I m worried about my future. Love, career.

I think the problem you encounter is an emotional problem after all, so I will mention my own opinion on this.

Going to college is all about preparing for the future. If you are poor in college, you can study a good major: if you are poor in your major (in my opinion), you can take another major.

But in either case, there is no qualification, and there is no time and energy to wander around! Go to the confusion! College can be said to be a critical period in life, and it is also a critical time - the best time to enrich yourself - you must know that after graduating from college, you encounter difficulties in finding a job, and your career is not going well, and then you go back to reflect on how you didn't enrich and hone yourself, and regret it is too late!

In this fiercely competitive society, survival and success depend on strength! Strength is cultivated by exercise, not by idleness, compassion and compassion for the heavens! Therefore, taking a long-term view and having your own strength is the best care for your family and girlfriend!

It is better to pursue lofty goals than to do things in the present. A person's goal in life is related to his circumstances. Different environments may produce different goals, so it is important to recognize yourself and fully consider your own strength and situation.

It's right to aim high, but it's better to do it in segments. If you accomplish a small goal, you will have self-confidence, and at the same time, you will gain judgment - to make timely adjustments to your current situation and future plans, it is in this process of constantly analyzing yourself and improving yourself, which will also make you sublimated, and you will take a step towards success.

Love, especially pure love, is something that everyone wants to have. If you want to get true love, first of all, your heart should be genuine. Pure love is noble and at the same time rare: with a pure and noble heart, his or her life must be fulfilling.

If you love her, you should treat her with respect: if she loves you, she will respect you as well. If both parties have a sincere love for each other, I don't think any time and space is a problem, stand up and stride forward rationally!

The above is from the bottom of my heart, I hope it will be helpful to you.

In fact, I used to have such confusion as you. I also regret that you can only recognize your life purpose now. Work towards your goal!

To put it in layman's terms, when you are reading and studying, you should choose what is helpful to your ideals and goals! Take me as an example, I like art, I know art, my goal is to be a jewelry designer, then I choose this major to study when I am studying! That's what will help you.

Your age, you haven't graduated from high school yet. It's okay, it's okay if you don't study well. But to have a skill, play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses is what you should do.

Otherwise, it will be difficult to integrate into this society in the future. As for feelings, you don't have to get too involved in them. Learning is important now.

Alas......The child ...... nowEven I was speechless.

Even the view is:

Although love is selfish, it is also necessary to consider the status quo, not just to see the right eye and live together, there must be a material foundation, this is not money worship, but a fact.

And you're only 17 years old now, do you know how to love? You have experienced less things now, and your mind is not mature (maybe you are precocious, hehe), so ah, you have to think like this, there is no material foundation now, you can't give her happiness, you have to create a career, so that your love can last longer.

Last but not least, opportunities are hard to come by, and although going to school is not the only way to succeed, with your current situation, you have no choice but to study hard. Either you go and learn a technology, or in short, you can't waste your studies.

I wish you a speedy escape from the sea of suffering, and I hope mine can give you a little help.

In fact, the feelings of youth are not very mature, our era is no longer like ancient times, 17, eighteen can be married, because the pressure of work and life is full of too many twists and turns, so, you can use her as a motivation, but can not indulge, to be optimistic about their future, long-term consideration.

There was a time when I was as distressed as you was, thinking that there was no hope in everything, only despair. But after all, we still have the ability to judge the right and wrong of some things. So during that time I forced myself to do something that I knew was right intellectually, and then I paid off as I gave it intellectually.

At that moment, I really understood what "another village is". In fact, it is the most painful before happiness and the darkest before dawn. You might as well try my method.

Since it's not good to learn. You can choose a 5-year college. Employment.. As for girlfriends. You can get along slowly. Pay more attention to how she feels about you. If she really doesn't like you, don't force it. The future is not a dream.

If she is true to you, she will wait for you, since you don't want to study, then go out and have a try, and when you have achievements, come back to be with her, or start a business with her, which is also very good! I am also 17 years old this year, good luck and dreams come true!

Alas, this one is a bit difficult... I'm really scared of typing...

You're quite like me...

In short: recognize the road, don't regret the decision you made, as for the feelings, you 17, the road is still very long, although a little perfunctory, however, I'm really afraid of typing...

You are still so young, you have to believe in yourself, you have to believe in truth, goodness and beauty.

Happiness is to be fought for by yourself Short stature It's nothing Not everyone in this world can grow tall As long as you love with your heart Give your heart Treat love sincerely Believe in height Education is not a problem If you feel that your height is a disadvantage Then think about what advantages you have I believe you will have many shining points You just don't find yourself Be good at finding yourself Happiness is to strive for yourself Believe in her love Words will not dislike you because of this Believe in yourself Be confident in yourself Don't let happiness slip out of your hands.

