What is the name of a person who cries for the dead at a funeral?

Dead people who are better before they die.

Do you have to cry at a funeral? No! Shi Liangfeng does not fake crying, does not treat crying as a performance, and does not act, which is the greatest respect for the deceased.

The personalities are different between people, and some people don't cry at funerals, not because this person is too cold-blooded and impersonal. It's because he has a strong sense of self-protection and wears a set of protective armor, so he can't take off his guard in front of everyone's face key cover, and show his vulnerability and sadness to others, so he can't easily shed tears in front of everyone. In private, such people are reluctant to give up the death of their loved ones, and often cry more in the corner, more grief than others.

Crying is not a performance, let alone crying to others, to show how filial you are. When your relatives are alive, you can do a good enough job and do your best to take care of your relatives and be filial to your relatives, which is the best virtue in the world.

When a dead person dies, someone goes to hang filial piety, it is human nature, human affection, gratitude, and succession.

Death or sacrifice or filial piety is a very solemn and sad thing.

People, because they have family affection, affection, useful affection, and kindness, so after a person dies, there will be people who go to cook, sacrifice, mourn filial piety, and mourn scenes.

So after death, when many women go to mourn filial piety, why do they fake crying. I think there are a couple of scenarios. The first is the affection of blood relatives. The second is intimacy. The third is the love of acting. Fourth, it is indispensable.

Those who are in love with blood relatives, after death, are in a state of grief and grief, and their eyes are astringent and sad, and their hearts are piercing and their hearts are broken. This is the blood relationship between relatives. This kind of emotional remorse exists, even if you don't let him or her cry, she will also wail.

The second is those who are close and sparse, mostly referring to clans and distant relatives. Those who are close to the clan for more than three generations will mourn, but they will not cry. Within three to five suits, they will cry, they will shed tears from time to time, but they will not continue to cry, because they are not very concerned about their grandchildren.

Most of the clan relatives and distant relatives outside the five costumes will cry a few times when they start to go to the spirit, so as not to be unaccustomed to it or gossip. In the future, just to help with the cooking or funeral, wear filial piety and follow the funeral procession with a mourning stick, and it is difficult to have a crying elephant.

The third is those who are like acting.

Classmates, colleagues, acquaintances, friends, distant relatives, etc., after these women arrived. If you don't go to the front of the spirit, you can't talk about it, and you don't care about it, so you can only cover your face and spread your eyes twice with a handkerchief to show that you have cried. Because he doesn't have a sense of kinship, he doesn't have a sense of kindness, so it's really like singing.

He also saved face, and it was also an explanation to the parties. As for whether you really cry or not, who cares about this?

Fourth, it is indispensable.

Generally, neighbors, acquaintances, people who work together, people who look up and don't look down, and outsiders who usually have indispensable friendships and contacts. When encountering this kind of thing, it is indispensable to be wide in human affection (regardless of feelings), and it is necessary to go, and it is in line with human nature and human etiquette to go in the mood of helping to deal with chores. But after this kind of woman goes, some of them may come forward twice when they think of their old love, and they won't shed tears.

When the host's family Kai answers, the bright person or the next person says yes, don't cry. She would use this to stand up or talk a few words, and then go home, going through the motions without falling into words. And some people give the gift of filial piety and don't go to the spirit at all.

Because these are all people who have no kindness and emotional foundation, and it is a good phenomenon for these people to be present to cheer. The hosts are all understanding.

When a person dies and the soul leaves the body, it's like when you wake up in a dream, you feel some loss, but you don't cry. If you cry, it means that your soul has left you, and your soul has gone to another place, which may be heaven or hell, and you will feel very lonely, so you will cry sadly. This is the normal psychology of human beings.

Don't worry, it's normal. You can pray in your heart for your loved ones and bless them with happiness and joy in that world.