I personally think that people have to bow their heads under the burden of the house, so they will be wronged for a lifetime.
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If a person is often wronged, I think it will cause a lot of damage to his psychology first, and it will hurt his self-esteem again and again. Even if he wants to become strong silently, he will become unconfident.
We don't dare to express our grievances, many times because it seems hypocritical and a sign of weakness. A popular saying is: If you can say a grievance, it is not called a grievance. That's true, but it's not good.
Maybe we have been baptized by storms, endured countless reproaches, and silently borne grievances, but we can't do anything. Unable to fight. Like a leaf drifting, rippling with the wind.
You feel that the world is too unfair to you, but in fact you are wrong, it is your cognitive bias, you feel that you are not respected, it is because you are not strong enough.
Only when you become strong will your eyes turn into a gentle smile. Only when you are strong, your heart will be smooth. Some people are actually succumbing to the powerful. Rather than live in the scorn of the people, it is better to rise up in your forgiving actions.
This world does not leave too much room for caution for the weak. The law of the jungle applies to humans as well. It's a bit brutal, but it's a rule we have to follow.
Only when we are strong will we be full of confidence in our hearts. Only we are strong, and all grievances are not a problem. This is originally a world of thin and strong food, no one will let you because you are weak, but will take away what should belong to you, this world is cruel, so we can only be strong, in order not to be bullied, in order to live a better life,
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For those who want to have their own home, I think that renting a house all their lives is a kind of torture for them, because their goal is to have their own house and car, but they have been renting a house, that is because they can't afford it, they don't have the financial ability to buy a house for themselves, and they don't create better conditions for their future children, which is actually very devastating for them.
Since you already know what kind of problems you have, then you should work hard to change yourself, all say that three points are destined to rely on yourself, you are short, poor and bad-tempered, I believe that as long as you really work hard, these are not problems, there is a saying that there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people, come on, believe in yourself, and have confidence to overcome everything.
No, people can fall in love many times in their lives, even once a day, but love can only be given once, and it can only be given to one person. A person's heart is very big and can hold any feelings between things, but people, lovers, can only fit one, and as long as it is put in, it can no longer be replaced.