Siwen and Cheng Lu became brothers again, why is it difficult to be lovers when they are friends?

If a man and a woman change from husband and wife to friends, the relationship in the middle must have changed, and it is difficult to change from friends to lovers. Even if many people end up remarrying, a large part of the reason may be for the sake of children.

Siwen and Cheng Lu are famous talk show actors, and they are also a model couple, but what people didn't expect was that this model couple finally parted ways. Some people say that it may be that Cheng Lu's career has developed very well in recent years, she dislikes her husband for not being tall, not handsome, and he doesn't make more money than her. Some people also say that her husband has no sense of responsibility for the family at all, and she does all the little things.

Regardless of the reason for their divorce, the final result is that the two people break up. But they broke up peacefully, and they will still be good partners and good friends in their careers in the future. In this way, both of them are still more rational, although they don't love each other so much, they still hope that each other is happy and can live happily.

In real life, if a couple is divorced, there are very few who can become friends, because divorce must involve many reasons. After the divorce, the husband and wife are more complaining about each other, and they will think that it is the other party's fault, not their own fault. Even if some couples become good friends after divorce, then the nature of the relationship has completely changed, from love to friendship, and it is almost impossible to change from friendship to love.

Many people remarry with their predecessors, the main reason is that they also have a bond of connection, that is, children, many people are afraid that children do not have a complete family, which will cause great harm to the growth of children, so give each other another chance. Even after two people remarry, their relationship will not return to the same way it was before, so it is difficult to become lovers after becoming friends.

The relationship has changed its flavor, and it is difficult to continue to be lovers. Siwen and Cheng Lu are no different, but who can say clearly about emotional matters, such as people drinking water. Warm and cold self-aware.

Because in addition to friendship, there are few other feelings between friends, and compared to love, there is less feeling of budding and heartbeat, so naturally you can't be lovers.

Because after becoming friends, the two parties have a special understanding, and there is a hazy sense of love missing.

Because when friends know each other too well, they will lack imagination, and the romance between the two will become less.

Because after becoming friends, it is difficult for two people to cross the free line of lovers, and there is no relationship between two people.

Because after becoming friends. It will feel very embarrassing, it will be difficult to speak, and I am afraid of rejection, and I will not even be able to make friends in the future.

Because when they become friends and lovers, their future development direction is different. As lovers, you will know more about your roots in the future, and as friends, you will be more harmonious.

July 23, 2020, Siwen.

Cheng Lu posted an announcement of the divorce of the two, and in Cheng Lu's post, there is such a sentence: "From husband and wife to brothers", such a change in identity can see the peaceful divorce state of the two.

Siwen and Cheng Lu are in the well-known variety show "Talk Show Conference".

on the popular couple. The news of the divorce of this golden boy and girl in the talk show industry has attracted great attention and discussion from many netizens.

The talk show Siwen and Cheng Lu are ex-husbands and ex-wives.

On July 23, 2020, Cheng Lu officially announced her divorce from Wang Siwen, and then Wang Siwen ** confirmed. In August 2020, Siwen and Cheng Lu publicly responded to the divorce incident, saying that they would support each other even if they divorced.

Siwen's ex-husband Cheng Lu is an excellent talk show screenwriter. Before going to Shanghai Xiaoguo Culture to work as a screenwriter and talk show performer, Cheng Lu and Siwen met in a talk show club in Shenzhen. After the two got married, Siwen was taken to the "point of no return" by Cheng Lu on a talk show.

Siwen character evaluation:

Siwen is good at digging jokes from the perspective of husband and wife life and women, and at the same time speaks for women. Especially in "Talk Show Conference", Siwen became famous for a wonderful talk show of "grinding keys to turn husband and wife into brothers", and was also known as the "first sister" of the talk show.

Just like the somewhat shy Cheng Lu said, "Siwen is very talented in acting", during the interview, Siwen has always maintained a direct and fast way of speaking, the activities are vivid, very hilarious, face to face with her, and I don't worry about embarrassing chatting moments at all.

The above content reference: Encyclopedia-Siwen.

Marriage is really incomprehensible! I originally thought that the relationship between husband and wife who could take out the private affairs of the family as jokes would not be very bad, but I didn't expect the jokes to be true!

Siwen's most classic joke is, is there a pure relationship between men and women? Yes! That is to get married, and it won't be long before the two of them are incredibly pure, like brothers sleeping on the top bunk!

Cheng Lu took Siwen into a bigger talk show.

Cheng Lu is the first person to come into contact with talk shows in China, and began to pay attention to this industry very early and became one of the earliest practitioners. In the early days when he was a screenwriter and actor in Xiaoguo Culture, Cheng Lu met the female talk show performer Wang Siwen, who later became Siwen, in a talk show club in Shenzhen.