Before the age of 22, it was full of loneliness. It'll be fine in the future, don't think about it so much.

Cherish what you have in front of you, and if it's worth it, love boldly!

This life is loyal and respectful, kind-hearted, far-sighted, hard-working, nobles admire, six relatives of ice carbon, the initial limit of luck, the fly in the ointment, the middle limit is gradually getting better, fame and fortune can be good, rigid and soft, twenty-nine good luck, can pass the sixtieth armor, God-given unicorn to send the old, Shou Yuan eighty-five years old.

Love is happy, life is happy, the future is happy, everything is in your hands, and the road is under your feet.

You might as well believe in yourself when you ask this.

I also think that love in school was so simple. It's so nostalgic.

You start by trying to get him to work for a while. Let him find his interest.

Since you love him, you can't let him go.

My boyfriend used to be like that. But that changed when he actually started working. He's thinking about working hard to make money and marry me right now.

We also just graduated from high school. You see, he certainly never experienced the hardships of life alone, did not make money on his own. In other words, he doesn't understand reality very well yet, and he hasn't fully entered this society.

Give him time, give him a chance, as long as you love him, you have to change him and support him, I believe that as long as he loves you, you have that kind of power.

Finding a stable job will be helpful for your later life, but it still depends on your interests.

As for your boyfriend, you should communicate with him well, explain your thoughts about the future, and at least let him know that if he goes on like this, you will have no future, love cannot be eaten as bread, and your parents will not agree to you living with such a boy for the rest of your life.

If he can correct it, of course, it will be better, but of course he will also ask you if you love money or not.

Many boys think very strangely, there is nothing wrong with girls loving money, money does not bite, there is no way to live well without money, so they can't justifiably say to their parents that I just want to marry this person, because he can support me and not let me live a poor life.

It's a big problem for a boy to be unmotivated, and if he doesn't repent, give up on him.

Girls' youth is limited.

You can't even save yourself, and you still want to save him?

The mud bodhisattva crosses the river, and you can't protect yourself.

I already have this kind of thought, objectively speaking, it's only a matter of time before you break up, but you're still a little reluctant, or unwilling, so you still want to save the relationship.

But do you know what he thinks, let's talk about it, you shouldn't have talked about it for a long time, and in addition, opening ** and going to work are not absolutely conflicting, it's not a matter of having to choose one of the two, depending on what job you're looking for.

It's time for you to choose your life.

You're still young, I'm only eighteen years old this year, and now I'm working in Shenzhen, and I thought the same at first, but then I slowly got used to it, and if you don't want to do things so tired, you should learn to feel at ease

It's good to let him learn the technique first, you're more suitable for opening, so continue to open. It's still two people who discuss it.

You're still young, so do your own thing first. Boys are generally more playful, communicating, communicating, or communicating.

Confused and entangled because you are young, choose because you have food, it stands to reason that you are an adult, your parents can ignore your food, clothing, housing and transportation, if your parents don't care about you, do you think you still have the right to choose? Not going hungry is the most important thing. You are still in a rebellious period at this age, and your parents are not willing to force you to inherit their business, they just want you to understand their difficulties.

It is a good thing to have ideals, many people are mediocre, but not everyone's ideals can be realized, have you thought about it, if your ideals cannot be achieved, it will be a problem to eat in the future, and it is a floating cloud to start a family, so do you think that ideals are important or these things are important? The competition in this era is too fierce, writers are even more difficult, you have not experienced the competition in society, so you feel that the ideal is so promising, in fact, it is not, if you want to stick to your ideals and give up everything now, then you must have enough mental preparation, success is good, what if you fail? What if no one reads what is written, and you can't support yourself?

Then you have to give up your ideals and find a job that can fill your stomach, because you haven't tried, so you are entangled.

In fact, you can do it first, don't make extreme choices, your parents will not inherit their career to you as soon as possible, at this time, you can start your ideals, if it goes well, or even succeeds, then it is not too late for you to give up the career they want you to inherit, if you fail, it is not too late to inherit their career, young and impulsive, I hope you can look at the problem calmly and comprehensively, rather than extreme choices.

Writer? Feed yourself first what kind of home is talking about. Did you write something? Read on.

This is for sure, if people know what their future looks like, they will do nothing now, everyone's future and achievements are different! It depends on how you face it, how to work hard, how to fight for it, how to get it, these are all things that everyone has to consider, a person's good or bad is created by yourself, not to ask others, others can only say opinions and suggestions, give you some condolences! In the end, it depends on your own ......

Step by step.

Take it one step at a time, and look back now!