I m really lost and don t know what to do

Updated on educate 2024-06-10
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It stands to reason that high school doesn't advocate love, but since it's already like this, we have to consider other ways.

    The way you want to do it is to break up directly and cut through the mess quickly, which is also good. But since you asked, it seems that you are still a little reluctant, but you don't want to ruin each other's futures.

    In fact, it is not uncommon for couples to be admitted to a good university together, which is a compromise. I think since he likes you and is definitely willing to work hard for you and fight for a future for you, then why don't you make a gentleman's appointment, study hard together, get admitted to a university or a university in the same place, give him a little hope, a little motivation, and at the same time urge him to study hard, as you said, not to ruin his future because of selfishness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hey, it's all from that time, it's true to study seriously, there's not much benefit to early love, it's just more memories, but how can there be time to recall the past in this era, don't wait for you to recall, new and new things are coming again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If he is a person you deserve to love, be brave enough to love, or you will regret it, now you think for him, what about the future? If he's really that good, don't care too much and be brave enough to love!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Both of you should face this problem head-on, don't avoid it, think about it, although you are very happy now, but because of this kind of decline in academic performance, your family will definitely stop you if you know the reason, I believe that if this is the case, you will be more troubled.

    Now the primary goal is the college entrance examination, as long as you survive this year, you can do whatever you want when you get to university. You are not small, you have to take a long-term view. For the sake of happiness in the future, I will suppress it for a while, and everyone will work together to get into the ideal university, although it does not have to be the same university, but as long as it is in the same city.

    Therefore, you have to make it clear to him, if he just wants to get along now, then persuade you to break up, if he wants to be with you for a long time, then everyone works together and works hard for the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course it's right People are social animals, (especially at your age, you have begun to have your own ideas, which is a relatively precocious type) when you are alone, you always want to find someone to accompany you, and at this time it happens that there is another suitable person, so you are confused, and you can't tell the relationship clearly, thinking that this is love, thinking that that person is your own belonging, this is early love. Actually, I haven't eaten pork and haven't seen a pig walking, I've always watched Korean dramas at your age. Obviously an exaggeration.

    What does it mean to love someone? It means rejoicing in his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier, and getting joy out of it.

    Chernyshevsky.

    I'm going to work

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love each other, you can agree to continue after the college entrance examination, as for now, it is still important to study, think about it It's been more than ten years of hard work, and it's not bad for the last bit of time, don't be blinded by love, you also find time to talk to him well, believe that he still knows the general situation

    Finally, I wish you all the best in the college entrance examination!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Girl, hey! Boys generally do not affect their learning, but rather help them.

    The two sides of the contradiction are opposed to each other, so falling in love affects learning, and learning affects the unity of the two sides of the contradiction in love, so falling in love promotes learning, and learning promotes the mutual transformation of the two sides of the contradiction in love, so falling in love will be transformed into learning, and learning will be transformed into falling in love.

    I wish you the title of the gold list of the college entrance examination!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can ask him to regard the future as a goal The future is the time when you love vigorously There is not much time to study Don't regret your life because of a mistake Take the future as a goal The most important thing Leave your heart to each other Work together!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Recognize your responsibilities, be ruthless, and break up. You have to believe that after being admitted to an excellent university, you will meet a better boy than him. Even if you really like him, you have to tell yourself that at a critical stage in life, you should be strong-willed and face emotions sensibly.

    Wishing you a bright future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you like him, work hard together, maybe you can be admitted to the same school, it's normal to talk about a little love, as long as you don't frown in class, study when you're studying, fall in love when you're in love, you set a goal together or something, encourage each other, maybe it's helpful to study.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Good grades mean that there is hope for your future Are you afraid of a lack of men in the future There are many, many better than him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I think it's still important to focus on the overall situation, there is only one college entrance examination, and love can be talked about later. But such a boy is so rare that you are reluctant to leave. Weigh the pros and cons and talk to him anyway.

    If he always glances at you in class, it means that he is pursuing you. When you make him feel that you will not leave, that is, when you have established a real relationship, you and him will return to their original state without affecting the college entrance examination and love.

    Good luck with the college entrance examination!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is a multiple-choice question, and you can only choose one. Love is important, but bread is the best.

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