Urgent, please help everyone Really confused? Don t know what to do? Parents need to take care of it

Indeed, marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families, and she is the one who wants to marry into your family and be your daughter-in-law.

Parents need to agree to do things. Yes, all the parameters determine the impression of your parents on her.

Obviously, you're not prepared.

If you love her enough. That's the case, find a way to improve the parameters, in fact, to increase the ** value.

For example, she is not good-looking enough, her son likes it, her son has grown so big, he knows those beautiful ones, and there are a few good things! She's not too ugly, and she lives a life, and she really has a relationship with her looks. (In this way, she will raise the ** value).

My son just loves her, other women are not kind enough and not good enough to me, she lives with me, I can live a lifetime, others and I are not very suitable, I can't live a lifetime, I will die of pain. (so that her value is already super high).

Three, this is said to yourself, her faults and advantages, you are still a little confused. The advantage is that you love her, want to marry her, and live a lifetime, which shows that she is suitable. The problem is the problem of husband and wife running-in, and some couples have to run in for several years.

I tell you, your wife beats you, and that's your wife too; She loses her temper because she's a woman and you definitely have a problem. A lot of problems, after the run-in period, I no longer feel that it is a problem, so don't be afraid. Haven't you seen an old husband and wife quarrel in the kitchen?

Is it possible to get divorced? I didn't take it to heart at all!

If she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life with you, she's worthless.

This is my concept of love, and I practice it myself, and I have gone through a lot of running-in, listened to the guidance of countless people and things, and adjusted my mentality, so that I can become more mature and stable, not extreme. Hope it helps.

Are you going to marry her right away? If it's not why bother. And your highest opinion of this girl is just okay, so what do you want your parents to agree to?

And they're just a little dissatisfied, and they don't interfere with your relationship. Just date and take a look, maybe you will find more bad habits and more problems in the future, and even if your parents don't object, you won't choose this person.

You can tell from your handwriting that you have average feelings for your girlfriend. Otherwise, your evaluation is: OK.

If you want to get married, you must know that the person who will be with you for the rest of your life will not be ...... your parents

Good luck.

Hello! You say that parents are confused, how can we help him? I think that parents can be confused because they are insecure, we should be by our parents' side, and it is possible to have more companionship to make them feel safe!

Spend more time with them, chatter, have a meal with them, take a walk with them, and care about the big and small things in their lives. Let them be happy, they won't fall into the bright light, our parents raise us, we raise him old, this is what we should do as children! Spend more time with your parents so that they feel safe.

Remember to adopt.

Don't bother to pay attention to them, go to work and earn money by yourself.

Understand why you are lost through communication. Make your stand firm. I will repay my parents for their nurturing kindness. Any difficulties will be faced with their parents. Give parents enough security and confidence.

1. When a child does a math problem, he is faced with a challenge, which is a math problem that is difficult enough.

The wrong thing my parents did was that if you couldn't do it, I would think that you had met a strong enemy, and then you would know how bad you were, and then your parents would take advantage of the fire and say, you now know that there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are heavens outside the sky, you know that your ability is not good, you don't need to be proud.

Many parents do this to rob while the fire is hot.

Another is that after the child's achievement, the parents think of a voice in their heads, pride makes people regress and modesty makes people progress, and then they may take the initiative to give up the opportunity to enjoy happiness with their children, they will stay calm at this time, and then pour cold water on the children, the children will feel that I am happy about things, will not make the parents happy, and then they have such a subconscious eternal impression in their hearts that I will never be able to meet the requirements of my parents.

In doing so, they may slowly become, a person who is always dissatisfied with themselves.

Many adults, after they have been far away from their parents, or even become parents themselves, are still studying or working hard, and then they will never be satisfied.

Because they never satisfied their parents, these people may spend their entire lives in the midst of endless busyness, not knowing who they are trying to satisfy.