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First of all, a person who wants to commit suicide will not commit suicide for no reason, he must encounter something sad, or a predicament that he can't get out of the way, so the first thing we have to do is to let this person who wants to commit suicide tell his heart, people often have extreme thoughts when no one tells him, and when he has someone to talk to, he will distract some attention, which will be much better.
Secondly, if the person who wants to commit suicide is a young man, after listening to him tell him what happened to him, you should tell him that in fact, the parents and friends around him are all there, and when they encounter difficulties, everyone can find a way, there is no need to carry it alone, establish his confidence in life, let him rekindle his confidence in the world, say more, the interesting things in the current society, the material life that can be enjoyed, and finally highlight the key points, all of which can only be seen by living, and persuade him not to commit suicide easily.
Next, show him some people who are now seriously ill and struggling to survive, and tell him that if he dies easily, his parents will be very sad, and people's hearts are very fragile, and use his elderly parents to arouse his sense of responsibility and hope for life.
Finally, reassure him that although he is willing to talk about his difficulties, suicide is not something to be advocated, nor is it a glorious thing, so as a person to be heard, he must not spread it everywhere, and he must protect the confidence he has built up with great difficulty. He should be brave to face things instead of passively running away!
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Persuade each other, think about your parents and family, accompany each other, and go out to travel and relax.
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It's to comfort others, in fact, the effect of having the idea of suicide is not very big, to let go of yourself and figure it out, care more, understand it properly, if you like small animals, pets are also a little ** effect, the above are just some of my personal views.
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Think more about your family, the people you love the most. You will feel how sad it must be to not be able to leave them.
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Life is still very beautiful, don't lose hope in life because of temporary disappointment.
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I also thought about suicide, but it didn't come to fruition. This is still the case. Because I'm thinking about my family. I can't make them sad.
So, or after you understand his reasons, let him try, think about the people who love him, especially family ... Think about how sad his parents would be if he was gone. Can he bear it!!
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2.Look for early warning signs of suicide and determine if emergency intervention is needed3Asking about suicidal thoughts can reduce the risk of suicide.
4.Use emotional support to convey empathy, not shame or guilt.
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In terms of behavior alone, it is very easy to die, but it is much harder to live.
To comfort people who want to die is actually to improve their depression.
There used to be many ways in hospitals and online, whether effective or not, to alleviate the death aspirations of some less determined patients.
Patients who can be saved by persuasion alone are not really depressed at all, especially those who have been compared to severe depression. Whenever they shake their heads and say that you ** know my pain, or let out a long sigh and be silent.
When you turn away. Or don't even look at it, and don't frown at the indifferent look. can make people feel that this person is about to die.
And you, as a rescuer, are likely to be equally powerless. Therefore, the power of depression is not to be despised for.
Some sensitive people, or phobias groups, can feel this kind of depressive aura intensely. Fortunately, there is a helping hand in our education, and we are taught from an early age that we should help others in any way we can. For those who have family members or friends who want to die, it is necessary to soothe them in words and actions.
Do you think that singing and dancing everywhere will bring you to grief? Besides, don't you have a family and a lover? Can't you live to do something for the people you love?
Can't you just ignore the gaze of others?
Don't be afraid of something, don't look for trouble if you have nothing to do! Deal with the problems presented heroically and actively, never think of any misanthropic thoughts, eliminate and wear out this bad idea, because he is alive to the point of death, no one can refuse this black demon. Don't be self-loathing about life!
May you be relieved that your life is mine, and no one can replace it! A person is not afraid of death, but is he still afraid of living? How good it is to be alive and listen to the birds chirping every morning!
I don't want to live if I am not satisfied, there are many things that are unsatisfactory in life, look at those who are worse than our lives, but they think they are happy to live, life is like this, don't want to die at every turn, think about it, the way out is a bright one, and happiness will accompany you.
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Persuasion in the early years of suicide: A person has personal thoughts, we must actively persuade, first of all, we must have love for him, do not blame him, we can carefully ask him about his troubles, and then take the initiative to help him analyze, so that he wants to open a little; Find a quiet space and listen to what he says; Self-regulation: Usually relax yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, you can go to see the scenery appropriately, run a little to relax your mood, you can listen to it**.
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Self-regulation: find friends and relatives to talk about their troubles, exercise, regulate emotions, ensure sleep, bask in the sun, do some self-pleasing things, listen to **, raise flowers, take a walk, etc.
How to persuade: Chat with each other more, listen to each other more, find more things for the other party to make him feel needed, talk to the other party's friends and relatives to persuade them to give others more help and care.
When the other party mentions that they want to commit suicide, you can learn more about the other person's thoughts in this regard, and if the actual action is more specific, the more vigilant you must be, and you must notify your family in time.
Avoid the presence of suicidal devices in your surroundings.
Hope it helps.
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If someone has suicidal thoughts, tell him that if he commits suicide, his family will be very sad, and then find out why he wants to commit suicide, help him solve the problem, and then tell him to live actively, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
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Facing the future and keeping the sunshine in mind. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke thinks.
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Hello dear, for people who want to commit suicide, you can say this1, listen attentively When this kind of person confides in you, he must trust you very much, and even want to treat you as a lifesaver, hoping to get an answer from you. At this time, the first thing you have to do is to patiently listen to him say the sorrow in his heart, understand the reason why he wants to commit suicide, and listen to his inner voice. 2. Share the beauty of the world with him You can take him for a walk, see the bustling crowd, visit the playground full of laughter, and go to the farmland to see the farmer's harvest, so that he can discover the beauty of the world as much as possible, let him feel that the world is worth it, and after seeing the beauty of life, the idea of sliding on the branch will be reduced a lot.
3. Find a solution When you find the root cause of depression through chatting, you can prescribe the right medicine, Brother Chong is looking for a way to untie the knot, and when he figures it out, he will definitely not give up this precious life.
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Someone who wants to commit suicide can be comforted like this: 1. Listen attentively When this kind of person confides in you, he must trust you very much, and even want to treat you as a life-saving straw, hoping to get an answer from you. At this time, what you don't have to do first is to patiently listen to him and tell him about the sorrow in his heart, understand the reason why he wants to commit suicide, and listen to his inner voice.
2. Share the beauty of the world with him You can take him for a walk, see the bustling crowd, visit the playground full of laughter, go to the farmland to see the farmers lack of barricades and harvest farms, let him discover the beauty of the world as much as possible, make him feel that the world is worth it, and after seeing the beauty of life, the idea of suicide will be reduced a lot. 3. Find a solution When the root cause of depression is found through chatting, you can prescribe the right medicine and find a way to untie the knot, and when he figures it out, he will definitely not give up this precious life.
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There are several ways to regulate suicidal thoughts:1. You must be aware that this is not right, if you have the idea of suicide, although you have it, you must also realize that this is not possible, so that you can consciously adjust yourself, let your mood be soothed, and finally no longer commit suicide.
2. Talk to friends, if you have any unpleasant things, talk to your friends more, so that we can release the pressure in our hearts will be better, and friends can comfort us and let us get out of the darkness again.
3. You can go out to travel, relax yourself, release bad emotions, you will cherish life more, and you will not have the idea of suicide.
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