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Of course, you will be happy if you live a lifetime alone. Doesn't it mean that if God closes a door for you, it will definitely open another window for you. In the same way in life, even if you live alone, you will have your own joy and happiness.
Of course, occasionally I may feel relatively lonely, especially when I see that others are all in harmony, when the family goes out to travel and eat. You'll feel lonely, but it's okay, even if it's your own time, you can live well and you'll do what the family would do.
Our common sense of life tells us that a person's life is to need a family and someone to accompany him; Or maybe our traditional ideas tell us that we need to start a family; Our physical and psychological needs need a family and a life partner. But these are all things that we can do without, a family is the happiness of having a family, but a person also has the happiness of a person. Chinese like to be lively, like the atmosphere of a large family, whether it is the New Year or the usual time, they like to have a lot of people eat together.
But with the continuous development of the times, we are more advocating quiet, solitude, but not to say the negation of the traditions of the past. It's just that there is a more comfortable and convenient lifestyle.
When you live alone, you will live more comfortably. Living a life does not mean that one will be derailed from society, nor does it mean that one enters a primitive society and lives on his own. It's just that there is no burden on the family, and there is no need to think about the problems of the partner, the problems of the children, anyway, all kinds of trivial things in the family.
I only need to think about what I need today, so that I can be more in line with my own heart, and don't think too much about others, I think it will be happier.
A person will live more freely in his life, life is a path he chooses, on this road, a person will have his own way of setting, and if there is a family, the way of setting needs to be divided into several ways. Then a person will be freer and happier.
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I think if you're a single person, you'll be happy for the rest of your life. If not, then be a different story.
First of all, as a bachelor, you definitely don't like having people living with you. You don't want someone to step into your life, to change the melody of your life, to break the rhythm of your life, to make a mess of your life. I think this kind of people will be happy in their own lives, because they can't stand the intervention of others, they already like to do everything themselves, they have become accustomed to working overtime and staying up late when they are busy, and swiping Weibo, shopping in space, and playing games when they are bored.
They hate being twittered in front of them, and they hate it when people judge their lives or the decisions they make, even pointing fingers at them and telling them to think about it or take on a responsibility that you can't bear. Generally speaking, singles are very assertive, they are used to living alone and entertaining themselves. <>
As for people who are not single, I don't think you will be happy if you live alone, maybe a day or two will be fine, and if you have to live your own life, it may be a bit spinning. Can you tolerate talking to yourself alone? Can you share two roles on your own?
Can you go to the hall and fix some daily necessities such as broken computers and televisions? Can you tolerate the loneliness, boredom, and life of a person? Can you assertively speak your mind in the face of great pressure, and solve the problem yourself without asking others for help when you encounter difficulties?
I think that's the difference between a bachelor and a realist. Therefore, I think the question of whether I am happy to live alone depends on whether you are suitable for living alone.
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With the development of society and the progress of people's concepts, more and more unmarried people and Dinks appeared, these ideas were not understood by people for a long time, but now people are more and more accepting of them. The life of two people as a companion and a happy family is particularly beautiful and happy, but it does not mean that you will not be happy if you live alone for a lifetime.
I believe that most people are eager to have a happy married life, to be able to form a family with their beloved, two cute and beautiful babies, two people to work hard for a common life, and to be able to imagine a better future every day. There are also some people, for various reasons, they want to live a life alone, maybe they are too hurt by feelings, the wound can't heal, and they no longer believe in feelings, maybe they are born asexuals, and they don't want to live the opposite sex and want to live a lifetime of life. There is nothing wrong with this kind of thinking, because this kind of thinking doesn't hurt anyone, they just choose a different way of life from others.
I don't think I can be happy alone. In fact, a person's life is more free, unrestrained, and not restricted by many conditions. We can use our time to do something particularly meaningful, such as reading more, traveling, and seeing the prosperity of the world.
