Can junior high school students like the opposite sex, and how to view the interaction of middle sch

I told you that junior high school students can certainly talk about it It's normal If you don't want to, it's not normal It is recommended that you go to the doctor There is no need to pay too much attention to what your parents told you If you didn't like the opposite sex in junior high school, it can be said to be a big regret in your life Your parents told you not to do it because your parents were afraid that you would be hurt and affect your learning Oh no What age is it now Don't lie to you Now it's normal for elementary school students to find a girlfriend It's actually unrealistic to affect learning Junior high school has just a little knowledge If you want to learn, you have to learn no matter what, and if you don't want to learn or don't know if you want to learn, it's a matter of time before you don't learn wellIn fact, falling in love also helps and learns...I don't want to talk nonsense, everything is two-sided, isn't it?

If you want to make friends, remember not to give him the first time in junior high school, unless you can endure the pain of abandonment, which ordinary people can't bear, if you want to have a boyfriend, don't be afraid to break up, if you're afraid, don't have a boyfriendBecause the relationship itself is more false, not to mention junior high school, if you find something you like, you can talk about it, don't think too much, let the rest be.

Have you ever had this experience as a middle school student? If it were you, what would you do about it?

In fact, I have heard many of my peers say that they have all had this experience. Psychological research has shown that after adolescents enter puberty, with the changes in sexual physiology, sexual psychology will inevitably undergo complex changes, and they have entered a critical period of life development. The development of sexual consciousness in adolescence can be divided into three stages:

Heterosexual estrangement, heterosexual proximity, and heterosexual love. In middle school, life has experienced a "second birth", and the psychology has accepted the second "weaning", and middle school students are developing from the period of alienation of the opposite sex to the period of proximity to the opposite sex. Boys and girls begin to pay attention to the opposite sex, eager to contact, understand the opposite sex, hope that the opposite sex appreciates themselves, likes themselves, and may even have a good impression or admiration for the opposite sex, such as some male classmates like beautiful female classmates, some female classmates appreciate a male classmate's vigorous posture, or male and female classmates like to participate in activities with the opposite sex, etc., this is a special and quite normal and healthy psychological experience in adolescence, is a natural and beautiful thing, middle school students do not have to feel shy and embarrassed or nervous about this, This is the inevitable result of our maturation.

Middle school students in the age of "flower season and rainy season" are easy to have a good impression of each other, so as to attract each other, admire each other, and produce feelings of admiration, this hazy emotion is the germination of sexual consciousness caused by sexual physiological maturity, with the element of liking and appreciating the opposite sex, it is not really in love, it is very different from falling in love with real adults, such as the purpose of adult love is to combine the sexes into marriage, which requires economic independence, self-reliance in life, and the ability to assume family responsibilities, Secondary school students obviously do not have this condition, and the age at which secondary school students fall in love is far from the legal minimum age for marriage (22 for men and 20 for women). From Xiaoli's inner feelings, such as she cares about what Xiao Yong says and does, and often looks forward to learning and playing with him, you can conclude that Xiaoli has more affection and love for Xiao Yong, not love.

It is not surprising that the instinctive impulse of middle school students when they come into contact with the opposite sex is a very natural and normal thing, but human beings have reason and willpower.

If you let your own desires be swayed, let your emotional impulses and fall in love, you may abandon your studies, delay your youth, and pay a heavy price for the immature feelings that came early. Falling in love at this age in middle school is like picking the unripe green fruit from a tree, and you will only taste bitterness. There are many critical periods in life, and it is difficult to make up for missing the best period of learning in middle school, no matter how much time and energy you spend in the future.

As for emotional matters, the most suitable age is in your twenties. Therefore, secondary school students should take a long-term view and overcome their feelings with reason and perseverance.

It is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex, after all, when you are formally ignorant in adolescence, it is best for parents to tell their children what they really like, rather than intervening.

Tell your child that it's normal to have a crush on the opposite sex at this age, but don't do anything too much and don't have intimate contact.

I think it's normal for parents to tell them that they have a crush on the opposite sex, but we shouldn't tell them about it. And in the process of the exam, it should be kind and not irritable.

