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The meaning of ladylike temperament and demeanor is definitely not the same as the traditional Chinese meaning of etiquette and religious terms, it is a new historical condition, a woman's appearance, conversation, manners, thinking and behavior habits in a unique Chinese characteristics of feminine charm, truly showing the pure and sincere personality charm of women. Ladies under the constraints of traditional Chinese etiquette are not worth advocating, because it obliterates the charm and value of women. The lady we advocate today is a lady who does not lose the value of modern society on the basis of traditional virtues, and a new woman in the context of a new civilization, a new culture, and a new era.
It is better to advocate being a lady than to advocate being a "savage girlfriend" or "a woman". This does not mean that retro is regressive, anachronistic, and restricts individuality, but that it makes women more individual, attractive, and tasteful, and restores the original face of women. Ladies should first embody elegance in temperament.
Cao Xueqin's daughters of the Red Mansion are all Lan Xinhui and talented. Among them, the sentimental Lin Daiyu is the most representative. Sister Lin is not only the representative of "being a woman", but also the image of a "lady".
For Daiyu, her virtuous side is elegant. If an elegant woman can be called "Daiyu", it means that she is first and foremost a more feminine woman. Daiyu, artistic, melancholy, likes to read and write, she is outstanding, superior, and has an unusually persistent pursuit of love; Weak and sickly, congenitally deficient, and acting like a weak willow supporting the wind; Daiyu is chaste and adheres to the creed of "quality is clean and clean".
The jade of the color of the jade", "The sorrowful song of the Dai wants to smoke", "The flowers fly and the flowers fly all over the sky, who is sorry for the red incense?" This smoky woman who is full of poetry, advocating classic reading, and holding a ropa to cover her pale lips has attracted many generations of people to pity and cherish jade, sigh and weep. Her melancholy, aesthetic and classic, her cold and faint love and sorrow, show the image of the original lady with Chinese characteristics.
She is weak on the outside, but she is full of wisdom on the inside. She lives in the culturally rich Grand View Garden, pursuing elegance and solitude, and her soul is a combination of sensitive, intelligent and melancholy. Lin Daiyu is an innocent and straightforward woman who likes romance and advocates freedom.
In that era when "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented", she secretly watched "The Legend of the West Chamber" and reached a level of fascination. She often blurts out the classic lines in "The Legend of the West Chamber", and she is indeed a bit talented.
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As long as you don't beat people, you'll be fine. I was so beaten by you that I didn't faint and was satisfied.
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。。。Lady?,I think as long as you are simple and kind-hearted.,Natural and elegant conversation.,Noble and generous.,It should be.。。。
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