Work hard to enrich and improve yourself, and make yourself excellent. Isn't happiness what we mean to be a feeling of the heart? When you are satisfied with yourself and your own life, aren't you happy?
This kind of happiness that you give yourself may make you feel happier even more.
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Why not? Shouldn't a person's happiness depend on themselves? In this era, the living conditions are so convenient, even if you live alone, you won't encounter very difficult things!
The last time I went home, my grandmother also mentioned something about finding a partner, and my grandmother said to find a boyfriend who was closer to home, so that it would be convenient to go home in the future, but I just said that I was still young and didn't think about it so much, so I will talk about it later. A lot of times when I have relatives talking to each other, they talk about these issues, and usually I choose to avoid it, because I plan not to get married for the rest of my life, and I want to be alone. I am afraid that these thoughts will seem out of place in their eyes!
Don't try to argue with them, because their years of life experience have taught them that your thinking is not advisable, and no matter how much you try to convince them, they will ignore them. Girls always end up getting married, so don't bother arguing with them. <>
To live a lifetime alone, first of all, you must have a certain financial ability, which is the most basic and very important, so if you are conscious of living a life alone, then be ready to learn to manage money from now on! You also have to learn some simple cooking techniques, because you can't always go out to eat, and even if you hire a housekeeper, she can't be on call 24 hours a day. In this way, it is better to learn how to cook some meals by yourself, so as not to suddenly get hungry and not know what to do.
Many people will choose to live alone, but not all of them are suitable for such a life, so whatever decision you make, I hope you are well thought out, don't regret it, and most importantly, you enjoy this lifestyle.
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Yes, I will definitely be happy.
Loneliness is painful, but when you stay alone for a long time, you will feel that loneliness is wonderful. No one will affect your thoughts, no one will disturb your state of mind.
A person will not have family ties, there will be no irritability and painful things, life only belongs to himself, no husband, no children, no in-laws. What a wonderful thing! What a feeling of freedom!
Therefore, I think that a person's happiness is true happiness!
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People have their own aspirations, I now occasionally envy couples, occasionally rejoice in freedom, if I live a lifetime by myself, there will be a lot less troubles, but no one to accompany me, I may feel lonely. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold, and if it were me, I would feel happy because I would enjoy solitude.
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I won't be happy, I'll be very lonely and bored living my whole life.
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You can live a free life, but you're going to have to endure a lot of loneliness. Sometimes when you are sick or need help, you always feel helpless, after all, we can't always trouble our friends.
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Happiness is to accompany the person you like plainly, you feel that he is happy, you are also happy, because this person is the person who makes you happy.
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To be happy every day is to be happy, and if you can be happy every day, it means that there is nothing to worry about in your life.
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Happiness is family harmony and good health, the family is happy together, and the children are considerate and the elders are kind, if so, it is the greatest happiness in life.
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Happiness is the physical health of yourself and your family, and you can also stay with the people you love for a lifetime, which is the most ordinary and simple happiness.
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Happiness is contentment, and happiness is being with your family, without quarrels and worries.
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You can find someone you love, two people can get along with each other, grow old together, and come to the end of life, I think this is happiness.
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There must be a goal in life, and work towards the goal, this is happiness, life is stable.
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Happiness is: talking and laughing during the day and sleeping well at night.
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Being able to have a very good time every day is happiness, and that's enough, there's no need to think too much about it.
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A good career, a happy family, a husband who is very good to him, can go out for a walk after commuting every day, and then accompany him for a lifetime.
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Happiness is actually very simple, as long as there are people around you who understand you, it is a very happy state.
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There are many definitions of happiness, but it is up to you to discover it yourself. When a young person is in love, the other party gives her a hug, which is also happiness. A smile for a good meal.
A beautiful view, a cup of milk tea that I haven't eaten for a long time, a greeting, wait!
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There is sweet love, there is milk bread, this is happiness.
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Probably no regrets is the greatest happiness in life!