Siwen's popularity far exceeds that of Cheng Lu.

Siwen is one of the few female talk show actors, and in the talk show circle where male actors are the majority, this itself is relatively flattering, and it is easy to arouse more favorability from the audience. In addition, Siwen's creative ability is relatively strong, he is good at digging out the small details of life from a female perspective, and he is extremely good at self-deprecation and has a good ability to express himself, so he quickly won attention.

The outside world commented that Cheng Lu was eating soft rice, and the woman was strong and the man was weak, which led to the divorce. Personally, I don't think so. Speaking of talk shows, it is true that Siwen is more popular than Cheng Lu, but with Cheng Lu's level, he will not have to rely on his wife to live.

Moreover, Cheng Lu was the first to sign a contract with Xiaoguo Culture as a screenwriter, and Siwen was "buy one get one free". This shows that Cheng Lu is talented, and his creative ability is affirmed! Talk shows, in fact, rely on the screenwriter's jokes to a large extent, without the screenwriter, no matter how good the actor is, he will not be able to show the effect.

This time, Cheng Lu and Siwen, who thought they could prove the "brotherly relationship" between husband and wife by exposing and complaining about each other, finally ended up with a divorce.

Of course, this has the practical impact of Siwen's status improvement and Cheng Lu's stagnation, and then the possibility of marital conflicts due to entanglements of interests, but it does not rule out the personality differences between the two "strong women and weak men", and it is inevitable to encounter various problems in the life of husband and wife, which will cause irreconcilable emotional breakdown, however, whether the husband and wife are doing well or not, in the end, Siwen and Cheng Lu can most deeply understand.

It's not a good thing for a husband and wife to separate rooms and become brothers.

Some words are said as jokes, we think they are particularly humorous, but in fact, if this is the case, it is not a good sign, for example, Siwen said in the paragraph that two people are brothers and sleep on bunk beds, and in fact, they also sleep in separate rooms because of different schedules, including the paragraph that the husband and wife are brothers at all, and there are no evil thoughts at all, which shows that there is very little sex life, including two people going on a trip, and bringing Siyuan, which invisibly reveals that there are many discordant factors between them.

Siwen has always been an independent woman, but a woman doesn't spend men's money, and her career is better than that of men, which makes it difficult for him to feel needed in his relationship, so this may also be one of the reasons why the two of them can't continue to walk together, which is why many people in the recent hit "Thirty Only" sighed that Gu Jia is such an excellent wife and her husband actually went to find a mistress. Because his husband doesn't feel needed.

Yes, Siwen Chenglu is really divorced, because the two of them have incompatible personalities and belong to the type of weak men and strong women; I believe that in married life, both men and women should understand each other, tolerate and trust each other, and should care more about each other in life, and at the appropriate time, they can create some small surprises for each other and create a romantic atmosphere, which can deepen the relationship between both parties.

The two of them really got divorced. I think the relationship between the two of them is very good, and although the divorce is very regrettable, it must be a decision made by them after careful consideration, so we should respect them.

They are really divorced, and I think their divorce is a pity, because two people have common hobbies, two people should have a common language, and it is not easy for them to find someone similar to each other.

The two of them are really divorced, and I think according to some of what they said, the relationship between the two people has changed, and divorce is a normal thing.

Siwen and Cheng Lu's reason for divorce:

Both of them are very busy at work, they don't have the right time together, Siwen has "kidney stones", in his most vulnerable moment, Cheng Lu was busy with work and did not give companionship, no matter what Siwen said, Cheng Lu felt unreliable, even if it was only in words, she could not give support and affirmation, she and Cheng Lu did not agree, and she did not divorce on impulse, repairs, things placement, and other trivial matters, all of which were handled by Siwen herself.

If you get divorced, you will be uncomfortable because of this, it should be Cheng Lu, not her, Siwen feels that the two of them are together, and they still feel lonely, and they are no different from themselves.

Other details

Thank you Cheng Lu for saying goodbye to this marriage.

Siwen's departure speech not only thanked Liang Haiyuan for writing jokes for her, but also thanked her makeup artist, stylist, and "Xiaoguo Culture", and she especially thanked Cheng Lu for her support and help all the time, and even thanked Cheng Lu for her love for her.

Although Siwen's testimonial was tearful, and Cheng Lu was also moved because Siwen thanked him, this shows more: "In all probability, two people will not remarry."

I think this thank you is Siwen's heartfelt voice, and it is also a happy end to the two people who once loved each other.