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There are taboos for white-haired people to send black-haired people: you can't wear white clothes, you have to wear plain clothes; If you can't put people in your home, you have to put your body somewhere else or cremate it directly.
Simplify as soon as possible. A family, if the young people fall, then the family is going to the pillars, the old and the young, the blow to a family is very big, the white-haired people send the black-haired people, the white-haired people can't send the black-haired people, the mother can't send the son "up the mountain". For a person who died at the age of only 20, it is even more important to be simple and avoid excessive sadness for the family.
When a young person dies, he cannot enter the ancestral grave, and even if he does, he cannot be in the middle, only in a remote corner, and the early death of a teenager is also considered to be a sin created by the ancestors in the previous life.
The punishment received, out of respect for the ancestors, can only be said to be short-lived people who die early, belonging to wild ghosts, not allowing them to enter their ancestral graves and destroying feng shui.
Some taboos after the death of a person.
1. The deceased's clothing taboos "satin" fabrics. Shroud.
The material is exquisite, and more silk is used, because "silk" and "thick" are homophonic, implying that future generations will have many children and grandchildren; It is taboo to use "satin", because "satin" is homophonic with "broken child". In addition, the number of pieces of shroud is generally.
Odd numbers such as three, five, seven, etc., no even numbers can be used.
2. Keep the period of filial piety and taboo to participate in happy events. Immediate family members.
Within 100 days of his death, try to keep filial piety at home, and do not travel to visit friends, let alone attend other people's weddings, because he has some bad luck.
Avoid influencing others.
3. During the period of filial piety, do not wear red and green. When observing filial piety, within 100 days, you must wear white filial piety clothes, not red and green; After 100 days, you can wear black or dark clothes. In today's society, many people wear the word "filial piety" instead, but they still can't wear red and green.
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1.You can't wear white clothes, you have to wear plain clothes.
2.If you can't put people in your home, you have to put your body somewhere else.
3.You can't leave your portrait at home.
4.You can't hold a big funeral and handle the funeral in a low-key manner.
5.Do not post Spring Festival couplets, do not shave your head, and do not take pictures within three years.
6.Tomb sweeping is not allowed on Qingming Festival.
7.It is not possible to worship ancestors on the seventh half (Halloween).
8.It is not allowed to visit relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year.
9.You can't move in the wax moon.
10.You can't break ground, you can't build graves.
11.You can't travel outside for three years.
12.You can't participate in other people's happy events.
13.You can't wear red clothes for a year.
14.Spring Festival couplets cannot be pasted within three years.
15.Red lanterns cannot be hung for three years.
16.Can't fire guns for three years.
17.No TV and no entertainment for three years.
18.You can't do big happy events (such as getting married, holding a full moon wine, etc.) within three years.
19.It is not possible to visit the patient for one year.
20.You can't swim in the water.
21.Short sleeves, skirts, and sandals are not allowed.
22.You can't write with a red pen.
23.You can't cut your nails or get your nails done.
24.It is not possible to take children to visit their ancestors.
25.The lunisolar calendar cannot be used to calculate auspicious days.
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The sentence that comforts the white-haired man to send the black-haired man is as follows:1. Everyone has this time, in fact, everyone will face it, maybe for him to leave is the beginning of another life, and they will remain in our hearts.
2. Relatives have taken the yellow crane to go, and the people go to the sound storage building is not empty. But to comfort mercy with a smile has never been the most hateful.
3. The deceased has ascended to the fairy world, and the living mourn smoothly.
4. Those who have left have just gone to another world. They're still watching you.
5. If you really lose, you must be stronger, and let the past pass, and the past cannot be recovered.
6. He is going to another place to complete his task, and we should bless him.
7. God is fair to everyone, and when you lose something, you also gain something valuable.
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Life to death is actually just a process, she has walked the road she should take, you and I are the same, after a hundred years, return to dust, only the sun and the moon are constant, reciprocating cycles, she sees you like this in heaven, do you think you will be happy?
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The more you comfort them, the more sad they will become, and you can only make them not think about it, and let them forget it.
You can try to find things for them to do or something to talk about so that they don't have time to think about them.
For example, ask dad to take the whole family on a trip, or pester them to watch some entertainment TV, depending on your own situation, you can think of a lot of ways to make them have no time to think about it, and slowly after a long time, they forget about it, and they will not be so sad.
I wish you a harmonious family, happy um, hehe.
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Spend more time with them. Time fades.
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It's the same thing as you, but I'm yesterday this year.
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1. The white-haired person sends the black-haired funeral, and the white-haired person has to hit the black-haired person's coffin three times with a stick, which means that he has been forgiven for the unfilial crime of not supporting him, so that the black-haired person can go west with peace of mind.
2. Widows. For pregnant funerals, at the time of the funeral, the widow is not allowed to send the funeral, and a 9-foot red cloth must be tied around the widow's waist and tied to the door.
3. The funeral of the deceased during pregnancy, most mothers will give birth or miscarriage naturally if they are pregnant with a male fetus, and some full-term male fetuses may survive, which is often called a coffin, most mothers will be stillborn if they are pregnant and the female fetus will be stillborn, if the fetus aborted after the death of the mother has also died, it must be wrapped in a nine-foot red cloth, tied to the waist of the fetus with hemp rope, and cremated or buried with the mother, and cannot be separated.
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Ephemeral. People live a long life, and fate can be changed. The normal life expectancy of a human being is more than 200 years.