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In life, if you can have a place in the hearts of others, this life is not in vain. If the other party can also make you into your heart, it is enough to thank God!
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Peace is a blessing, and health is a blessing.
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In this life, it is very happy to be able to live according to one's own ideas.
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In life, we all have an illusion: happiness is always someone else's, only troubles belong to ourselves!
So, we feel the so-called troubles day by day, and look for happiness around us day by day!
There was an interesting question: Who is the happiest in the world?
Out of the tens of thousands of answers, four of them are impressive:
an artist whistling to admire his freshly finished work; mothers bathing their babies;
Children who are building castles in the sand; After several hours of exhaustion, he finally saved a patient's doctor.
Happiness is like this, as long as you feel it with your heart, ordinary but not simple.
In fact, happy people are all similar, and they often have these characteristics.
Always smiling.
What makes this world bright is not the sunshine, but your smile. ”
Life is like a mirror – you cry at it, it cries at you, and if you want it to smile at you, you have only one way, and that is to smile at it.
It has been said that people who are always smiling are generally not bad luck. ”
Indeed, every time I see those smiling people, my heart suddenly becomes sunny.
I suddenly found that every friend who loves to laugh around me has a prosperous and romantic life.
I don't care what other people think.
The happier people are, the less they care about what others think, and they clearly understand:
Life is your own, not to mention that there are a thousand Hamlets for a thousand readers, so why care too much about other people's opinions? ”
If others praise you and flatter you, you will not be ten years younger; If others ignore you or even laugh at you, you won't be stupid because of it.
They know that there are only three kinds of things in this world: their own business, other people's business, and God's business.
What else does it matter to me?
Don't waste your time hating anyone.
Happy people often understand that the greatest cultivation in life is tolerance.
It is neither cowardice nor forbearance, it will not be jealous of people's talents, despisable people's abilities, sarcastic people's shortcomings, and blame people's mistakes, but to observe people's difficulties, make up for people's shortcomings, promote people's strengths, and forgive people's mistakes.
In the eyes of happy people, time is their own, and instead of hating others with a lot of time, it is better to tolerate others and let go of themselves.
Away from all negative emotions, life will eventually teach us that no one is responsible for our lives except ourselves.
Don't spend your energy talking to people about gossip.
Jiang Fangzhou once said:
In this day and age, culture has become a thing that seems to be very noisy, but in fact very silent. ”
The information that people are concerned about is becoming more and more superficial and more uniform, and no one cares what the truth is, people only want to believe the truth they want it to be.
Happy people often rarely talk about gossip with others, because they understand: if you are fragrant, butterflies will come; If you are depressed, bad luck will come to you.
They are more willing to try to do something more meaningful, after all, it is not only gossip that can enrich their lives.
Spend at least 10 minutes of meditation every day.
The happier people are, the more they like to spend time in meditation. Right.
I believe that there will be, and each other's sincerity will play a decisive role, but at the same time, it will be affected by circumstances, interests, time, and so on. Hope, thank you.
No, people can fall in love many times in their lives, even once a day, but love can only be given once, and it can only be given to one person. A person's heart is very big and can hold any feelings between things, but people, lovers, can only fit one, and as long as it is put in, it can no longer be replaced.
For those who want to have their own home, I think that renting a house all their lives is a kind of torture for them, because their goal is to have their own house and car, but they have been renting a house, that is because they can't afford it, they don't have the financial ability to buy a house for themselves, and they don't create better conditions for their future children, which is actually very devastating for them.
Eh, maybe what I said was a little heartless, I thought I wouldn't get married, no matter what my family said, my left ear was near, the right ear was out, I think it was completely my own business to get married, my parents gave a suggestion at most, all you don't want to get married, you can take not getting married as the premise, it's hard to guarantee that you won't meet what you like in the future, right, this kind of thing is not something that people can budget, if there is really no feeling, it's not a big deal not to get married, I feel comfortable, do whatever you want, Eat whatever you want, how nice it is...
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