What should I do if my boyfriend doesn t propose marriage for a year?

Updated on society 2024-06-05
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can try to communicate with your boyfriend, since you have decided to be together forever, what can't you ask? If you have questions, just ask. The boyfriend must have his reasons, maybe he wants to get along more, maybe he wants to fight for his career first, or something else, in short, understand each other more.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think if that's the case, then the man doesn't love you enough, because if he really loves you, why would he be willing to spend another year on you? So I think you should stop the loss and break up with him in time, well, it's not to break up with him, it's just to look at one of your own inner thoughts, in case he still doesn't mention his kiss after a year, like I saw a ** on Douyin before, just say that a boy has been dragging another girl, don't mention kissing, just say wait a little longer to get married, wait a little longer to get married, and wait a little longer to get married, and when he is 28 years old, the girl heard his mother say, the boy's mother said that she was going to drag him all the time, until no one wanted, You don't have to give the bride price, so I don't know why that boyfriend wants to consume you, but I think that since I want to consume you, I have to be responsible for you, if you can't be responsible for you, then I ask you to stop the loss in time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If your boyfriend doesn't propose marriage to you for a year, you can communicate with him and give him a deadline, if he continues to sit idly by and don't propose marriage to you, then you threaten to break up with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If this situation is not recommended, it must be that he does not marry. A man who doesn't know how to refuse, doesn't know how to love, and doesn't know how to think about a woman is not worth entrusting for life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can tell him clearly, if he doesn't want to marry you, you should break up with him as soon as possible, don't spend it any longer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can talk to your boyfriend about this in person. If your boyfriend doesn't agree to propose. Then you have to think about it, and when you break it, you break it. It's not interesting to consume.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If after talking to him well, if he still wants to consume you, maybe he is not ready to marry you, or she may have to earn enough money to marry a wife, these may be the real reasons for a man to postpone marriage, unless she is just perfunctory with you and flirting with you, and then break up!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At this time, you can ask your boyfriend euphemistically, when will we have a home of our own? You see how he is, see if he has a complete plan for your future, and if there is nothing, then you have to think about whether to continue or not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can explain it directly, if he has no intention of marrying you at all, then he can also stop the loss in time, the woman is young for a few years, and she can't be delayed.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're going to have to talk to your boyfriend about it. You have to tell him that since we are in a relationship for the purpose of getting married, then we have been talking for a year, and you should come and propose. Don't continue to consume, we have all reached the age of marriage, if you want to continue to play like this, then you can go and play with someone else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can tell him directly what you think in your heart, tell him that you want to get married, if he doesn't plan to marry you, make it clear as soon as possible, instead of wasting your youth by dragging his time, maybe he doesn't want to get married so soon now, depending on his attitude before planning.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your boyfriend still hasn't said anything, you can consider whether you want to be together in the future. Anyway, let's talk to him first, see what his attitude is, and if he's still very sincere, just wait, after all, you've been in love for a year.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hurry up and urge him, just ask him what he means, if he doesn't plan to marry you. If this is still the case, it is irresponsible to you, and you can consider changing someone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't propose you for a year? Personally, I think that if your boyfriend is always consuming you and not mentioning marriage, I think if the two people have a good relationship, I think you can bring it up directly, and if he doesn't agree, then you can break up with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to understand his situation and what he really thinks. Find out if his family is also under pressure on his side, since you are both dating, even if you are a family, the family does not talk to each other, find a time to talk. It's time to propose, what else can not be said, on the one hand, strengthen the ideological influence on the parents' side, on the other hand, to understand the situation on his side, don't say what should the man take the initiative, in fact, a woman's happiness is more important than face, and it is not easy to know each other to fall in love and then to love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you can go on a blind date, since he wants to drag it, then he will continue, you look for your new love, the woman is young for so many years, you can't afford to drag it, he won't marry someone to marry, rest assured.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the boyfriend always does not mention marriage, then the two should communicate and discuss, see if the specific problem appears in **, must communicate and solve, if the boyfriend has more concerns, then comfort the boyfriend, so that he does not worry too much.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really can't wait, then just break up, the girl's youth is limited, have you ever asked him why he didn't marry you and go home? Is it a question of the economy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can try to hint at him that you want to get married, if your boyfriend is still like this, it may be that he doesn't love you enough, after all, when a guy meets a girl he likes, he wants to marry home as soon as possible, and he won't drag it out like this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can talk to him honestly about what he thinks about your relationship so far, and see if he still has you in his heart, or if he just wants to drag you and use you as a spare tire in the future. If I really want to drag you along, it is recommended to break up as soon as possible.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can go directly to him and ask him what the specific reason is, instead of not doing it like this, letting yourself pay this good time and not get the results you deserve.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A year is not a long time, if you want to marry him, you can ask him, we have been together for a year, is it possible to get married, if he not, it means that he has no love for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You just have to make it clear to your boyfriend in this situation. Just tell him that if you want to get married, come and propose. Otherwise, break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think if he is deliberately wasting your time, you can ask him directly how he is going to go with you, after all, a woman's youth is short, let him give you an accurate answer.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, if the relationship is not bad, you can directly ask your boyfriend about his future plans, if he has no intention of proposing marriage or getting married, then you have to re-examine this relationship, whether it is worth continuing!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is estimated that there may be two scenarios.

