Help people in confusion, who should they turn to for help when they are most confused and helpless?

I felt like I should go to school first.

When you go out of society, you know that it's hard to make a name for yourself without knowledge.

Except that your brain is very smart.

I made the same choice at your time.

I chose to be an apprentice in a storefront, and now I regret that I made the wrong choice.

But when I was an apprentice, I learned a truth: you have to have perseverance in everything you do, you have to motivate yourself in order to achieve something, I hope you can understand what you should choose, what to do, choose a good goal, you must have perseverance, motivate yourself to accomplish the things you choose, complete or achieve.

Just graduated from junior high school for a year? Then you should be less than 20 years old, right?

The family conditions are limited, but it is not a problem to remember to support you, right?

Give yourself two years to set a goal. What you're missing now is a goal.

Now I'll give you a suggestion, find a city with a developed coastal economy and go there to find a job.

First of all, you will work as a waiter for 3-6 months (catering and entertainment projects), then you will work as a handyman, preferably for 1 year in a large company. Then you can go home, go home and find a job. Don't set your goals until then.

I didn't think about it until I was working from home for more than 3 months.

The last thing I want to say is "If you can, it's better to go to school, go to high school, go to college." "It's a waste of a year, and you can only squeeze in the rest of your own time.

Society: This place is not what you think.

Experience is to be accumulated on your own.

You can work first to earn money to support yourself.

Think about what you're going to do in the future.

Set goals for yourself for the future.

Make money on your own and then slowly learn technology.

I decided for myself in my own life, and if the family conditions were not good, it was better to go to school, which was the first opportunity for the poor to jump the dragon gate.

The people I think of when I am most confused and helpless in my life have stages.

The first stage was when I was a child, hanging out with my best children, but that day, I was deceived by her, and that was the first time I felt lost and helpless, and I thought of my parents and cried and told them to ask for help. The parents also dealt with the problem easily, and went directly to her parents. The boat of friendship capsized.

The second stage is when I was a young man, before I got married to my boyfriend, when I went to a different place to buy the necessary items for marriage, I had the first violent quarrel on an unfamiliar street for a trivial matter, and I felt very lost and helpless, and I didn't know whether to marry my boyfriend or not. The first thing that came to mind was my brother, who hit him and cried heartbreakingly.

The three stages of the first high school are now, and when I am middle-aged, I understand that others cannot change their lives, and the life of adults is not simple. Telling their loved ones only increases their worries and sadness. So now I bury everything in my heart and bear it silently by myself.

I can't know what my state of mind will be in the future, and who I will turn to for help when I am confused and helpless in the future. But I think that as long as you treat people with sincerity and do things seriously, everything will be better.

Every one of us will have a time when we are confused, it may be high school, it may be college, or it may be after work, in short, we will lose all interest in ourselves and the world in that moment, and we don't know what we want to do in the future and how to develop. Many people are very anxious when they are confused, but I want to say, you don't have to be anxious, because everyone will be confused, what you have to do is to go with the flow and use your best state to get through this period of confusion. So what should people do when they are confused?

1. Calm yourself down, relax yourself completely, and calmly analyze how you should continue to live.

When people are confused, what they are most afraid of is to make decisions in a hurry and bump around like a headless fly. If you are confused, then the first thing you need to do is to calm yourself down, let yourself be completely relaxed, and don't be bothered by these worries. You have to learn to calm down, and then after you calm down, you have to analyze how you should continue to live and how you will move on in the future.

When you are calm enough, you will find that this period of confusion is actually more conducive to your development.

2. You can go out for a walk and have a trip.

If you are very confused and don't know how to solve it, then I suggest that you can drop everything at this time, go out for a walk, and have a trip that belongs to you alone. You can go anywhere you want, feel free to walk in any scenic place, see this beautiful world, and let your soul be cleansed. A trip is very useful for people who are in a state of confusion, because when you are done with the trip, all the things that bother you will be solved.

It's not terrible to be confused, but what is terrible is that after you enter the period of confusion, you are willing to fall. You have to know that everyone is unique, everyone has a shining point, no matter how difficult the future is, you have to believe that you can have a better future.

What to do when you are confused.

Everyone will have times when they are confused, and when they are confused, I think we can relax ourselves appropriately and relax our minds, such as going out for a shopping and looking at the scenery. When the mood is relaxed, the confusion is gone.

When you are confused, stop for a while, think about what you really want, how to go next in the future, don't keep forcing yourself to move forward, it is meaningless to move forward when you are confused.

When people are confused, they should find their own direction and find their own way, and then they can continue to make progress and live up to expectations.

When people are confused, they don't have to do anything, they just need to do one thing, which is to read. Only reading can save people from confusion.

Everyone has moments of confusion. But why the confusion? This should be from the essence of **, confusion originally refers to a vague, trance-like expression, is the most common mental problem that people encounter at the moment.

Because people do not have a correct understanding of the world they are in and the life they want to experience, they do not know what to do, how to do it, and they cannot find a sense of helplessness.

Most chicken soup for the soul will tell you that the ultimate reason for confusion is because your own ability can't support your desires, but you can't find the direction you want to work towards. Although this sentence sounds a little reasonable, but work hard in one direction, only ask about the cultivation, not the harvest. This is also not good, this can easily make people on the road ahead, one road to the dark, there is a sense of determination not to hit the south wall, never look back.

Confusion is something that everyone will experience, it is a normal thing, don't be too desperate to look at confusion. When you are confused, do something to divert your attention and don't get too anxious. The only thing you can do is live each day and do everything well in the moment.

When you feel lost, read more books to enrich your spiritual world. Go outside and increase your knowledge. Broaden your horizons and adjust your mood.

Or choose to go out with a pair of friends, communicate with friends, and then seek advice and help from others. If you look at the reason for your confusion from an objective perspective, you may know what to do. When a person is always alone at home, he will feel very depressed, which will cause him to have some bad emotions.

Relax and let off steam. When a person has too much pressure and has too many things to think about, he will feel very tired and irritable, and he will feel more lost at this time. We must believe that everything we experience now is a kind of life experience for our future self.

There is always some time in life that is used to get confused and find the right direction.

Confusion is like wearing a pair of awkward shoes, although I wear it every day to walk, and slowly I get used to it. But suddenly one day, when you need to go up one step after another, you can feel the pain caused by your shoes. Adhere to your own values, improve your ability, enrich your thoughts, and enrich yourself.

I believe that confusion is only temporary, to work hard to live, work hard to make money, and work hard to meet everything you want. Set yourself a goal and achieve it so you don't feel lost.

It's best to read some books when you're confused. By enabling us to find the meaning of life. It helps us a lot and can set a goal for us.

When you are confused, you should communicate with your friends and family to get them to give them some advice, and then be positive.

First of all, you must understand what you want and take action towards this goal, so that you do not become confused.

What to do when you are confused.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

As a human being, everyone has their own dreams. When the gap between one's ideals and reality is too great, do you continue to work hard? Or backwards? You need to think rationally.

The most important thing to do is to solve the problem of supporting yourself. And then do it practically.

In fact, you should take advantage of your youth to learn a skill, and you will have a bowl of rice to eat in the future. Everything in the world can be snatched away by others, but no one can snatch it except for the technology that you have mastered. That's your precious treasure.