When a family of three goes out, should the child be held by the mother or the father?

I think that if a family of three goes out together, the child should be carried by the father. The reason is also very simple, because the father is more powerful outside, can better protect the child, and can make the child fully aware of the difference between father and mother, which is also a kind of education for the child.

When the family travels, the child always likes to pester the mother, after all, every day at home, the mother spends more time with the child. Mothers generally spoil their children very much, even if they are tired, they will agree to the child's request, but I think in this case, the father should be allowed to hug the child more, because the time between the father and the child itself is less than the time between the mother and the child, so this time can be more conducive to the relationship between their father and son, and cultivate more father-son feelings. In addition, dads are more powerful than moms, and taking children out is a very physically demanding thing, so of course dads with strength need to bear more.

And if there are some accidents, then Dad can also deal with it better, after all, the average man's reaction speed is faster than that of a woman.

Maybe many mothers don't realize that letting dad hug their children more is also a kind of education for children. I have heard such a sentence before, and it feels very reasonable, mothers generally tell stories to children, teach children, and play games with children, while fathers should accompany their children to do some outdoor sports, such as outdoor mountain climbing or camping, fighting, etc. Whether it is a boy or a girl, it can actually be, so that the child can fully realize the difference between father and mother, and will gradually have a sense of gender, it turns out that many things can only be done by fathers.

In our country, many mothers live a widowed parenting, the father is busy working outside every day, regardless of the affairs at home, and lies there directly after work, so that there is very little time to accompany the child, so the child will be more dependent on the mother. Therefore, when traveling, you should let your father take care of your children more, which can also increase your father's sense of responsibility, make your father realize the hard work of taking care of your children, and the whole family will be more harmonious.

It seems to be a small thing, but in fact, there is a lot of truth in it. If he is a responsible father, I think he should take the initiative to take responsibility for holding his child. If a father never takes care of his children at home and is reluctant to hold his children outside, then such a husband should really consider it.

After all, the child is two people, and the mother should not be responsible for it alone.

The child should be handed over to the father to hold, because the father's body is stronger, and the relationship between the father and the child should be a little more distant when he usually goes to work.

Mother hugs, because the child will bring a lot of things when he goes out, some things are heavier, and it is better for the father to hold them.

There should be no special rules for this, in fact, holding a child is also a very tiring job, the average family will definitely choose to change the child, there is no shortage of babies, they only recognize one person, as long as one person holds, in fact, anyone can hold it.