I m 19 years old, but why do people always say I m a child?

Updated on society 2024-06-18
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You must be very good-looking, get to know you, hehe. The key to maturity is the heart, and it can be seen from what you do that you will naturally mature after more experience.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm always told like this.,It's very depressing.,Maybe it's the relationship between appearance and personality.,Take your time.。

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maturity is from psychological maturity, having a correct outlook on life and values, thinking carefully and carefully in doing things, observing things around you more, and reflecting on yourself, I think it's about the same

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Oh, we are the same type of people, 22 years old this year, people say I'm 16,17, In fact, you don't deliberately pursue maturity, because maturity is a state of mind, others see us as young, indicating that our mentality is young, there is a saying that is born from the heart, young mentality is not available to anyone, some people want to be unable to make the mentality young, and we, when we experience more, we will naturally have to mature, and maturity is not contradictory to cuteness, lovely people are easy to mature, But mature people are difficult to be cute, this is our advantage, it is our capital.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People should not be beautiful and cute, but because they are cute and beautiful, some people say that you are a child at the age of 19 is a very happy thing and not worth being annoyed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's not that the appearance is not mature enough, but it's a problem of personality.,19 years old doesn't look like mature,

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You'll know when you've cried in the middle of the night one day.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Experienced a lot. Naturally, it will mature.

    Haste makes waste.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's natural to be said to be immature. You don't need to mind much, either.

    I haven't experienced so many things, so how can I mature?

    Besides, having a childlike innocence is actually a beautiful thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Think about things too simply, think more about it in the future, with the growth of life experience, it will slowly mature, it's still small, it's not bad if it's immature, and you can't do it in the future!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Behavior, words and deeds, dressing up, and paying more attention to it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're only nineteen, why are you so mature? Nineteen has the appearance of nineteen! Why measure yourself by someone else's yardstick?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    We're all the same! In fact, immaturity is your strength, don't care what others say. Maturity can't live by appearance, psychological maturity is considered maturity. When you mature, you'll find that you'll age a lot overnight. Cherish it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't be too pediatric, just hehe, it depends on your face shape, and the couple is a baby face, I don't know if you're not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How to be a mature man? You yourself add your own age to the question, and you know that maturity is the accumulation of time and experience.

    The most important characteristic of maturity is that there is a sense of responsibility and responsibility.

    Mature men will help their mothers with housework, will not lose their temper with their parents at home, will participate in social time activities, no matter what the situation at home is, will want their own life, support themselves, will know which way to go, will have clear goals, will strive for their goals, work hard, know that humility is a virtue, know that thrift is also a virtue, know that solidity is a virtue ......

    A boy of your age, that's maturity.

    Do you accompany your mother to grocery shopping at home? Do you wash the dishes after eating?

    Or will you just reach out and open your mouth with your computer jacket?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is not too much direct relationship between maturity and age, but it cannot be said that there is no relationship.

    The more you experience and the more you understand, the more you will become mature, not that you will mature after what you do.

    Doing some things can only superficially see your maturity, but in reality it is not, you know.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's wait for another 10 or 8 years

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Wait ten years later.

    Maturity takes time and experience.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maturity is intellectual, not something that happens in a day or two.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After more experience, it becomes mature.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are more people and things to experience, more to think about, more to consider, greater responsibility, greater pressure, a sense of vicissitudes, and a sense of thought, and naturally mature.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maturity is an experience, not something that can be done superficially. You'll get to know later.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    19 years old is still a boy, not a man, you have to live two years.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    19 years old should look like 19 years old, why should you be so mature?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The external manifestation of maturity is speech and demeanor, and the real core is one's own self-cultivation, so it is useless to pursue appearance. On the contrary, it makes people with real insight think that you are superficial. So the best way is to increase your self-cultivation.

    If you want to change yourself in two months, then you might as well learn acting, and wear a mask anyway.

    My advice is, first, to pay more attention to current affairs, to see how others analyze it, to listen more and watch more, to talk less or even not to say. Then read history books, or task biography books, recommend "The Book of Zeng Guo's Family", and when you understand more, the words you say will naturally be different, and no one will treat you as a child.

    Remember, first of all, learn to hide your thoughts. The noise that always wants to show is called noise, which is a manifestation of a child's lack of scheming. Everyone's ideas will be wrong sometimes, but if you don't say it, no one will know, and then you can correct it yourself, if you rush to perform when the time is not ripe, you won't have a chance to change it when you find it wrong.

    Then there is stability, not in a hurry or impatience, speaking in a clear manner, and not being frightened. You have to know that what is manifested on the outside is often unreal. You have to be steady and patient to find out where the facts are.

    Of course, these things need to be based on knowledge, and the key is to read more books, observe more, and do more and talk less. It's just that sooner or later it will be exposed, so let's flesh it out.

    Finally, end with one sentence: broad view and appointment, thick accumulation and thin hair.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The process of maturation is related to the environment and the things a person has experienced, and this cannot be taught!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you have the heart to change, you will definitely succeed! It takes time for your mind to grow.

    My personal advice is to make friends with people who are more mature than you. Make good friends, but don't make bad friends.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Talk less and do more.

    Do something that others don't understand, be bold, be wild, be bloody.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Wow, I'm so envious! I'm just the opposite of you! I don't think it's hard to be like you!

    I'm 19 years old too! But it looked like I was at least 25 years old! I'm really depressed!

    Everyone said I was too precocious. My own analysis: You should live a carefree life, right? No pressure!

    The people you are dating are friends of the same age, too! I don't know if it's right! I came out at the age of 6 to work in society, and since then, I have made friends over 30 years old!

    And the family is stressful! I want to support my wife and family! The work is also not ideal.

    There are a lot of things to think about! The stress of working and working at home is a headache!

    You want to change your temper and personality for 19 years in two months, and you don't want to say something unpleasant, if this is just a stage of passage, I don't agree with it very much, because I now know a 30-year-old boy, and when I first met him, I mistakenly thought that he might be younger than me, who knows that he is 31 years old, dizzy! Who is this? How can you explain the temperament and personality of a child?

    In my experience, maybe you lack social experience? I don't know if it's right!

    Seeing that you have written this here, you already know that you are very simple. Hehe.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No way, others are others, you are you, and the little land is cute.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Less ideas and ripe ... You can do your own thing, and you'll be mature.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm 30 years old and immature, so I'm just normal.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No way, Mom and Dad are mature.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This can change the hairstyle and dressing style.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Refers to the appearance or the heart, to be specific. The shape depends on how you get it yourself, so you don't need to teach this.

    And inner maturity is not something that can be solved by studying as hard.

    In fact, I didn't tell you anything here, because maturity is not something you can do if you want to, it is the baptism of time and the accumulation of experience, and you don't have to deliberately change anything.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    1。Mature for a long time will be born, born for a long time will be ripe.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, what is the maturity of the mind?

    Is there an accurate standard?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What do you mean by maturity?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Being with someone who is more stable and single-minded will also make you mature.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Just don't mess around with children.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since you don't go to school anymore, let's go out and break through while you're young.

    Bring less money and stay away from your parents.

    Then in 2 years at most, you will know what society is.

    That's when you'll naturally mature.

    But don't run to the Traitor Section.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The experience of life will make you mature

    The boy doesn't know the taste of sorrow and falls in love with the floor. Fall in love with the floor, and say sorrow for the words.

    Now I know all the sorrows, and I want to talk about it. I want to say that I will not rest, but I will say that the weather is cool and autumn.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Oh, it's not easy to do, people, you have to be self-motivated, pay attention to your external image, change bad habits, exercise a lot, and you have to experience blows to grow up...

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