    First, my boyfriend's family is poor and can't afford the bride price.

    The second is that the family has money, but reluctantly, want to spend it all the time, when you are older, you and your family are anxious, then your parents will not ask for the bride price, and your boyfriend's parents will come to your house again to propose, and your parents will naturally agree.

    If the latter is possible, it means that the boyfriend's family is very shrewd.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There could be many reasons why his parents didn't mention it:

    1.thinks that the man is still young.

    2.Just graduated and don't have a stable job, what is your financial income after you get married? Can't get married, two people still have to be raised at home, right? He can't support himself now, and if he marries another wife, does he have to support two people in his family?

    3.You said that you have been working for 2 years and he has just graduated, so does his academic background match your academic qualifications? Does his family consider this reason?

    4.Have you and he both officially met both parents? Maybe you haven't officially introduced each other to your own family! If so, of course they won't be seriously thinking about your marriage.

    5.Does his family like you?

    6.Is his family happy with your family situation?

    In fact, the solution is also very simple, discuss marriage with your boyfriend, and he promises to marry you soon, and this matter is half done. Let him and his family take the initiative to mention the rest, and let him discuss the marriage with his family, this kind of thing is useless for you to say. He has made up his mind to marry you, and if his family does not object to it, then they will officially consider your marriage.

    After he communicated with the family, he asked him to take his parents to meet your parents and talk about marriage, and this matter was settled. Remember, find a time when everyone is in a good mood, many couples come to this point because their parents can't get along.

    I wish you a happy life in the future and marry someone you like.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Like yours, there are two things to understand first:

    1. Whether your boyfriend really loves you and whether you really love him.

    2. Whether the family status and economic status of your two families are comparable.

    1. If your boyfriend really loves you, it may be that his family does not agree, but it is very simple. Rock, scissors, paper. You are "rock", your boyfriend is "scissors", and his parents are "paper". Do you understand?

    2. If the family status and economic status of your two families are comparable or much higher than your family, it is likely that his parents do not agree. On the contrary, if your house is higher than his. It's that his parents are worried, afraid that the mother-in-law who married the daughter-in-law will underestimate them and his son, and the economy really does not allow it, and they are in a dilemma.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Honey, in fact, your boyfriend has such thoughts, and that's because he loves you enough and likes you enough. Because he is worried, he has no sense of security, if he talks for a long time, he thinks that you will leave her, he will not like him, and the relationship will be weak.

    It was because he had this idea that he wanted to cook the raw rice as soon as possible. At that time, it will be difficult for you to get out of this relationship. So I think if you like her.

    You can tell him directly. <>

    I have been talking about it for 1 year, and my boyfriend is always in a hurry to come to my house to propose. But I don't want to be that early. He was a little unhappy when it was over.

    Hello, I'm Ms. Yuanmiko, and I'm good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation If you know you, I will too

    Honey, in fact, your boyfriend has such thoughts, and that's because he loves you enough and likes you enough. Because he is worried, he has no sense of security, if he talks for a long time, he thinks that you will leave her, he will not like him, and the relationship will be weak. It was because he had this idea that he wanted to cook the raw rice as soon as possible.

    You can let him wait for you for a while, or get along for a while longer and test the other person. <>

    It's that my boyfriend and I are not in the same place. It is Huai'an's. I'm from Nantong. It's only been a year since we talked. Just keep urging me. Going to my house. I can't wait to get engaged and get married for a while. I was very disgusted. Such a marriage-like love.

    Then I think you can talk to him face to face about your own situation. And thou shalt tell him, that you two are now in a different place. You can't make decisions so quickly. And you've only been talking about it for a year. Indeed, this is too hasty.

    And we're really old. It's 28 years old. He also said that he was not in a hurry. Why, his parents are in a hurry. Can't wait. I'm done. If you really get married, do you have to have children?

    That's it, dear, so I think I can understand you.

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