Under what circumstances do you think people would make friends with a stranger?

I'm a talkative person, and when I'm carpooling, or even on the train, I can become friends with a stranger, as long as it's two people who can talk.

It's a very boring time, and when you're bored, you think about socializing, so two people happen to start talking on a boring occasion, and maybe they can become friends.

When you are very lonely, or very helpless, at this time, someone has helped you, and you will be very grateful in your heart.

When you arrive in an unfamiliar work environment, the first person to talk to you is very likely to become your friend, and you will regard him as a warm person in your heart, and you will think that he will become your friend.

Maybe two people have similar temperaments and faculties, and they fall in love with each other from the exchange, and they see in their hearts that this person has many advantages and is worth learning from themselves, and they feel a little late to see each other, and think that they can become friends.

To be honest, there are really too many such situations, toilets, when you don't have paper, when you go out, when you need someone to help you with things or something, it's possible.

Personally, I probably had something in common with this stranger at that time, both internally and externally, and we both found that the other might love this more than we did, such as in a bookstore, when you flipped through a common book, or different books by the same author, and felt very close to each other. I think I want to communicate more and become friends next time.

I think when I'm bored, I make friends with a stranger, eat in the same place, take pictures in the same place, and participate in the same event, so I might make friends because of my interests.

In fact, I think a lot of friendships come from accidents, accidents, this kind of accidents make you can't help but want to communicate with each other, and accidents often have something in common between the two parties, like seeing the same pair of gloves in "Serendipity" and taking them at the same time; In the elevator, you see someone standing next to you holding a book in your hand, and you can't help but chat.

My parents started my own business when I was very young, and their money-making minds were constantly influencing me, so I chose challenging jobs as I grew up.

My parents opened a wholesale supermarket when I was three years old, and there are many rural shippers who will buy goods at our house, so every time I am at home, my parents are very busy, although they don't have much time to spend with me since I was a child, but they give me good living conditions. When I was very young, I talked to the shippers at home, and they thought that I was not afraid of strangers at a young age, and they would think that I was a very cheerful child, and I became very confident because of their encouragement. In my spare time in junior high school, I will help my parents sell goods together, and there are a lot of ** that I set my own prices after knowing the reserve price, so I will position different ** according to the identity of the guest Sakura people.

So at that time, I started to learn from my parents' way of making money, they didn't do a big business, but there were a lot of business acumen that I could learn from.

Because I have been in contact with a lot of businessmen since I was a child, I have also learned a lot from them, and since I started college, I have done some small business with my classmates, although it is not big, but I have made a lot of money. Because I have been communicating with a lot of strangers since I was a child, my personality is very outgoing, I am not afraid to chat with strangers at all, but I prefer to listen to strangers and tell them some interesting things in life, which will make me feel extra relaxed. So after graduating, I was very relaxed in sales, I could quickly chat with strangers, and they would pay for me.

Because my parents have given me a good life since I was a child, my values are different from those of others, I am not willing to live a more ordinary life now, I want to make more money like my parents, and sell the future to give my children a better life. I have a greater desire for money than many of my peers, and I have been working hard for a better life.

Actually, I'm quite willing to chat with strangers on the Internet, probably because I don't know each other, and I don't have to worry about any sedan chairs, so I have no fear when we talk, and I can say nothing at all. I feel that chatting is very easy, with no need to hide it, semi-reserved, especially real, I feel that the self who chats with strangers is the most real self that is boring, sometimes I can't say things with good friends, but I chat with strangers more ......

It's okay to have a chat and pass the time.

What should you do if a stranger wants to make friends with you while traveling? When young people go out to travel, they often encounter such problems: on the train, on the boat, or even in the tourist destination, some people who do not know each other talk to themselves and even want to make friends with you. What should we do in this situation?

Today, in the 80s, the personality traits of young people are becoming more and more open-minded, and some people regard social interaction as a means to exercise themselves and expand their social horizons, and even young tourists have appeared specifically for the purpose of making friends. This is certainly a good change from the previous years, when most of them were closed-minded, sheep-like youth. However, in social interactions, there are also some people who have impure motives for making friends, or even have a bad ideological awareness, and take advantage of the opportunity to make friends to engage in extortion, so that many people who lack a prudent attitude are rashly deceived.

Especially during the journey, when there are strangers who want to make friends with you, you should be more cautious, but don't categorically refuse other people's contact with you, which is easy to hurt the kindness of some people, and it also seems that you are too young. Just don't show all your details, and don't get along with each other at first sight without knowing each other. I have a friend from college who used his summer vacation to travel to the south by writing poems to save money and save a little money from living expenses.

In the end, he led the two strangers to the hotel where he was staying, and prepared to stay with them for dinner.

As a result, when he bought a meal ticket and returned to his room, the room was empty, and his money had been stolen. As soon as I saw these people from the "magical world", all the strings in my heart relaxed, you came and went, talked about everything, and in serious cases, they actually lost their national character and personality.

Of course, don't make friends with strangers too scary, like a great enemy. We are not averse to making friends with strangers. In fact, which bosom friend around you has not gone from stranger to acquaintance!

The key is to have a measured relationship for the first time and grasp the "degree" of conversation. First of all, don't brag and boast to others;

At the same time, don't be gullible about those who brag to you and boast about Haikou, and don't shy away from those who treat each other with sincerity and really want to make friends with you. If you feel that you are speculative with each other, you may wish to leave your mailing address to each other so that you can establish a correspondence link in the future.

Friendship between friends is deepened through continuous interaction and understanding. If, in the future correspondence, you feel that this person cannot talk to you and do not want to associate with him anymore, then you should also write a letter to explain the reason to others euphemistically, and do not be too blunt to cause undue doubts. No matter what kind of strangers you treat when traveling, you should take a cautious, serious and serious attitude, and not be gullible and frivolous.

As long as you have a decent and serious attitude towards making friends, you should be confident that you can handle the problem of making friends with strangers.