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A 15-year-old girl who is at home during the summer vacation and doesn't say a word to her parents is indeed a rebellious phenomenon of adolescence. At this time, it is necessary to follow the child. It is necessary to follow the good path, patiently and meticulously lead the child to the right path, don't let the purposeful bad guy take advantage of the loophole, don't let him play too many ideas, and then through appropriate psychological counseling.
Let him go through adolescence correctly and smoothly.
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This is the rebellious period, and of course there is also a situation where there is a lack of communication between you, or you often deny him, causing her to be reluctant to share with you anymore, and you need to pay more attention to her physical and mental health.
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This should not be said to be rebellious, it should be the rebellious heart of the parents and the daughter who usually do not communicate with anything at all, so the daughter does not communicate with the parents because there is no common language and nothing to say, I hope it can help you, friends wish you happiness every day.
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There must be a reason why she doesn't talk to her family, maybe she feels that she doesn't have a common language with her family and wants to isolate herself!
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Yes yes, seriously rebellious.
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A 15-year-old girl is in the rebellious period. Try to be friends with her, communicate well, and correctly guide her through this period.
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If it's hard to communicate, say less or don't say anything.
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I think there should be a lot of parents who have a headache about this! As long as their children make more unreasonable requests with themselves, parents will find a way to refuse their children, but no matter what age the children will definitely be unhappy when they hear their parents' refusals, this is very normal, but even so parents can't agree to their excessive requests in order to make their children happy, so parents hope that their children can be sensible, and they don't have to be rejected by their parents if they don't make those bad requests. And parents won't be embarrassed by this. <>
If it is a child of other ages, it may be fine for them to vent their emotions if they are unhappy, but for children who have entered the rebellious period, it is possible to do something more radical, although the probability of this is not particularly large, but it cannot be said that there is no such thing at all. Therefore, parents need to pay attention to the way they communicate with their children, and never let their children do something that hurts themselves or their families under impulse. <>
I know that some children's conditions are a bit excessive, but some are not excessive, parents can try to agree to such conditions, otherwise the child will feel that no matter what the parents say, they will not agree, which will make the child more rebellious. Therefore, parents can sometimes agree to some conditions for their children, but this is a premise, and parents can only agree to them after the children have completed some things, otherwise there is no room for negotiation. And one thing parents need to pay attention to is that they must complete the promise to their children, and they must not run out of credit with their children.
Parents must maintain the same opinion when educating their children, I don't recommend the kind of one who sings white face and one red face, because then the child will feel that he always has a backer, which is not good for the child's growth. It is only when the parents are in agreement that it is possible for the child to really reflect on himself.
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For some unreasonable requests, parents should patiently explain to their children what kind of harm these will cause him, and if they can't agree to their children's unreasonable requests, they can take their children out to exercise more to alleviate his impetuous emotions and rebellious psychology.
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Think of yourself as your child's friend, have an equal dialogue with your child, and listen to your child's heart. Listen patiently to your child when he opens up to you, and don't nag in front of him, which will wear down his patience to communicate with you.
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I think that at this time, we should not meet his unreasonable demands, otherwise he will become more and more presumptuous, and I must gently advise him to be considerate of his parents.
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The child's unreasonable request should be rejected because the parent cannot always meet the child's unreasonable demand, which is a sign of irresponsibility to the child.
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Today's parents are increasingly worried about their children in the rebellious stage of adolescence, because the children are always enemies of their parents. Parents want their children to go east, and children tend to go west to the west of the Sacred Spike. For rebellious adolescent children, parents are slapped in the face.
No, it's not scolding, it's just helplessness. What if a twelve-year-old girl is rebellious?
First and foremost, respect your child. Many parents mistakenly believe that their children do not have a sense of dignity, do not understand the priorities of things, and do not know whether items are necessary. Such parents do not care about their children's emotions at all when they do things.
Even if the child expresses his wishes, the parents will not pay attention to it, and even think that the child is unreasonable! Gradually, the child feels that he is not being treated with the respect he deserves, and a communication barrier develops between him and his parents. Therefore, we must give our children the respect they deserve, which is also a very important prerequisite for building their self-confidence.
Second, you give children the opportunity to choose. When it is necessary to choose, parents should not ignore the wishes of their children and make choices for their children directly according to their own ideas. After countless selections and arrangements by the child, the rift between the child and the parents will only deepen until it cannot be reconciled.
Third, give your child space to vent their emotions. Everyone has little emotions, and so do children. We can't deprive children of this sense of space, otherwise they will feel that they have no privacy, and over time, they will become more and more sensitive.
In view of the indescribable desire for control of some parents, please control yourself and vent your emotions to your child in a small world. It's also a way for children to learn to control their emotions. If you want your child to be the master of your emotions, not a slave to them, you must give them enough space to grow, experience and vent.
Finally, What is the reason for a twelve-year-old girl's rebellion? Parents always force their children to accept their own ideas. Parents don't have a good relationship.
Many rebellious children, parents do not get along with each other, often quarrel or even fight, which will have a negative impact on the child. Excessive focus on the child's inappropriate behavior.
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Parents should learn to understand their children, learn to stand in the child's perspective to test stupid problems, 12-year-old children are not particularly young, don't always treat children as children, and change the way they get along with their children. Learn to affirm that the child has a fuhu and praise the child more so that you can change the finch in the child's hall.
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Every filial piety child will have a time of rebellion and caution, and the twelve-year-old little girl who is rebellious should use the correct way of education, for some things, turn a blind eye and pass it.
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