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Are you often embarrassed to say no to others because of your face, and do you feel like you're not yourself anymore? Do you want to change?
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This is easy to solve.
Since you were joking from the beginning, you carried out the joke to the end.
As soon as she arrives at your house, you call her sister, (try to behave yourself as naïve) she doesn't mention age, you don't talk about it first, pretend to be confused to the end, then she will know the difficulty and retreat, remember to be as naïve as you can be.
So I think you can still be friends.
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You said that you are still too young, like her age has reached the legal age, and it will take five years for you to be 18, it seems that after five years, women will become so old, (of course, you can't say that she is old) All the suggestions are that you still don't meet, just chat online, and call her sister ......I don't like to see netizens, even if it's nearby.
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Deceive.,That's the only way.,As for what kind of method, think about it.,For example,You're going out.,Go to a relative's house or something.,And then apologize and say you can't accompany her.,But never say it.,.
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You just say you're too far apart.
Either way, be prepared that you will not be as mentally prepared as you used to be.
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There is no difference between 15 and 18, and there is no difference between 21 and 18. on
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First of all, I want to tell you that when we grow up, we will face a lot of rejection. But refusal is methodical, there are things to refuse directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes there is a need for euphemistic refusal. It depends on the situation.
Here are a few ways you can do this:
1.If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.
You can do this by complimenting the other person on their looks, character, or whatever. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it.
Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic. It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own.
This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.
2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.
Because if your answer is not firm enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."
This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.
3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.
The above is my summary, I hope it will be helpful to you.
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It's very strange why do you want to refuse tactfully? You said that her purpose for you is not pure, she just wants you to give her a gift, so with the purpose of profit, shouldn't you just refuse? Didn't you also say that you can't?
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This is a good refusal, since you don't like her, and it's impossible to be together, and it's just an ordinary friend, you don't enter her live broadcast room anymore, and it's not over if you don't contact her less, after a long time, she will know that you don't like her, but she may like you very much, so she will say something to you, as long as you don't pay attention to her, you don't have to say anything to her, she will understand.
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If you don't ask for it, how can you refuse! If you don't give her a chance to make demands, you don't watch her anchor; Don't give hope if you can't give it, don't drag your feet on things, and if you don't make a bad decision, it will become a trouble.
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Look at your explanation that she is greedy for your money, and the other is that you can't be together, this kind of woman separates as soon as possible, there is no need to continue, you can refuse her bluntly There is nothing to be embarrassed about, I hope you find a sincere girlfriend as soon as possible, always together, and wish you happiness every day.
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Just say that the company is busy, can't leave, and you take the initiative to ask him out if you have time another day, and never say that you have time
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Don't watch her live. When she contacted you, she said she had been busy lately.
Maybe she just treats you as a close friend, and telling you about her troubles and concerns about you shows that she really cares about you. There's no need to think about it so much. >>>More
Brother, I suggest you give up, the reasons are below:
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Hello, I understand you very well.
Two days ago, I also encountered the same thing as you, she hugged me and cried, kissed me, wanted to go back to the past with me, but it was difficult to recover, I still rejected her kindly, although I love her very much, a few years of life have made me maybe mature, reason is always better than impulse, I know that going back to the past may bring short-term happiness, but the hurt must be deeper, love her don't let each other hurt again, leave a good memory for each other, and it is still very warm to want to see each other in the future. >>>More
This kind of thing should depend on the individual, because my words may be less willing to reject others, because I don't know how to refuse, or I think in my heart, if I reject him, he is not willing to be friends with me, in fact, you think too much, she doesn't want to be friends with you, and will never be friends with you. When I was in college, people always asked me for help, and then I got busier and busier, so I told them directly that I might not have time to do it, because I still had to rush homework, or write **, so let them find other ways.
This kind of woman, she doesn't have any concept of love, she only knows how to find a man to eat him for the rest of her life, what is there to remember. There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, let's go!