How to distinguish between an impatient tone and a coquettish tone?

Before others could say a word, he took the initiative to interrupt others, this kind of impatient tone. And the tone of coquettish is that the speech will change, and the sound of the last word will generally be elongated when coquettish.

1. The tone of the rhetorical question.

How do you feel when you communicate with others and they always communicate with you in a rhetorical tone?

Although sometimes rhetorical questions can accentuate the tone of the voice, it can show some meanings that cannot be said in the language. But more often than not, the rhetorical tone can give the other person a very annoying feeling. It can make others feel that they are being suspected, or that they are being fooled.

2. The tone of the command.

I believe that no one likes to be ordered to do something. I have a friend who likes to communicate with people in a commanding tone, and it is difficult to have good results every time I communicate with others. Because no one buys his account. And after a long time, he was isolated by others, and it was difficult for him to have friends.

Of course, in some special occasions such as the workplace, such as when leaders and subordinates speak, such a tone can be used. But daily interpersonal communication must be used sparingly.

3. Impatient tone.

The impatient tone gives the impression that the other person is a problem, that you are a problem, and that you make me unhappy. This is a very radical expression. While some people seem to be compromising on their own, once they express it in an impatient tone, they give the other person a feeling that this is not the case.

Some people say that such a tone will be perfunctory when it comes to it, so don't use this tone lightly, because it is easy to be recognized.

4. Didactic tone.

I'm speaking this to you for your own sake. "Do you understand? ”

Many people hate it when others use the tone of someone who has come before to teach them a lesson.

When some people talk to others, they think that they are very objective, very rational, and convincing people everywhere.

There is nothing wrong with reasoning, but it can't be too much, beyond a certain level, a problem that is not a problem will become a problem.

For example, if you talk too much about it, it can easily become preachy in the eyes of others.

This is like Tang Seng in "Journey to the West", every sentence is reasonable, which sentence is not a life motto?

But the apprentices under him obviously don't think so, they will find it annoying to nag and like flies.

People are narcissistic, and when a person speaks to someone in a didactic tone, it makes others feel:

Only the one who speaks is mature, and he himself is naïve.

This is actually a damage to a person's self-esteem.

Therefore, people who speak to others in a didactic tone seem to have a friendly attitude and are very reasonable, but unconsciously set others against themselves, causing psychological conflicts and even contests.

From the tone of a person's speech to others, you can judge the level of a person's emotional intelligence.

Sarcastic tone.

Often communicates with others in a sarcastic tone, and looks down on others at all, this kind of person not only has low emotional intelligence, but also regards him as mentally retarded.

Disdainful tone.

The disdainful emotion is the most annoying, so there is no respect for others at all, and such a person has very low emotional intelligence.

The tone of the command.

Everyone doesn't want others to take care of themselves, and if you talk to others in a commanding tone, you are in charge of others, how can others not hate you?

A cold tone.

No matter how big or small, she always speaks to others with a serious face, showing a very indifferent and ruthless appearance, as if others owe her a lifetime, which is also a common tone of speech used by people on the earth.

A hateful tone.

That is what we usually say, we will not say a good word to others, as if we do not fight enemies with everyone, this tone, the people around you will make you offend the light.

Skeptical tone.

A very small matter, when talking to others, we must investigate the bottom of the matter, this way of communicating with others in a suspicious tone will definitely cause others to resent it.

An impatient tone.

When talking to others, I always seem so impatient, and before others have said a few words, I take the initiative to interrupt others, and this impatient tone of speech gives people a very bad feeling.

The tone of impatience is generally short, and coquettishness is different, mainly because there will be more tone words.

You can clearly feel the difference between the same sentence expressed in an impatient tone and a coquettish tone, to name a few examples.

Scenario 1: It's time for lunch and you want to ask your boyfriend and girlfriend what they're eating.

Impatient: Whatever, anything.

Spoil: I want to eat that, I want to eat this, okay?

Scenario 2: Analyze a very interesting thing with a friend in high spirits.

Impatient: Oh, yes.

Spoiled: Wow, this is so interesting, let's play together.

Look at his face, if he looks a little angry, it is impatient, and if it is just a short word just scribbled to promise you, it is impatient, and the coquettish will always have a little smile on his face.

The tone of impatience has "oh, uh, ah, ah, etc.", which sounds impatient.

The coquettish tone is, oops, well, this kind of symbolic can clearly know that the other party is coquettish.

For example, if the other party says: Okay, okay (belongs to coquettishness), the other party says: Okay, okay (belongs to impatience).

The other party said: Good night (belongs to coquettishness).

The other party said: I slept first (it is impatient).

There is a clear distinction between the two.

Summary. The coquettish tone can be said like this: 1. If you are not angry, come and hug me.

2. You don't have a hobby, you can only love me. 3. I'm not your cutie anymore. 4. You are like a book, the more you read it, the more you want to sleep.

5. I'm sleepy, touch my head and coax me to sleep. 6. Hold me high, hug me, hug me. 7. You need a kiss, otherwise you won't get up.

8. I'm super aggrieved, people are just angry. 9. I can't sleep, I have to hold you to fall asleep. 10. Your little ancestor is waiting for you, and there is only 1% of patience left.

11. Love is mutual, I like you, you have to kiss me. 12. I am very possessive, don't think about leaving when you get close to me. 13. I want to drink with you and pretend to be drunk, and ask you for a hug.

14. Husband, last year's lipstick is not worthy of me this year. 15. No matter how good others are, they belong to others, I am different, I am yours. 16. Isn't the sugar I ate for a day sweet enough, and you still don't kiss me.

19. Please praise me, because I love you for what I did a great job. 20. If you are good to me, I will be better and better to you. 21. Although I was wrong, it is your problem not to forgive me.

22. I'm going to show some pony feet so you can see that I like you. 23. Can't I, a lovely little fairy, conquer your heart?

The coquettish tone can be said like this: 1. If you are not angry, come and hug me. 2. You don't have a hobby, you can only love me.

3. I'm not your cutie anymore. 4. You are like a book, the more you read it, the more you want to sleep. 5. I'm sleepy, touch my head and coax me to sleep.

6. Hold me high, hug me, hug me. 7. You need a kiss, otherwise you won't get up. 8. I'm super aggrieved, people are just angry.

9. I can't sleep, I have to hold you to fall asleep. 10. Your little ancestor is waiting for you, and there is only 1% of patience left. 11. Love is mutual, I like you, you have to kiss me.

12. I am very possessive, don't think about leaving when you get close to me. 13. I want to drink with you and pretend to be drunk, and ask you for a hug. 14. Husband, last year's lipstick is not worthy of me this year.

15. No matter how good others are, they belong to others, I am different, I am yours. 16. Isn't the sugar I ate for a day sweet enough, and you still don't kiss me. 17. I feel that there is a distance between the two of us, and they don't come to hug me when they get up in the morning.

20. If you are good to me, I will be better and better to you. 21. Although I was wrong, it is your problem not to forgive me. 22. I'm going to show some pony feet so you can see that I like you.

23. Can't I, a lovely little fairy, conquer your heart?

Can't put into words that feeling.

You can snort a little.

Do you have a way to practice it?

Showing their soft and cute side in front of men, few men can parry, big cute eyes, coquettish movements, soft and cute tone, can easily make men feel pity, and the heart will be soft in an instant, and they will feel that girls are seeking their own desire to protect, get self-esteem satisfaction, and involuntarily care about girls, and it is difficult to resist and unconsciously agree to girls' requests.

Wow, very cute voice,

Don't! No, I'm angry, people didn't mean it.

Add it to the end of the word.,Well,Ah,Try it like that.。