Why do people behave in a way that is outstanding?

A person's excellence means that his advantages are particularly obvious.

The first life strategy is the traditional life strategy.

This life strategy says that in order to be successful, you have to make up for your shortcomings, because only by making up for your shortcomings can you lead to success.

It's like that bucket, if you have a very short board on it, the water will flow out of it, and the bucket will never be filled. The shortcomings here are the shortcomings, weaknesses, and weaknesses of a person.

Therefore, the key to the first life strategy is that if you want to be successful, you must be good at discovering your shortcomings, and then try to improve these shortcomings and make up for those shortcomings. At the same time, for the merits, just keep it.

This life development strategy also tells us that if you work hard enough, you will be able to achieve whatever you want to achieve.

What about the second life strategy?

It's a "strengths-based life strategy," which I also call the "longboard theory."

It says that everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and instead of spending a lot of time and energy to constantly make up for their weaknesses, it is better to focus and strengthen their strengths to achieve success.

Where does the advantage come from?

Strengths are talent, so find your talent first, then polish your talent into an advantage, and finally focus and strengthen your advantage to succeed.

For example, one of your talents is "communication", and people with this talent are very expressive, can speak well, and can tell stories, can tell stories vividly, and have a natural appeal.

It's a talent, so you can hone your communication talent by learning the knowledge and skills, and then look for opportunities to give presentations and train to make it work to your advantage.

Finally, use this to your advantage, such as by supplementing your knowledge, skills, and work experience in your field of expertise to become a good trainer or teacher. Or, by supplementing your legal knowledge, skills, and work experience to become a lawyer.

So, for your own weakness, is the second life strategy ignored?

No, but it won't focus on weaknesses to make up for weaknesses like the first strategy. Instead, there are strategies to manage weakness so that it does not hinder the achievement of goals.

The most important thing in this life strategy is always to make your strengths stronger and let them lead you to success.

Everyone is constantly making themselves better and more successful, and they can also make themselves have higher ideals and pursuits.

These performances are actually a kind of ideal of their own, and they are constantly breaking through, because everyone is constantly working hard, so everyone can achieve better success.

In fact, I think these behaviors are a breakthrough for themselves, and it is not so simple for them, so everyone has actually changed a lot, no matter what, I think it can be better developed.

Only with these behaviors can you make a great breakthrough, can you make yourself have greater development and greater achievements in front of others, and I think these behaviors are actually a kind of example for others.

Because everyone is actually constantly improving, only in this way can they continue to grow, I think everyone is actually in the process of a great breakthrough to let themselves slowly harvest, and these are through these struggles continue to achieve success.

Through their own continuous efforts, they can continue to develop, continue to succeed, and make themselves better, these behaviors are to overcome themselves step by step, so that they can become more goal-oriented, become more pursued, and only in this way can they have better behaviors.

Everyone is constantly working hard, continuous development, only in this way can they have a higher pursuit, I think in fact, everyone can rely on this way to make themselves have better value, play a different self.

It is still necessary to pursue more and work harder, only in this way can you have a better development. I think that in fact, everyone's behavior is a big breakthrough, so we can usually have a lot of outstanding behaviors to make ourselves better.

First of all, be mentally prepared. You have to realize that when you have strengths or accomplishments that others don't have, it's not surprising that this possession of yours becomes the target of envy for others. Because there are always some people in the world who do not fight for or cannot win your possession, and are indignant about your possession, and will take your loss as a psychological comfort.

Once you are mentally prepared for this, you will not panic or even be engulfed by jealousy.

Second, calm down and ignore it. Go your own way and let others do the talking. If you have such a heroic measure, those who incite jealousy may be bored, or relented, or will die down.

Of course, if they damage your image and engage in destructive behavior, you should fight them with reason. You must know that humility does not mean that you can be slaughtered and slandered.

Again, forge ahead towards a higher goal. There seems to be a law in the world: those who are higher than others in some way but not much higher are the most likely to become the object of envy of others.

If, on the other hand, you are much higher than others in this respect, then he will have to be impressed by your superiority, and his jealousy will disappear. Therefore, forge ahead towards a higher goal, leave jealousy far behind you, and create a realm where "the apes on both sides of the strait can't stop crying, and the light boat has crossed the ten thousand mountains". The gossip of the jealous will be replaced by the sigh of the admirer.

Outstanding behavior is actually to attract people's attention and achieve the purpose of becoming famous! Now many people on the Internet are shooting some ** and eighteen kinds of martial arts in order to become popular, just to be outstanding, and they have achieved the goal of becoming popular!

Outstanding, mainly refers to excellence, surpassing others, and excellence is the positive side of the direction;

Outstanding psychology mainly refers to the adjustment of mentality, state and psychological tolerance are better than ordinary people, broad, and high bearing;

Outstanding behavior mainly refers to the excellent behavior, action, and performance, and the high degree of pleasure and recognition that can satisfy others in place.

People will have outstanding behavior because no matter what kind of person they are, they have the desire to perform, so they will have outstanding behavior.

Everyone has self-esteem and self-motivation, even if a person is stupid, he will also have outstanding behavior.

What is the most important quality of a person? It is character, no matter how strong a person's ability is, if the character is not good, it will not be recognized, but will only be feared, character is the ability to control the **, if in the workplace, you offend people everywhere, if you are open-mouthed, it is easy to be disgusted by others. When others have set a nasty impression for you, no matter how good you are, it is difficult to change the impression of others, so it is important to pay attention to the image in your own life and leave a good impression on yourself.