I feel like a waste, what if I feel like a waste

I think I experienced the same situation at the beginning, because I suddenly realized that after a few years of school life, I should grow up, and it was time to take on the responsibility of society and family, and I suddenly felt very lost. Because I have a very strict and controlling mother, under the complete control of my mother, I don't know what hobbies I have, what specialties I have, and I don't know how to follow my own path in the future. I wasn't good at getting along with anyone, because my mother only told me to study but didn't allow me to go out.

It's ridiculous to say that my childhood and the plot of the comic book turned out to be so imaginary.

I was also very pessimistic and hopeless, thinking all the time about the point of living for a worthless person like me. Not only do I not have any special skills, but I also don't have anything that makes me want to do what I like. The life of the walking dead left me hollow.

I think I can probably understand the feeling that you don't want to come into contact with anyone, because you are afraid of being hurt by others, and you are afraid that you have to live hypocritically against your own will in order to be recognized by others.

But then I gave up and gave up being like everyone else. Even if nothing is great, as long as I can support myself. Even if it seems strange in the eyes of others, but so what?

I didn't steal, I didn't rob, I didn't hurt or get in the way, is there anything else I should blame? Am I still more intolerable than those who destroy other people's families, those who seek money and kill people, and those who bully the weak?

I'm still not good at creating topics, atmosphere, and getting along with other people, but it's strange that many people think I'm trustworthy because I don't talk much, but I'm good at listening to other people's troubles.

I was also called cynical because I was disappointed in a lot of things in the world. But I still think it's good as long as I don't do anything against my conscience. Even if the world is full of hurt, no one can avoid it, and since we can't be strong enough not to be hurt, we just try not to care about today's pain and imagine that tomorrow will be happy.

Even if you are so ordinary that you are useless, there is nothing, because there will always be things that we can do, as long as we are willing to learn. I also obviously think that I know a little bit about many things, but it's strange that many people envy me later.

As long as it's not a bad thing, you might as well get in touch with everything, you can always find your beloved from thousands of things in the world.

Forgive me for talking a lot of nonsense, because I think you and I used to be so imaginative. I hope you can get out of the confusion as soon as possible and have a bright and open-minded day.

I also think that the third dimension is very tragic, and I love ACG, but it's just a hobby, and it hasn't reached the point of addiction yet. Generally, college freshmen will have a long period of hesitation, anxiety, and loss of confidence and motivation in themselves, the future, and their lives. It's all normal, as long as you try to regulate your thinking and change certain ways of thinking, you will find motivation and hope.

If necessary, you can find teachers, seniors, and friends to communicate. Society is made up of people, and since people live in society, they will inevitably be involved with each other. Don't feel troublesome, some relationships can actually bring different excitement and emotion to your life.

Cherish everyone around you and embrace a grateful heart, I believe you will also harvest a lot of unexpected surprises. As for falling in love in college or something, just have a normal mindset, and you'll always show up at the right time. If you feel lonely, make more friends, in the dormitory, in the same class and even in other schools, good friends can always be by your side when you are sad and sad.

In addition, you don't have to worry too much about eye phobia or something, it is estimated that you are too sensitive and have low self-esteem. If there is really a low quality that discriminates against you, strive to pursue progress in learning and work ability, and strive to impress them. In short, believe in yourself and change yourself!

I hope you will shine your unique light as soon as possible and discover the beauty around you!

Friend, it's good that you can recognize your own shortcomings, but your shortcomings need to be corrected. You lack self-confidence, in fact, you just need to smile a little more at the people around you, say hello when you meet, and slowly the people around you will naturally like you! In fact, we don't have to care too much about other people's opinions in our lives, they can't replace our lives, we just need to be confident and enrich ourselves!

I wish you happiness and happiness!

And the three-dimensional cup You're almost out of the cup yourself If you want to go down alone forever Then you can move out The place where you can get familiar with your classmates in college is the dormitory You will never know who is sitting next to you in the classroom Let alone be familiar with it Communicate more with your classmates.

Going to the Buddha hall or Buddha service to find a translated version of the scriptures to read, it will be of great help to guide you in life. Such as "The Wisdom of Life", "The Sutra of the Six Patriarchs" and "The Essence of Buddhism".

It should be said that it is a waste of wood!

What to do? Light a fire and let it burn.

Get out there. Step into the crowd. You think you're the focal point. All eyes are on you. Beauty, you.

It's as if you burned the transparent one. Do whatever you want, do whatever you want, and behave it. No one will discriminate against you! Because few people pay attention to you.

Summary. Pro-1: Feeling that you are a waste means that you are still self-motivated, thoughtful, and have brains, and can see yourself clearly, and you are not a waste.