If you are still a junior high school student, at this age, it is normal to be interested in the opposite sex, but in order not to affect your studies, and the school also stipulates that you can't fall in love,Then you have to tell yourself clearly that you can't fall in love, forget these things, focus on your studies, and don't affect your studies because of your good feelings for the opposite sex at this stage.

You must know that there is a saying: human feelings expand with concentration. You should distract yourself from other things as soon as possibleFor example, the best direction is to learn.

You must know that as a junior high school student now, the amount of study you have, as well as the pressure of studying, is very high. You are in a critical period of your life, don't think that only the college entrance examination is the moment that determines the fate of most people. Now it can be said that the high school entrance examination is more important than the college entrance examination.

Now all over the country, there is only one chance to launch the high school entrance examination, the point is that it is not allowed to repeat, and now the admission ratio in many regions has reached four to six, and your pressure as a student should be very great. We should not be in the most critical period, because these good feelings for the opposite sex affect your mind every day and distract you from your experience. If you can't forget these emotional things, or let them go, it will inevitably affect your learning, and you must understand that people's energy is limited.

We can only focus our limited energy on something more meaningful. Think about your parents, think about the excellent classmates around you, what they are doing, and look at themselves. After all, there is still a long way to go in life in the future, and there will be many excellent people of the opposite sex who will appear around you in the future, only by grasping the moment and doing what should be doneWhen we grow up and look back, we will not regret our youth and ignorance.

Junior high school students are in a period of rebellion and ignorance, and it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex at this time, as long as this good feeling is turned into motivation for learning, or the two of you make progress together, it is very good.

Junior high school students generally choose not to respond to the feelings of the opposite sex, or directly refuse, because the academics of junior high school are more critical, and parents and teachers will oppose them, and they can also choose to leave their feelings for college.

In this case, don't confess or whatever, after all, in the ignorance period of youth, in fact, it is normal to like someone, at this time, you only need to keep this feeling in your heart.

I think we should face up to this feeling, junior high school students are still in a stage of ignorance, and they should focus on their studies.

Hello kiss, first, relatively speaking, he is very interested in things of the opposite sex, including things related to sex, especially under the influence of male hormones, and even easily has sexual fantasies. For example, you may think of having sexual contact with someone you like. I have seen an official information before, adolescent boys are awake, and subconsciously have an average of one sex-related dry thought every 26 minutes.

So parents know that adolescent boys are all over these things, but it's not their fault, because that's true of all his peers. Second, there will be some changes in the way adolescent boys alternate, and they will enjoy making friends at this stage of their lives, because it is important to them. In terms of behavior, they will take the initiative to establish relationships with people other than family members, especially in the hope that they can find some friends to confide in their hearts.

At this time, they are more likely to go to some people to play with and talk to them. At this time, the psychological effect of peers and groups on them exceeds the influence of the elders in the family and even most teachers.

Summary. Good evening, dear. I am the answerer, the breeze and the drizzle are silent, and I am happy to serve you.

The question you asked: How do junior high school students get along with a boy who likes it? To tell you honestly, see through it without saying it, and hide this good feeling in your heart. It's okay to treat this guy as a friend of the opposite sex.

Good evening, dear. I am the answerer, the breeze and the drizzle are silent, and I am happy to serve you. The question you asked: How do junior high school students get along with a boy who likes it?

To tell you honestly, see through it without saying it, and hide this good feeling in your heart. It's okay to treat this guy as a friend of the opposite sex.

The reason why you are like this is because you are in adolescence in junior high school, and you are also in a period of emotional ignorance, which is also a manifestation of growing up and maturing. But there is still a lack of a comprehensive and correct interpretation of love. Often, friendship and love between people of the opposite sex are confused.

Once you say it, you will be labeled as a puppy love by your classmates and others. It may put psychological pressure on each other, and even affect learning. When they were students, they had a good impression of each other of the opposite sex, in addition to their looks, they also excelled in their studies or excelled in sports!

There will even be a generalization concept! Often, this kind of desperate behavior is unsustainable.

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