Why does my little brother always ask me to help him with his things?

On this subject, please forgive me for being a little indifferent and snobbish to some of your family's practices, both sensitively and morally. Why? Please read carefully, it has a direct relationship with you, your family and even the world in society, and at the same time, it will only have a very terrible impact on your future life path and spiritual growth and personality cultivation.

As the saying goes, what is the fundamental difference between a family and an outsider? Blood. Whenever something is about to happen that involves personal interests, people tend to think of themselves.

Just ask, if you swap roles with your little brother, what will you bring when you accidentally learn about their thoughts back then at some point in the future? Besides, the divorce of his parents is already an unfortunate thing for him, and it is a fact that he can't change. Is this his depression and his changes directly related?

At this time, what he needs most is sincere care and cordial communication, by using the most precious love in the world to help him, encourage him, so that he can realize his mistakes, so that you can all become a real family, isn't this the kindest and most precious harmony in the world?

As his brother, you are a little at a loss in dealing with this matter, the past is irretrievable, and who knows what will happen in the future, a manly man, be open-minded, long-term, and work hard to help him, please stand in his perspective and experience it with your heart. If his parents hadn't divorced, if he had learned about it now, of course, I believe you wouldn't want it to happen, and I can see that you still have good intentions, but you are a little overwhelmed by what you have to say. Remember, the sincere friendship between brothers must be passed by both parties with sincerity and practical actions through the test of time, in the future on the road of your life, help each other, remember that helping others must be your own volition, no return.

Please have more kindness and true feelings in your heart, start from yourself together, and be a kind and upright person. Inheritance is just someone else's thing, not relying on your own hands with hard work and wisdom, and the wealth created is your future life goal. Don't be a slave to money, ask for money to provide services to you, maybe on the road ahead, when you need help, your little brother will appear in front of you?

Reach out your hand when others need help the most, and remember that the good cause and effect are in your hands.

I think you already know what you have to do, may you be reconciled as before, may your whole family be in harmony and happiness.

My little brother even asked me to help him bring food every day.

If he was young, he would change. Don't worry.

Maybe it's time to have a good talk with him and talk to him.

Oh, dizzy, you should subdue him and let him help you work, my brother has that kind of power, such as asking him to pour you a glass of water, and you say: Brother, pour me a glass of water. Always let him do the work for you!

Let him adapt from now on, and he should respect his brother when he is a younger brother! He has to listen to what his brother says, but you can't bully him all the time. Hey.

Give it to me! Thank you.

You're too stingy, you're a brother! It's right to take care of your brother! You're still so calculating.

How old is your brother, if he is too young, you have to educate him, if he is older, try to stay away, tutoring is not something that can be formed in a day or two.

Let's talk about my brother, the tutor is poor at fried chicken, such as beating grandparents, they think it's a joke but in fact they start very hard, and then the tone of voice to others is particularly bad.

The rule they gave me was to put his own bowl in the kitchen after eating, and he was left alone, so he wouldn't let it go, I stopped him and said, put it in the kitchen, people sat on the sofa and ignored me, I repeated it again and he ignored you, very unhappy, and then I put my hand on his shoulder and looked at him, and then hit me?

In the end, I hammered him, and my grandparents came out to accuse me, saying why didn't I let him, the child is still young, every time I have an argument, they are these words, "big let small", "the child is still young", "you are a sister" never think about my feelings.

That day, I was so heavy that I was so angry that I was trembling, my whole body was shaking, I pinched his leg, and I heard my father say that it seemed to be rotten, and the corresponding revenge was that my nails were broken and my nails were blue.

It's okay, it's not a loss. I didn't want to stay at home for the next few days, and I stayed in my room with the door locked. Grandma went back to her hometown, grandpa went to bed early, I went to class, and no one asked me until ten o'clock, I was home alone, and I felt like I was about to be depressed a few days ago.

But also, only consider your own emotions, and do not consider the harm to your family. After all, half-brother, for mother, the younger brother is undoubtedly the treasure in her hand, more important than anything else, can you feel distressed if your baby is pinched like this?

Dad and Mom are not so harmonious, and they often quarrel, Mom has been enduring it because of her younger brother, and Dad finally said that he could talk about it in the future, but he was very aggrieved at the time, and he was afraid that Mom would get angry and make trouble with him.

As for why I care about him, because I think he is my brother after all, and he is a family with me, and tutoring is very important to one. So I want him to be polite.

I don't think it's right for your brother to always take your stuff, but as an older person you should educate him slowly, and not you should reprimand him with harsh criticism.

This is a bad behavior, and good habits should be cultivated from an early age. You can stop your brother the next time he takes your stuff and tell him that it's very incorrect.

Let him be, he is your brother, one of the closest people in your world, and when you are older, you will find that these past are not actually very important, what matters is those family affections, friendships, not these material things.

I don't think that's right, but the things that need to be used by me can come to me directly, you should talk to me, you can't take it directly, and good habits should be started from a young age.

You educate him well, if he is still young, you can forgive, if he is older, he should not be, to make it clear that this is your thing, he can't take it.

I think you should teach him this well, it's not right to take other people's things, and it's okay to say that your own relatives are okay, if you are outside, it will be very serious.

Personally, I think it's a bad habit and if it's not dealt with in time, it can cause a lot of damage later on.

You have to learn to guide him in the right way, although you are relatives, you still have to distinguish each other, and you have to tell each other about other people's things first.

Communicate with him directly, tell him that you can't mess with your things, it's hard for you to find, and you can ask him to think a little more.

I think it's a bad habit, and if it were me, I would definitely tell my parents about it and let them stop it.

Try to lock the door as much as possible, everyone has everyone's privacy.