What to do if you feel like a piece of waste.

Pro-1: Feeling that you are a waste means that you are still self-motivated, thoughtful, and have brains, and can see yourself clearly, and you are not a waste.

2: I was born to be useful, but you haven't discovered your strengths yet, or buried your strengths, so analyze what you can do yourself? What will be done? Ask yourself what you want? Find out your strengths and set your own goals in life.

3: The rest is to work towards the goal, don't be decadent, find motivation, find the right motivation, fill up the gas, you can achieve your ideals.

4: Life is not smooth sailing, ditches and bumps are common, and there will be broken heads and blood flows. But as long as you give, you get something. Waste can also be turned into treasure.

Dear, please remember the most beautiful <> of self-confidence in life

Why do you feel like a waste, it may be because you have nothing to do, and you suddenly realize that you have grown up to be someone else's dependence, but you are not ready, and you don't have the capital to realize that you should work hard or ......be ruthlessAdjust your mentality to always have your own shining point, in addition, you can play your good skills, constantly encourage yourself, use your smartest side, you have to learn to help each other, do something meaningful, when you don't understand the problem, you can ask, one by one things are perfect, so that you will feel a sense of achievement, find self-confidence, face more problems that occur in life, well, you must not be discouraged, find self-confidence, is the beginning of you stand up, come on!

Summary. Good evening, dear little brother! First of all, you have to be firm in your belief that you are not a waste, and with this strong belief, you will be able to change your current situation.

What to do if you feel like a piece of waste.

Good evening, dear little brother! First of all, you have to be firm in your belief that you are not a waste, and with this strong belief, you will be able to change your current situation.

Little brother, the reason why you feel this way may be that when you do things, the chance of success is relatively small, and many things cannot be done, which causes you to have this kind of thinking. In fact, before we do things, we must consider our own ability, we must consider the possible situation, then, and then decide whether to do this, in this way, the possibility of success will become greater, once successful, people's self-confidence will have, then they will take the initiative to find a way to do something in the future, this is what we call a virtuous circle, so I recommend that you must follow my advice to you before doing things in the future.

As long as you don't give up on yourself, others can't defeat you.

First, I hope that you will have a more positive and sunny attitude, including your evaluation of yourself, which should be more positive and fair.

Be open-minded, horizontal, and thoughtful.

Be good at seeing your own strengths, strengths, and strengths, rather than always staring at your own shortcomings.

Second, young people still have to have ideals and revenge. You're about to become an adult, and you still have to find your direction and purpose in life.

Including being able to talk to teachers, classmates, and family members, ** life.

For the country, for the society, for the family, for the career, for the professional ......It's all very meaningful.

I hope you will think and explore it widely. Including with everyone, talk more, talk about it.

Usually, you can read some inspirational and biographical books to learn from advanced and exemplary figures.

Third, have you encountered anything unhappy and unsmooth recently?

The psychological quality should be improved.

If you are not arrogant or discouraged in victory, you still have to adjust your mentality.

In fact, everyone's life has peaks and valleys, and there are times when you are depressed and feel lost.

However, after the rain is a sunny day, there are always more solutions than problems, and it is necessary to believe: everything will be fine!

You can also consult a psychiatrist when you find time. I believe there will be a harvest.

In fact, it is just inferiority and self-abandonment, and it is just to really find its own advantages and carry it forward. Then you are a success.

But I'm working very hard, I'm working 17 hours a day, but I don't feel like it's working, and I don't have much time now, I really don't know what to do, it's not a way to work hard, it's not a way to work hard.

Reply.. Efforts must have a direction, a method, only enthusiasm is far from enough, the most important thing is to find a way to succeed more, quickly succeed, so that you have the momentum to persevere, this is the core.

If you work hard, you may not succeed, but if you don't work hard, you will not succeed.

Effort, simplicity and focus, positive and optimistic, God rewards hard work, hard work, must decompose the goal, quickly succeed, and persevere to the end.

Okay, I understand, thank you.

Don't think so, be confident. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is important to put your own shortcomings into perspective. Strive to improve yourself.

1.Don't set yourself some goals that are difficult to achieve, you must correctly understand your current situation, face up to your condition, and don't let yourself fall into messy affairs; 2.Try to socialize with people more, don't always be alone, make more friends to relieve your depression.

No matter what, you can't think of yourself as a waste like this, you have to have confidence in yourself, find something to do, and let yourself have a goal.

You're only 17 years old and you're here, and there's a good chance you're probably in a bit of a predicament right now.

You have to be confident and feel that you are a useful person and that you have merits.